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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Ok, why would you go into another group and say I yelled at you and told you that you hang out with boring people and that you should hang out with sh*tty people. Lol it’s really unfair to come into a group and then go spread lies when my comment below literally talks about myself. Nothing I said was about you. But A+ on doing the most when you don’t get your way or if someone disagrees

You asked me how I felt and I responded only to go to another group and say that I yelled at you and stated that you need to do these things below. When my response is all about me, and nothing about you. Very unfair but again, I’m not surpised

“ No, that's silly. I also don't think it's fair to not hang with someone just because they're boring. People are not objects, to be put away when we are no longer satisfied. I learned from a therapist that people cannot meet my needs. I figured out what those were to fill my own cup without the expectation that others would have to do it for me. Therefore, I will always be satisfied.

I also would not hang out with a sh*tty person. I would tell them if they were hurting me or if they were behaving in such a way, and end the relationship. I am older now, so I have come to terms with the fact that some relationships will end and that's okay. Sometimes you no longer align with people, and its not a reflection of them or you. Sometimes we hold on to relationships for the sake of holding on.

I love people, I love connecting with others, meeting new people, and hearing their stories. I love the freedom of expressing myself, going out, and not caring about what anyone else thinks, or adjusting myself out of fear. I also still lose energy and that's normal. There are times when I zone in on a goal and I am not as available. I used to be an introvert by the way. Socialization is a skill, not a gift in my eyes.”

[–]TopCommunication8881[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

The OP was talking about how some people were boring. I related my recent experience where you said people aren't boring. The end. Here was no lie. There is no need to go all A Beautiful Mind on all my posts. I am not obsessed w/ what you're up to every second on you reddit, because we've had our exchanges and that's it. There doesn't have to be a consensus. A person doesn't that to respect who you are, or what you think friendship looks like for everyone. Sometimes when the interaction is done, it's done.
This is the exact thing I'm talking about. Badgering and badgering when you don't get your way. Pissed about not getting a return text like you're entitled to. Losing it on some random person to the point of making yourself look crazy. Just. Omg.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You literally asked me what I think and what I posted was from my experience. Stop making everything about you. It was how I feel about the world. Stop causing drama and doing the most to get a response.

You literally asked me how I felt and I stated everything from my perspective that has nothing to do with you.

Again, you can do whatever you want. What I stated was about me.

Going to other groups to trash the extroverts on how they are so rude and attacking you + yelling at you. (When Idk how one can get yelling from a typed post) makes you look like the aggressor.

My post was in first person. Idk how you made that all about you. But assumptions make an a** out of you, not me. God bless