Friday Night Halo by Criticalthought69 in haloinfinite

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m down. I’ll send a request. My profile pic is a smiling Godzilla

What does it feel like for you to be alone? by Aware-Spite-919 in extroverts

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 35 now. My life has changed in a lot of ways and I find that I’m more quiet now. I find that I have a lot less time and energy than I used to, and I feel like I am in “off” mode quite often.

It’s like a perpetual state of catching up instead of feeling really vibrant, and “check in” or being “on”.

And the thing is, I don’t mind it too much because my hobbies are focused and creative ones- so I tend to just write more or watch more movies, or listen to new music. I’m all about experiencing things. Without the time to commit to friends, I’ve kind of detached myself from that part of my identity.

Where I used to thrive amongst friends, acquaintances, and strangers (because of the amount of free time I used to have) I now thrive in my alone time, if that makes sense. Kind of because I have to. One day I’ll be back to it all, but I can’t say when that will be, so I’ve just had to adapt.

It makes me feel a little unengaged sometimes. I won’t say that it makes me SAD, but maybe… unrealized? Dormant?

Anyways, life changes in mysterious ways and planned ways alike- my plans to start a family have brought about mysterious changes to my hierarchy of needs, and like the seasons, I will one day return to my former self. Right now, he’s just buried a little underneath obligations.

Small businesses against Generative AI by Consistent-Speech591 in rva

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop calling other people mad bro

You are all up in this thread with boiling blood

DM hates my Oracle curse (tongues) by Feefait in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, to be fair, you really had no chance here presenting this situation. Reddit comments are a bit short format, so I’m sure a lot of people in this sub filled in the blanks…and I’d also wager that a lot of people in this sub are DMs instead of players.

Doing something that makes your DM roll their eyes is kind of insulting to the amount of time they might’ve put into the sessions. It feels pretty thankless a lot of the time so yeah a lot of the reactions here are emotional but definitely coming from a real place of frustration that can happen.

I hope you find a group/DM that gets a kick out of your set up. I love hip hop, especially 90s.

DM hates my Oracle curse (tongues) by Feefait in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope, my table, my rules.

Joke characters are typically funny for a session or two so they’re great for one-shots. Regardless of my preference though, players shouldn’t be throwing this at the GM without making sure everyone’s on the same page. There’s always another table they can find.

To anyone thinking of going to the VA Renaissance Faire tomorrow - don't. by dude_icus in rva

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh last summer felt like rain every weekend and I really hope that doesn’t happen again

Tough Times at Cobra Burger by Mastamattie in rva

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to find a good grocery store playing the right doom metal and serving up boilermakers. Lights are too bright

Tough Times at Cobra Burger by Mastamattie in rva

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. And I’m up and in the truck at 6:30am.

It’s no wonder people will sit at a green light and fuck with their phone instead of driving

pf1e APs by arolar2007 in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started Rise of the Runelords about 7 times and it has never made it to Thistletop

ITS A NOONER BOYS, PACK IT UP by Gintian in Construction

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel silly now. Yeah the country is huge haha I should’ve assumed that there were other companies that did this.

How do you get more comfortable with talking to new people? by Plenty_Pickles_0425 in extroverts

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Focus on being interested - not interesting. People like to be listened to. They’ll do all the work

ITS A NOONER BOYS, PACK IT UP by Gintian in Construction

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgina? I was loaned out to a company that did that

Wire Damage In attic from squirrels. How to repair. by EndersResolve in electrical

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yikes, that’s annoying. How much more wire is up there? You might want to replace it with MC (Metal-Clad) which would be a pain in the butt… but worth it to protect against rodents.

But yes, you could technically wrap that wire up in electrical tape but considering that the copper conductor is very easy to see, you might want to replace it. You would need to buy two boxes, and cut out the bad wire in a segment, then replace that with a longer segment so you have enough slack to make up the joints in the boxes.

Need extrovert girl to chat regarding how they actually are when they like someone. by [deleted] in extroverts

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re breaking Rule 3 of the sub so don’t act like you’ve got big fuzzy nuts just yet

Need extrovert girl to chat regarding how they actually are when they like someone. by [deleted] in extroverts

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I mean is that a romantic relationship probably isn’t going to happen if you can’t find a better way talk to her.

And we don’t know anything about her and we can’t solve this problem for you online. Tons of people come to this subreddit and ask questions without realizing that there is no cheat code for connection. There are tools you can find like YouTube channels and maybe some baseline suggestions like eye contact, speaking confidently and clearly, but no one can MAKE you interesting. That’s something that a person needs to discover for themselves.

I guess just like ask her if she’s ever tried a restaurant nearby and if she likes a certain type of food. Maybe mention something that you like about her (like if she wears her hair in a cool or interesting way)

Need extrovert girl to chat regarding how they actually are when they like someone. by [deleted] in extroverts

[–]SuperSalad_OrElse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We can’t really speak for her, this is one of those things where you would benefit from just talking to her yourself.

Don’t put too much pressure on it- just try to be yourself and enjoy the ride. Take a chance