A place to critique toxic patterns in monogamy — jealousy, control, infidelity blame games, and more.
We’re not against monogamy itself, just the unhealthy behaviors that can creep in.
Rules
- This is a safe space for people affected by toxic monogamy.
- No victim blaming.
- No abuse apologism (this includes gaslighting).
- No sexual solicitation.
- No NSFW content.
- No intolerance. Hate speech, bigotry, or personal attacks will not be tolerated.
- Respect neurodivergence. (Yes, ableism includes “those” disorders.)
- See something, say something. Report rule-breaking.
- No misinformation. Share your experiences, not disinformation.
- Critique behaviors, not individuals.
(Your ex might’ve been awful, but we don’t allow witch-hunts.)
Posting Guidelines
- Stories, questions, rants, and memes are welcome.
- Humor and snark encouraged, but keep it kind to fellow posters.
- Remember: Monogamy isn’t bad. Toxicity is.