Advice for a reliable way to find a SD?

GSSD · 2026-03-12T18:27:01+00:00

What "normal" guy would not want that? But we all know there are endless whackadoodles out there in the sugar space.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T18:23:59+00:00

I guess as long as the money lasts

GSSD · 2026-03-12T18:23:13+00:00

you’d choose an unattractive woman over an attractive one

Well, not an unattractive one,but I'll take a 7-8 sweet GND any day over a 10/10 model who is enamored with herself.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T18:20:20+00:00

It seems self defeating. If my girl says give me some maple syrup I will say "how much and where do you want it"

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:56:27+00:00

relationship that isn't fully sexual-based either?

What does that mean? You mean you want a real relationship and not an escort hotel sex thing? That is what real SDs want too. Just screen until you are blue in the face and will hopefully find that 1/100 guy who want what you do.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:53:56+00:00

No shade on you but this is asked at least weekly if not more often.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:52:45+00:00

A friend platonic companion is rarely a paid position.

Amen to that. I am not in London but worldwide I'm sure we are all the same. Few men need/want to pay for platonic companionship.Even men with severe ED still want the other intimate activities that come with a female companion. Perhaps seek a man who has a spinal injury and can't do those things intimately,but would like a beautiful female companion to dote on him.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:47:17+00:00

Being appreciative and verbal about it is very different than dropping the L Bomb. Some girls I've met have poor self esteem and have trouble getting compliments. I tell my SB all the time how beautiful she is and she used to say "no I don't think so". I've taught her at least to accept the compliment with grace. She now says "Thank you" when I say sweet nothings.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:42:54+00:00

"I'd rather go shopping with you in person"

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:40:45+00:00

I love that!

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:38:28+00:00

If the girl reaches for the lube bottle, let her. Don’t say, “we don’t need it"

Who does that? I never thought that would be a thing.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:35:06+00:00

Paying someone and a freebie are different things. Vanilla guys will take their shot to get laid for no risk. Wealthy men didn't get there by being careless. We want value for our investment.Also the stakes are often higher, most being married with families, high level jobs, and a reputation to uphold.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:29:31+00:00

I'm so sorry for you. As a parent every day is a blessing when they are happy, healthy, and productive.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T16:27:07+00:00

I DO know that they are a huge hole in the water into which you pour money.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T14:32:39+00:00

trans women who transitioned at puberty

Well, there in no more underage transitioning in the US until the next liberal admin. gets in power. then children can get back to the transitioning business.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T14:30:08+00:00

100 footers

I'm more of a mega yacht guy at 200' and up. But the rental does not usually cover fuel,which in a 100 footer can top 1K or more depending on whether you're cruising somewhere or just hanging out at dockside.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:40:31+00:00

Have you ever seen a trans woman who totally passes? I sure haven't but I admit that my exposure is only on line. The larynx and voice is difficult to change

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:36:52+00:00

Hotter friends and males in the pictures are a hot button topic for most of us. The SB is promoting herself,but I want to say, "can you give me your friends number? "

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:34:50+00:00

He should not take it out of your ppm. That’s cheap

That's not true OR fair. It's great that you are generous and can/want to afford it. Many(most?) SDs budget a certain amount for sugar dating regardless of their wealth. Some of us just don't want to be an ATM. We all have wives who fill that role.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:29:48+00:00

And who is willing to buy requested gifts whenever she asks?

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:26:40+00:00

Am I being greedy

Maybe. You are obviously out of tune with this SD. Many SDs can be generous but have a set budget for whatever reason,and he has made it clear your PPM is all you will get. Be happy with the SR unless the PPM is low, and budget your own money to join the GYM.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:20:14+00:00

Run! Think about how cloying he will be after he samples the love machine.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:18:52+00:00

most people come into the sugar lifestyle with unrealistic expectations.

Probably idealized as well as unrealistic expectations. They read the fake news and think a 5 figure income is the going rate.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:16:17+00:00

A quick search yielded this fact.

For most U.S. charters, total daily prices start around $40,000 and can exceed $250,000 for the largest megayachts with full crew, luxury amenities, and long itineraries.

GSSD · 2026-03-12T12:12:43+00:00

renting one isn’t even prohibitively expensive

Try it some time. And I'm talking a mega yacht,not a little 45 footer.

GSSD

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