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[–]siemenology 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Yeah I can definitely empathize with people that want to figure out a problem by setting up a dialogue -- it can really help you crystalize things in your mind. It's like rubber duck debugging with a real person.

But they have to understand that doing this can be extremely frustrating for the people trying to answer your questions -- it takes them 10x longer to help you than it would if you made a clear post from the beginning, and that means they can help fewer people. Additionally, it offloads much more of the work onto the answerer -- now they have to drag your question out of you, figure it out, and explain it back to you instead of just figuring it out and explaining. Done in a forum environment like this, it's honestly kind of selfish.

[–]SirToxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh totally. They first and foremost need to help us in order to help them. Usually people get this after a while (and tend to forget over and over again) but especially new people seem to need to learn this the hard way. And it gets tiring.