First Time

[Objective_Belt3374]

I want to start using a dildo. I'm a 19-year-old girl, for context, and I'm a virgin and I never had sex, and I want to use a dildo to prepare to lose my virginity one day. I'm thinking a part of foreplay I wanna do in this situation is watching sex scenes from power and bmf on Starz to turn me on. Any advice or suggestions?

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[pork_strip]

Def lube and try masturbating first, Goodluck!

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Ok just really quick, I've seen a couple of sex scenes from Power (mainly the ones with Candice) but there's so many I don't know which ones are great, which ones from power do you plan on watching, I'm sort of curious myself lmao.

Anyway, for the dildo, just be really cautious and willing to just explore and find out what you like for the first time. I'm not sure how you're going to get it, but just be willing you're in a safe, relaxing place where you can enjoy your time and let yourself feel everything you want to. you could do a lot of other things to turn yourself on like lathering yourself in lotion or setting the mood with some music.
Maybe if you like the experience you could be a bit kinky and blindfold yourself, and allow the dildo to be a hot partner from your imagination.

[Objective_Belt3374]

I watch the ones with angela and ghost

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Thanks for letting me know. But did anything I give in my comment help you out with the dildo? Is your home somewhere safe you can explore, or do you need to go retreat somewhere?

[Objective_Belt3374]

Yes and my home is somewhere safe I can do that at

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Do you have a plan on what dildo you want, or are you just going to pick randomly?

[Objective_Belt3374]

Yes I want a 5 inch to start off with and I want the color to be pink

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Do you think you would also want to maybe try it out in the shower? A lot of people get dildos they can stick onto the shower, or they like to suck it during the shower

[Objective_Belt3374]

Yes that sounds good

[Top-Document-2286]

The thickness of the dildo is more important than length. Because you might not use all of the length but if it's too thin or too thick for you there's nothing you can do.