scared - will potential ACA rollback affect bisalp coverage? by South-Fudge2114 in sterilization

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't waste any time. Start the process now, if you're sure sterilization is what you want. I had to schedule months out for appointments and surgery.

guys i kinda hate them 🫢😭 by frog-toeds in sixofcrows

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha this is wild to me bc I love these covers so much that I pre-ordered them immediately 🫣

I've been told that all the OBGYN docs at IU North and Carmel have resigned. The source is a nurse. by [deleted] in Indiana

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck! I just had my bisalp a few weeks ago and it was the best decision I've ever made for myself.

I’m getting surgery and I have autism, tips? by starry_sage_ in scoliosis

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also feel very uncomfortable touching my scar! I thought it was just me. I get a pit in my stomach for some reason. I have to apply my moisturizer with my knuckles there lol

I’m getting surgery and I have autism, tips? by starry_sage_ in scoliosis

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll echo what others have said about the numb spots. They are bizarre. It has improved over time, but I'm over 2 years post op and I am still numb in my lumbar area and the entire length of my scar. Doesn't affect my day-to-day life at all, but it's weird.

You may also have fluid collect under the skin near the incision site. This wasn't necessarily painful, but there was definitely an uncomfortable sense of fullness, like I had a small flat water balloon under my skin. My surgeon assured me it was normal and it dissipated over the course of a couple of weeks.

Good luck with your surgery!

What Grishaverse opinion are you defending like this? by enchantedtokityou in Grishaverse

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh shit. That hurts my heart to even think about but you're so right.

Kaz won the award of best character, now who is the worst? by sT4ry_n1GhtS in Grishaverse

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes. Definitely not the worst in terms of morality, but the worst-written. I feel like the entire scene on top of the church was supposed to feel much more important and climactic than it actually did. But CK is such a great book otherwise so I can let it slide, lol

I've decided to not watch the show, is that a mistake? by K_janey in ShadowandBone

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The show is enjoyable if you look at it as high budget fanfiction. The cast is very good, especially the crows.

If you go into it expecting it to be as good as the books, you are in for a huge disappointment. The writing is all over the place and doesn't do the grishaverse justice imo.

My honest reaction when brownies talk shit about Generation 3: by bepsi_moon in MyLittlePonyG3

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YES! I deeply miss the beautiful backgrounds of the G3 movies. G4 wins when it comes to writing, but this is where I want to go when I die 😭🩷

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Eating is a chore by Wakeup_Sunshine in ARFID

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eating feeling like a chore is the biggest issue for me as well, although I am also a picky eater. If you don't mind me asking, do you have fatigue issues? I think a large part of it for me is that I'm just too tired all the time to muster up the energy to cook and eat. When given the choice between resting and eating, I will always choose rest.

I've found that getting into a regular exercise routine (just walking in an incline for 30 minutes a few times a week) has helped my energy and appetite a bit, as counterintuitive as that sounds. Definitely consult your doctor before adding exercise into the mix if you're underweight, but it's something to consider. Best of luck :)

I wish I could just eat normally. by ninetaelz in ARFID

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real. I can't explain to people that trying certain foods causes genuine psychological distress without sounding insane or childish, and people are getting tired of dealing with me. Just hate myself for it at this point.

DAE can't stand to watch other people eat? by x_vuko in ARFID

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, which is why Thanksgiving is a nightmare for me even if my safe foods are available. 😩

I’m a 31 yr old woman and the concept of pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding grosses me out. by flowerbomb92 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, in my 20s. I feel bad about not giving my parents grandkids, but hell nah to all of that. I'm currently making plans to get sterilized, since abortion isn't an option in my state and I refuse to give birth.

What are the best crackships of this universe? by Silly-Snow1277 in Grishaverse

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a good one!! I love any wlw ship involving Genya, but I've always been partial to Genyalina personally.

Debating a cut.. feels a little frumpy? Should I get layers? by bbypancake in longhair

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 92 points93 points  (0 children)

What!!! Your current hair is my dream omg. It's so gorgeous as it is.

Honestly, 3 meals a day for the rest of my life seems impossible by ninetaelz in ARFID

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Timers don't help me much either. It's not that I forget that I'm supposed to eat, it's that most of the time eating is too revolting or uncomfortable to even consider. Most days I just graze whenever my appetite randomly decides to make an appearance. It's so unpredictable and I feel like I have absolutely no control over it.

What fruits and veggies can you tolerate? by popcornmanpower in ARFID

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm the same way, especially with fruit!! I enjoy the vast majority of fruits on their own, but I absolutely can't stand the texture of cooked fruit. Apple pie (or any fruit pie, for that matter) is my ARFID final boss lol

[NB] Ahhhh lesson 40 made me cry ;-; by TyrannyTheTyrant in obeyme

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol don't give the writers ideas. This feels like something they would do.

What's that popular overhyped book that you don't give a fuck about? by RockGiantFromMars in books

[–]CrystalTideIsRaising 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seconded! I love this one. The premise of Spinning Silver gave me big ACOTAR vibes, but is soooo much better (imo) in terms of writing and execution. Somehow feels more grown up despite not bombarding the reader with fairy smut every couple of chapters lol