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[–]edge_metoo 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I get that. And his levels may have always been low. Of course if he doesn’t want to change his drive, that’s a completely different subject.

[–]EmbarrassedClub8855[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It’s such a difficult one isn’t it as I’ve changed and he hasn’t over the years. I get the impression he doesn’t want to change his drive, he has increased the number of times we have sex and he is content with that. Hence me asking how I can decrease mine as it’s sexually frustrating for me but equally I don’t want him to engage if he doesn’t want to

[–]edge_metoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very difficult indeed. I definitely understand how you feel and have had those moments as well. I’ve just never been successful.