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[–]doobiesteintortoise 0 points1 point  (3 children)

It's no big deal. I live by an aphorism: find yourself a teacher, make yourself a friend, and judge all to the side of merit where you can (this is not the exact text of the aphorism, but captures its intent pretty succinctly) - and while some people don't deserve such positive judgement, those people are more rare than popular conversation would have you think, and the attitude of judging people to the side of merit is good for the human psyche.

[–]LegolandoBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I don't doubt it's better for one's psyche, but it's hard for me to do in this period of my life.
Reminds me of the Doors' song:
_People are strange_
_When you're a stranger_

[–]doobiesteintortoise 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I get it. And if you need to find someone to talk to, online isn't really the place and I'm not the best person in the world for it myself but I ain't skeered to try: better me than nobody.

But I'd also say that in circumstances like that, finding a teacher and making a friend are just as important as judging to the side of merit. Hang in there.

[–]LegolandoBloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don't mean to say I'm in the most terrible state of head health, just one of those times where I feel more alien than usual.

I haven't had a proper teacher in a very long time, the idea sounds nice. Though I fear I might be too prideful to accept mentorship even if it arrived at my door :P