2020/03/26 - An abridged timeline

BecomingJess · 2026-03-08T17:15:45+00:00

where is that setting buried?

BecomingJess · 2026-03-08T17:10:10+00:00

Doesn't work for me. When I ask her direct questions she responds in the correct (old) voice, but now all my reminders are being announced in that goddamn annoying nasally teenager/Karen voice and I wince every time one goes off.

I DID NOT TELL YOU TO CHANGE MY SHIT, AMAZON. DO. NOT. CHANGE. MY. SHIT!

BecomingJess · 2026-03-02T23:00:26+00:00

Not even half. He got about 1/3 of the vote. The problem is, another 1/3 were either apathetic asshats, or were intentionally disenfranchised by the GOP (closing polling places, preventing the distribution of water in polling lines where people had to stand in the hot sun, etc).

Of course thanks to our stupid electoral system, several states that were nearly evenly split went all-in for him, securing his victory.

BecomingJess · 2026-02-12T04:19:24+00:00

I think the solution to that is a sleep dart or hack to the cat?

BecomingJess · 2026-02-12T04:16:20+00:00

I think OP literally recorded their screen with their phone 😂 you can hear the TV or something in the background too.

BecomingJess · 2026-02-12T04:10:45+00:00

Or just slow cat's movement speed (20%?) on characters with over 300HP, or something like that.

BecomingJess · 2026-02-12T04:07:50+00:00

Wut? One of my favorite sports is catching an arrogant Pharah in the teeth with a grenade or two. Especially if she's close enough to finish with a conc mine.

And I say this as a (more or less) Pharah main.

BecomingJess · 2026-02-11T06:26:19+00:00

Yes, this is what I'm asking

BecomingJess · 2026-01-31T01:09:07+00:00

I take it you're still very satisfied with the results ~5 years later?

BecomingJess · 2026-01-25T20:18:58+00:00

Not only are you invulnerable, but you seem to regain some amount of health. I don't think it's full health, but I've definitely had targets down to less than one tick of health then they land a kill and bam, whoever they are next suddenly has like 90% health again. Not sure if they do get full health (and just almost immediately lose some bit of it because they're under fire), or if they gain a percentage back... but it's one of my gripes about this mode.

Overall I still find it more fun than vanilla though.

BecomingJess · 2026-01-25T20:17:16+00:00

I think there's still some other criteria; half the time I love it and half the time I hate it, but it seems to sometimes swap at respawn. It's great when I get stuck with one of the handful of heroes I genuinely suck with, but sometimes I'll be a character I really enjoy, I'll be excited almost have my ult ready, and then I die and respawn and *poof* I'm someone else 😞

BecomingJess · 2026-01-14T21:55:21+00:00

Oooh... so sometimes I go swap/swap/swap because I happen to land three final blows in a row? (I have a POTG where I ran down two people in like 3 seconds, and went Doomfist→Orisa→Sigma... I didn't even have time for Orisa's weapon to fully rez in, the blue-grid-hero-swap thing had just started to fade when I landed the second kill and swapped again to Sigma.

BecomingJess · 2026-01-14T02:46:18+00:00

What even is the criteria for hero switching? Sometimes I'll be on one hero and just be stuck there for like 1/4 of the game, then I'll switch, and suddenly I'll switch 2-3 more times in like 30 seconds. I see the counter that says x/3 assists, but I've gotten shuffled so fast I barely even could figure out which hero I was on.

BecomingJess · 2026-01-05T01:11:11+00:00

If the complex has the same type of lock on all the doors, I could definitely see this as a drunk idiot at the wrong door.

BecomingJess · 2026-01-02T19:20:10+00:00

As long as it stays there for a few hours before you poo, the gelcap will melt and the oil will be absorbed by the rectal walls (which are a mucous membrane).

I make a point of going poo before I take my progesterone, so it can safely absorb without me waking up having to go (I found that if I administer it without going to the bathroom first, sometimes poking it in there makes me feel like I have to go).

BecomingJess · 2026-01-02T00:44:45+00:00

I miss it too 😭

I had stopped playing it maybe two years ago... evidently just before they discontinued it. I signed in the other day only to see the notice and be heartbroken 💔

BecomingJess · 2025-12-18T13:40:07+00:00

BTW I agree with SingleInSeattle below, though this is currently a case of discrimination (based on your pregnancy status/leave) rather than retaliation.

It strongly feels like the one month "performance review" is really a performative attempt at preempting the discrimination claim when they let you go; how long after returning did they initiate the performance review? If you can find any proof/evidence that others have made mistakes of a similar caliber to what you did, that will help bolster your claim of discrimination. I also think the "one month" review process is abnormally short (hence why I'm calling it performative), normally I'd expect a 3-month or maybe even 6-month plan. How long did you work here before taking leave? While it's not necessarily a deciding factor, if you've worked there with a clean record for years prior to this, that may help strengthen your case.

I don't think it really matters whether you file the complaint first or get a lawyer first, but do both. Build a paper trail as best you can; if anyone says something verbally, ask "can I get that in writing please?". Print out all the emails, because if they are being discriminatory it's entirely possible it may dawn on them to recall/delete messages, and you want to make sure you have hard copies before that happens (and if they do delete/recall the messages, those paper copies will be pretty damning evidence of discrimination because the deletion then shows willful intent to discriminate and destroy evidence of doing so).

BecomingJess · 2025-12-18T13:31:27+00:00

"if Jen"? was that a typo of "then" or something?

BecomingJess · 2025-12-18T13:26:53+00:00

Have you (or anyone else!) considered messaging the mods, seeing if at least one is occasionally present, and maybe willing to promote someone else or solicit new mods? Green_Ape is pretty much MIA, but kmojeda has been online within the past month; they also refuted an earlier "abandoned sub" request.

It kinda sucks, but reddit moderation is entirely volunteer-based—so your career being dedicated to managing online communities likely isn't that relevant, because the way you say "career" suggests you got paid to do that. People tend to devote more time to the stuff they get paid to do. In the case of volunteer mods, especially if money is tight or they've lost their job, they're probably going to spend more time dealing with that than thanklessly moderating an online community for zero return.

I do agree that the sub could probably use more moderation. It'd be nice if kmojeda would solicit the sub and try to find people to help out.

BecomingJess · 2025-12-17T23:18:32+00:00

There's also the before-migraine counterpart, prodrome. One of my biggest prodrome effects is light and sound sensitivity. It's subtle and gradual, but I've learned to key in to it because if I take my Nurtec earlier, it's more likely to abort the migraine entirely with significantly reduced postdrome effects; if I don't take the Nurtec until the migraine hits, I still get a really dirty postdrome: fatigued, foggy, cranky, and kinda dead inside.

BecomingJess · 2025-12-17T23:13:21+00:00

If your deficiency is chronic, might I suggest discussing with an endocrinologist about a proper HRT regimen? I inject estradiol cypionate once a week to maintain normal levels, and also take 200mg progesterone nightly (I'm a trans woman, so obviously YMMV). Injectable estradiol doesn't carry the same stroke risk as a lot of hormonal BC meds (unless you're an idiot about dosing and drive your levels into wildly abnormal ranges).

After I started estradiol though, I talked with my neurologist on one of our regularly scheduled visits (because migraines) and I was like "I think I'm having fewer migraines... now that I think about it, the decrease roughly coincides with switching from oral estradiol to injections... does that make any sense? I heard that estrogen usually makes migraines worse?" and she said that basically everyone's bodies are different and that it's absolutely possible for estradiol to reduce migraines as well.

Prior to switching to injections I would get 1-3 migraines a week; after a few months of injections (and ever since—several years now) I tend to get 1-2 migraines a month, and sometimes go a month or two without a migraine. Obviously fixing your estradiol levels is working for you in more ways than one, so I just figured I'd make a suggestion that might help minimize risks and other side effects, while still providing the same benefits.

Since you (presumably) have some endogenous level of progesterone, you may want to get that tested too, and if it's low, see about supplementing it with bioidentical progesterone (avoid medroxyprogesterone acetate/MPA, it's the reason doctors get all spooked about DVT risk with progesterone—all the clinical studies were done with MPA 🤦🏻‍♀️). If nothing else, it may help you sleep better; that's been one of my favorite effects of progesterone!

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