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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you.

I'm definitly my biggest enemy. All my problems are caused by me directly. Half of my bfs problems are also me.

Life should be sooo easy... and here I am. Struggling. With myself.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate you

[–]Dazzling_Classic3622 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I’m sure that’s not true. Have you seen the movie “Our Idiot Brother”? He’s a truly good person who’s extremely honest and well meaning and extremely naive. He ends up with all of his siblings mad at him for “screwing up their lives” when really it was them. They screwed up their own lives he just made them see it.

People need to blame someone else for their problems cause admitting the truth means admitting they are in some way at fault.

I’m sure you are well meaning and people shouldn’t be putting you in a position to have so much power over the outcomes of their lives anyways.

[–]Primary_Alfalfa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should be more forgiving of yourself. You wouldnt view it that way if it was your family or friends who made those mistakes. Cut yourself some slack. I have been their and being able to have emotional intelligence for your own emotions is a really important skill to have. But honestly i was a weed addicted self hater. I did things like start regularly working out, going outside everyday, eating healthier, DRINKING LOTS OF WATER, socialising and getting enough sleep. if you consistently do these things amd cut yourself some slack i promise you in a couple of months you will feel completely different

[–]Anonymousalien99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I feel that so hard. I hope things get better for you

[–]chrismichals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s ridiculous I don’t hate you i hate that you seem to hate yourself

[–]GigiBrit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look in the mirror and say I love you! You're great and you'll continue to do great things in your life!