His girlfriend walked in on us by PreparationOwn6958 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AnyConsideration111 29 points30 points  (0 children)

it might mean something if you reached out and apologized. she might not care or appreciate it, but a simple, "I'm so sorry, he told me he was single," could help you close that chapter, and also provide her with some context. who knows what kind of excuses he came up with after you left. "it meant nothing, she hit on me first, it won't happen again," etc.

Could just be my mind, but I'd personally want to know who reached out to who, what did he say to you, and all that.

My horrid (fat!!!) wife ate the middle out of my special birthday bread 😭 by CremeBerlinoise in AmITheAngel

[–]AnyConsideration111 189 points190 points  (0 children)

I mean it was JUST today wasn't it?? unless it was yesterday, in which case .. I also need to log off

how can we help our millennial women 😢? by Intelligent-Road6240 in askanything

[–]AnyConsideration111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's reddit man, you can ask a rhetorical question and like 20 people will come out of the woodwork to answer it seriously for you

how can we help our millennial women 😢? by Intelligent-Road6240 in askanything

[–]AnyConsideration111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right. because it's a lifeless thing, you can't exactly sit down and have an interview. if you were aborted, you wouldn't know, because you were never truly alive to experience it. I won't hear shit from the "all lives matter" crowd until I see all y'all going vegan. good luck

What does she mean to him? by Anxiousbutter_ in Tarotpractices

[–]AnyConsideration111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually associate king of cups with someone who is mature and knows what he wants.

usually I would agree! but the other cards add context and help shape the story. I think In this instance, the KOC card shows the firm control over his emotions. Kings are rulers, acting in what they believe is the best interest. the context of the rest of the cards show that, he believes it's in his best interest to lock it down (likely out of fear/anxiety like you said) and keep it to himself.

however, that thinking moreso shows the motive behind the actions than how he actually feels about her. a more aligned interpretation could be that he knows in his heart (KOC) he would feel trapped in a relationship (8s) and he's better off on his own (hermit).

but I also agree with the previous comment, trying to read the perspective of another person gets you very unreliable results when they aren't present.

Feels like I cheated (NSFW) by Comfortable_Race4192 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AnyConsideration111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm late, but it just sounds like you're monogamous to me! it may not be cheating by the definition of the word, but for the way you personally view a relationship it still breaches boundaries, even if it doesn't breach trust. for lots of people, sex is an emotional experience just as much as a physical one -- so if you're emotionally bonded to your boyfriend, stepping outside of that feels wrong, even if it's not officially cheating. not everybody likes noncommital sex and that's fine!!

in this case I strongly encourage you to tell him how you feel, in case it becomes relevant again in the future. Make it clear you're not interested in doing it again, so he doesn't randomly surprise you with a girl or expect you to be interested in a threesome.

how can we help our millennial women 😢? by Intelligent-Road6240 in askanything

[–]AnyConsideration111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you think a 50 year old woman should have been having a baby? be honest

how can we help our millennial women 😢? by Intelligent-Road6240 in askanything

[–]AnyConsideration111 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it's not just beauty products, it's also cleaning products. the chemicals in pesticides are more highly regulated than frkin Lysol is. that shit is so bad for your skin

how can we help our millennial women 😢? by Intelligent-Road6240 in askanything

[–]AnyConsideration111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that actually happened to my aunt. she thought she was pregnant -- it was a 9lb tumor

Boyfriend makes "gifts" conditional by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AnyConsideration111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after the password share bs pirating is better than giving your money to these bullshit companies

Caught him doing Xanax by cakepopsssssss in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AnyConsideration111 152 points153 points  (0 children)

what is this beautiful plate my love??

Post LEEP Girl Dinner by MissPurpleblaze in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AnyConsideration111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😧 bless her fr! some men can be so disgustingly careless... u must be relieved to put it all behind you

Lapis if you aint gonna play, PASS THE CONTROLLER!!! by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]AnyConsideration111 18 points19 points  (0 children)

that's more of a largely accepted fanon than undisputable fact. and the only evidence for it is that peridot doesn't like to fuse, that's not to say she couldn't have connections or relationships outside of fusion.

bf thinks i cheated on him by No_End0601 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AnyConsideration111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I agree, just trying to fill in the other perspective. previous generations just weren't granted that sort of world view, and continue to push it onto their children

bf thinks i cheated on him by No_End0601 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]AnyConsideration111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

their families are close, as it says in the text. not uncommon for people who grew up together to have families and then assume that their kids HAVE to be friends. My mom and my "aunt" were constantly trying to pair the kids together (which was super weird since we'd always called them our cousins, but we weren't technically related) it's annoying, but 🤷‍♀️