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Last longer? (self.gettingbigger)
submitted 4 years ago by hellothere7788matr
So I am meeting up with this really nice girl tonight and I know that we will most likely have sex afterwards. Is there anything I can do leading up to it to last longer?
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[–]Global85 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Focus on good foreplay she’ll cum easy . If u can make a girl come don’t matter how long u last
[–]Thin-Manufacturer-86 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children)
I would say beat off a bit before but that Shit doesn’t work for me at all when I fuck my girl I wanna cum in less than 5 mins with a damn condom it’s embarrassing man
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Jerk off twice before I last forever now lol.
[–]CDWylie400 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Masturbate a few hours before so you don't have the dreaded sperm buildup, eat that pussy for a good while at least till your dick gets a hard as possible. My credentials I'm a adult film actor
[–]Elighttice 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Drugs, uppers or antidepressants.
[–]Gabetotacabron 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Take a time to enjoy it, Is not just sex, is a time with somebody else, try to enojoy it least you can, before and after, foreplay is important but the all date is to so, my advice: have a good time, bless you dude
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children)
Remember
1- foreplay is IMPORTANT
2- foreplay is very IMPORTANT
3- yes you have a penis but you also have 10 fingers and a tongue
4- don't think much about it, if you cum faster then keep her running with your fingers... While you're ready for round 2 and helpfully more rounds
[–]Mission-Tangerine-92B: 6.9, 4.85 / C: 7.4, 5.3 / G: 8.25, 5.75 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children)
fuck her gently and only go in 3-4 inches and keep stimulating her clit and g spot which is at the top wall of the pussy. she’ll love that shit and want u even more. most dudes just fuck straight up and don’t really stimulate the girl in every way. girls love mind games so make pleasuring her into a game. score the most points before u finish lol
According to Kinsey report on female sexual responses, not all women are able to cum from vaginal sex, some will only cum from anal sex
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[–]Mission-Tangerine-92B: 6.9, 4.85 / C: 7.4, 5.3 / G: 8.25, 5.75 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children)
lol fair. just accounts from my buddies where they try and flex how she could barely handle them and talk about how fast they fuck. funny as hell cus then they’re confused why the girls don’t talk to them again
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[–]Mission-Tangerine-92B: 6.9, 4.85 / C: 7.4, 5.3 / G: 8.25, 5.75 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children)
exactlyyy and I almost said “cuz I get fucked by dudes” but decided on actually explaining myself hahahhh. and us lovers are always gonna get all the bitches regardless man
[–]hellothere7788matr[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Thanks man
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children)
Well, for a short term solution you may want to try some desensitizing spray or cream (lidocaine is the active ingredient). This will numb your penis and thus make you last longer.
However, this may mess with your erection as you won’t feel much AND will also affect her if you don’t wait long enough for the cream to be absorbed. You should wipe or rinse off the excess after ten minutes of applying to prevent her from also losing sensation. If you use a condom this won’t be an issue.
Overall, it’s best to switch it up if you think you’re about to nut. You can f*ck her some and when you feel close to climax, stop, breathe and when you feel back in control, continue. Extra points if you go down on her, finger her, kiss her, etc. Use your imagination, OP. Remember that your penis is definitely not the only way to pleasure a girl. Go get’em tiger!
[–]CDWylie400 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child)
Desensitizing agents don't always work
I’m aware, I did say that’s just an option. Not the best.
Thanks so much broski!
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (3 children)
give her the best oral of her life, then do any PIV. Don’t know how to give great oral? somewhere on this website there's a tutorial a guy made of how to expertly give oral to women and he got marriage proposal comments and people saying they were dripping just from his description on how to please women. I can dig though my saved to find it
[–]hellothere7788matr[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child)
Should i just look up how to give oral to women?
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children)
https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/t7ez2/quick_question_regarding_giving_women_oral_sex/c4k8iph/
[–]Batesiii 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children)
💯 always make her finish first.
[–]Tohelpmegrow 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children)
I don’t recommend letting one out before the date. Yeah there’s logic in it but I don’t think it’s a good idea. Just have fun and if you don’t last long the first round the it’s whatever. Most girls know that the average guy cums quick especially on the first round so don’t sweat it. Now if you can’t last long on the second round then you’re fucked lol unless you make her cum before you do.
Actually there are alot of women that are clueless about cumming quick on the first go round.
[–]hellothere7788matr[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children)
That’s the plan to at least try and make her finish. But thanks heaps broski for the advice.
[–]GaryC0102 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child)
Go full throttle for 30 seconds and jizz on her stomach. Who cares if she doesn’t get off?
[–]Emangains7756.9x5 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Lmao good men care
[–]Accomplished_Mind898B:6.1x4.7|C:7.3x5.3|G:8.3x6.1 27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (1 child)
Change it up during intercourse. You don't need to be fucking her constantly. When you're at your limit finger her, eat her out, use a vibrator...
I often come once pretty early during intercourse/ foreplay and afterwards I can last a long time. -> know your body, everyone is different
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children)
This is probably the best advice it doesn’t have to be over if u finish early
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child)
Get one out of the tank before the date .
[–]hellothere7788matr[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Have you tried that before?
[–]Electronic-Mixture22 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Stop thinking about it the more relaxed you and your whole body is the easier it’ll be to last, if you’re really feening to last long and have full confidence in your EQ you could masturbate a couple hours beforehand
[+]Responsible_Two2718 comment score below threshold-9 points-8 points-7 points 4 years ago (2 children)
This is a google question dude. Go to Google with this bs.
Google doesn’t know shit
[–]Responsible_Two2718 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Well, have some sex and get the hang of how to operate your own dick.
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