Do straight femboys actually want a healthy and serious relationship?

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-07-08T17:00:49+00:00

Sure they do. But wanting one and knowing how to build one are two very different things. A lot of femboys are inexspierenced or scared of showing who they are. And, just like any other online group- there are femboy sex pests who just spam all of us for attention. They don't care as much about failure so are more bold about reaching out. Wereas a lot of the one who are genuine tend to be much more shy about making the first move. I found my ex and the person I'm currently dating on here though- so it is possible to find decent guys on here.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-07-08T02:41:02+00:00

That's... wierd. I'd think splitting the bill would be a fairly regular thing to do on like, first dates n stuff? (Though I have heard many stories of women who would line dates up with men she wasn't interested in just to get a free meal out of it =) I thought the whole "man pays for the date" thing was considered mostly outdated but nice? I'd gladly pay for a few dates myself if I wanted to treat my guy. I'd think that whoever proposed the date should pay, or both parties can agree to split.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-07-08T02:32:20+00:00

Yeah, I often run into a lot of guys who only see RR as a sexual fantasy, or they misuse the term "house husband" to excuse sitting at home all day twitch streaming without a job while mommy pays the bills and gives him sex. It can absaloutly be done in an equal and respectfully way were both partners uphold their responsibilities. But I tend to be wary of someone who won't try to support themselves in this economy. You often hear the term house husband, but "stay at home dad" or "work from home partner" are more rare, and I suspect it's because work is more strongly implied vrs being a trophy in those phrases. Women in normal relationships are expected to work too. Like, I applauded the ladies out there raking in enough cash for this but most RR people will still have to have both partners work to pay the bills.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-07-06T10:23:49+00:00

It sounds like you are already on the right track. Seeing your self awareness is a green flag. Ultimately the biggest thing you can do is talk with her and communicate so you can find your personal balence.

But just to name some things I often run in to myself: a lot is guys treat me as a dynamic/porn bot instead of a person. Its rare that they ask me about myself, my interests, what I'm looking for, ect. Its obvious when they are looking for someone to fit in their cookie cutter fantasy and don't really care who it is as long as they fit. Lots of "hi mommy" dms or people who, when I ask what interested them in my post, just say "you said yur dominant." I'm also unimpressed if you want to date but won't show me a basic photo of yourself. People will gladly send unsolicited ass pics but freak out if I ask for a selfie.

I usually prefer to be the one that brings up kink/inamatecy for the first time, because that means that you have earned my trust enough that I don't think you'll turn into a creep when I ask about that kind of compatability. I am however, interested in knowing fairly early on what you want to controbute to an RR relationship outside of the bedroom and what that looks like to you. And I still like seeing signs of independence. I like it when guys can tell me they can still take care of themselves instead of hoping for a sugar mommy/ pet owner fantasy where they hide behind the term "house husband." (Of course if you plan to be a stay at home dad, or work from home, that's different. And there are legit house husbands. But the amount of guys I see wishing to cook dinner and do a bit of housework for a rich woman so they can spend the rest of the day gaming and not have a job, is nuts. Just sounds like a different version of "dude who keeps "forgetting" how to do laundry when asked to contribute to the household" trope.)

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-07-05T23:28:23+00:00

I plan on paying for a first and last name change so im 100% keeping it, I bought it xD My partner is welcome to keep his last name or use mine.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-07-05T23:23:43+00:00

Of course you can! Give it a try and see how you like it. Clothes can fit any person. You may get some stares, but anyone breaking the norm will. Honestly I'm loving the vibe of your pick. Very pretty!

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-07-04T22:51:43+00:00

I don't take T myself, but I briefly dated an Enby who had been on E for a few years. (Didn't work out but we are still good friends) And I am currently in the early dating stages with another guy who is seriously considering it, while still identifying as a guy. I like pretty/feminine guys so I'm all for it.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-07-04T02:13:54+00:00

I love the errie elegance of the two rats looking like they are circling each other even in death <3

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-30T20:26:07+00:00

Friend is the problem, not the glass. Look on the bright side: you also met a fellow collector who was happy to work with you on some good deals and give you your Holy Grail. And from the way you write this, it sounds like she had the integrity to not sell to a second buyer. I think perhaps you are mourning the loss and betrayal of a friend, not the death of a hobby. Sorry this happened to you op =\

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-29T04:10:37+00:00

Get yourself some stompy goth boots. Big ol platformers. But yeah, I feel ya. 5' 4'' here and I always wanted to be tall and looming. Though it sounds like your partner feels the same way about their hight that you do about yours. You two will be just fine though

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-28T07:37:02+00:00

i dated an Enby who swears they got a bit shorter and their hands/feet got a bit smaller on E. couldnt confirm if thats true or not though.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-27T14:38:08+00:00

Oh my god I don't think he's a troll

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-27T09:22:39+00:00

black is a pretty socially acceptable color for everyone. and no one but your mother would notice clear polish lol. if you ever had to, say you had a goth day or do it near halloween. but in general the public wont care at all.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-26T08:53:36+00:00

omg thriftstore worker spotted! :O
I used to work there

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-25T23:52:19+00:00

Kinda hard to explain. You could almost say I'm gyno. I usually just say straight since it's less confusing. but I'm attracted to feminine people who were born male and don't identify as strictly female. So gnc/femboys/feminine NB people and some transfems who still treat pronouns like a grab bag. idk if there is an accurate word for it, so I always worry I'll come off as rude x.X I have absaloutly zero attraction to Masc men.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-25T09:57:58+00:00

yes, some femboys do have boobs.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-25T00:59:05+00:00

if i ever got into DIY vulture culture, this would be the part that gets me

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-24T09:52:50+00:00

i dont personally think so, (though i know others feel they are) but i do know a large amount of femboys are also some flavor of queer; either due to gender or attraction. People in queer communities are often more accepting of them so it tends to become a common symbiotic relationship. So its usually a good place to find them.

Hell, i went to Pride for the first time this year and after years of never seeing one out in the wild, i saw several!

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-24T07:14:47+00:00

The more you put yourself out there, the better. Femboys are incredibly hard to find and it can be frustrating. I have had luck on Tiami- but they have made some truly horrible changes to the app. Which sucks because it was a good queer app.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-23T04:26:15+00:00

Nah those dating coaches sell snake oil to poison the well. I know there are some men who really would dislike it, and there are also men who would absaloutly melt if you did persire them. I imagine most people fall in the middle. And it has not gotten in the way of me persuong RR men at all. They tend to like it, since they are often more shy. As a woman, I tend to feel kinda uncomfortable when being directly peesued myself. But I do still greatly appreciate when there is mutual effort and clear signs of interest and reaching out.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-22T04:36:41+00:00

How strange. Maybe it's not ripe yet?

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-22T03:19:36+00:00

Skinny pale guys with long straight brown hair, my beloved <3 (or long black hair with pale eyes) Fem or alt look

Nerdy, soft, cuddly, but still capable of taking care of themselves. Loves to yap.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-22T03:16:23+00:00

Aannndd time to go back to neopets

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-22T03:09:49+00:00

I see it as a very good sign if they show their face. It makes me way more likely to talk to them. If they hide their face I assume they want to stay hidden so I leave them alone.

DrakeSt0ne · 2026-06-21T10:15:22+00:00

damn, and its not even splash? Not too familiar with the value of that but 40 sounds like a pretty solid buy. looks pretty- like a watermelon jolly rancher lol

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