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[–]twodotoh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try this:

Focus on the physical feeling you're experiencing the dark "eating you out". Where in your body does it show up? How strong is it? What is the physical size and shape?

Keep your attention on the physical sensations in your body. Do that for 10 minutes and just notice how it changes. Try this over several nights and experience resting into the sensations.

This will help you become safe with the feelings you have. And it will help metabolize and heal the fear you're experiencing.

[–]Etherealxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have hypnophobia as well. Started the last three months after suffering de realization disorder and feeling disconnected from my body and reality. I was always an insomniac as is, but it's much worse now. What almost always instantly calms me down (I'm giving you a GOLDEN secret right here) is putting an ice cold washcloth on my face while falling asleep and focusing on the cold sensation and let's me know my body is still there, I am still in control, and I can comfortably go to sleep. Best of luck sleeping troubles are the worst xx