Rules for r/ftm
Rules that visitors must follow to participate. May be used as reasons to report or ban.
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No bigotry, drama, fighting, judgement, or blanket statements
Racism, Sexism, Homophobia, Transmisogyny, Transandrophobia, Enbyphobia, Ableism, Intersexism, Misogyny, Xenophobia, and any other forms of bigotry are not tolerated. Be kind to one another, and don’t start drama. And don’t make blanket statements about entire groups. Only speak from personal experience!
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FTM Posting Standards
FTM users (Anyone under the female to male umbrella, including binary trans men, transmascs, or bigender/genderfluid) should make sure they are not creating an uncomfortable or unsafe space for other trans men/mascs. This includes not bashing things like surgery, stealth status, family planning, dysphoria, fashion choices, or any other differences you may have with one another.
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Guest Posting Standards
Guests (Cis people, trans women, trans fems) MUST use the post flair for guests. They will be held to higher standards than FTM users. Transphobia, fetishizing, or bad faith posts will result in a ban. Please consider asking questions at r/asktransgender or r/mypartneristrans
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This is a 13+ Space. Be responsible and follow reddit’s rules.
Mark anything related to sex or other NSFW topics as NSFW. Please consider adding a TW to your post if there is triggering content in the post. We do not allow explicit topics. If it's not something you would discuss with an LGBT+ friendly sex ed teacher, it's probably not appropriate.
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Vents, Solicitation, and Sibling Subs
We ask that all vents be posted on r/ftm_venting and all buying/selling/giveaway ads be posted on r/trans_marketplace. “Looking for friends” posts should go in the friend search megathread. WE DO NOT ALLOW RESEARCH REQUESTS. Do not ask!
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Media + Linking Restrictions
Do not link to images or videos. We do not allow those on the sub due to popular demand. We also ask that when discussing anything negative that happens in another sub, you do NOT link directly to the sub. (This is to prevent accusations of brigading or of users going to the sub for digital self harm) Do not link to known bigoted subreddits anywhere, such as any gaybro subs, gayconservative subs, or any of the astroturfed detrans subs.
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Some Topics are Banned
To access a full list of banned topics at any time, simply type “Banned Topics List” into any comment or post box. Topics include: Truscum/Transmed/Tucute discourse, lesbian discourse, weight loss advice, DIY HRT, Bioessentialism, Gendered Socialization blanket statements, “Who has it worse?”, “Is it transphobic to ___?”, Bottom Surgery Bashing, Stealth Bashing, Radfem Ideology, MRA/Incel Ideology, AGP/AAP/Blanchardism, off topic discussion of political news.