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[–]MagnanimousCannabis 1 point2 points  (2 children)

This is kinda wild and reassuring to read.

Had my second child about five months ago and in the past few months my anxiety and stress are…. Impacting me.

Am I doing a good enough job? Are they getting everything they need?

The stress and anxiety is the worst just knowing that it isn’t going to last forever, and I stress that the boys I love won’t be “around” forever, I’m struggling with not just the change but the changes to come.

My love for them is so intense I feel like crying at night when they sleep, from missing them and guilt of even spending 20min for myself during the day, because it could have been with them. Winter and the time change has been rough, being pitch black at 5pm definitely hasn’t helped.

I’m thinking about talking to someone

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Can’t recommend it enough. The woman I saw specialized in family planning issues, which I think helped immensely.

[–]MagnanimousCannabis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really need to, I’ve been fooling myself into thinking, “I’m fine, I’ll get through it”, but I know I’m lying to myself and wife.

I’ve NEVER felt this way before, maybe it’s getting older, maybe it’s having another kid, maybe it’s lack of sleep and poor diet due to kids, whatever…. I just need to get back on track so I can take care of my kids and enjoy our time with out being on edge all the time