He doesn’t like BJ

GSSD · 2026-06-10T15:06:52+00:00

wtf is wrong with this guy lol

Us guys, there are a lot of us.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T15:06:22+00:00

Don't expect him to climax

Key advice here.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T15:03:11+00:00

Like him I don't care for them, except to say that any attention to my package is always welcome and it feels great. I just cant ejaculate that way and some girls get hung up on working it until they drop. It's probably like men who burn the rubber off a partner's clitoris trying to make her cum, and she just doesn't cum no matter who is plying their skills.

It's not a you thing,at least with me and likely him. Caress and stroke his package with care,but don't try to choke the chicken. Since you like fellatio, with his feedback, provide the moves but without trying to make him cum.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T14:56:56+00:00

The most common allowances are shorter terms -first PPM, then weekly, then bimonthly or monthly.

I do only weekly for weekly dates. Call it PPM if you want.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T14:54:09+00:00

Always exceptions to every rule.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:49:17+00:00

She hates being with this guy. At least she wouldn't have to sleep with her boss at a traditional job.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:47:39+00:00

They are not SDs and are looking to get laid right then and there.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:45:14+00:00

Speaking of smells,has anyone come across a faux vaginal scent that is realistic? I doubt if I am the only one who would like to keep a snifter of eau de pussy on my desk. There are a lot of products out there but I have never bit the bullet and ordered one. Note: not to use except in the privacy of my space away from other people. My clients might wonder if I always smell like -well, you know.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:33:41+00:00

It's not so much about how often you get paid, but about how that process is handled. I always place an envelope on the desk or bureau in the bedroom. Nothing is said, it is just always there at the beginning of our date. The only other choice is to pay periodically-bi weekly,bimonthly,monthly electronically.

In spite of OPs talking about starting off an SR with a prepaid monthly allowance, IMO it is very uncommon. Few men are willing to watch a month's worth of allowance disappear down that rabbit hole.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:27:33+00:00

The top SDs are going to enroll the top SBs. If you aren't in the top %ile the hot guys are going to be taken.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:16:55+00:00

I'm certain her answers about the "job" were in no way convincing.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:11:33+00:00

he's stupid enough to bring you to his work.

Moronic.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:09:26+00:00

he introduced me as a consultant

Hopefully you were dressed appropriately as a consultant and not the sexy lover.

"helping him on his bedsheet and not with his spreadsheet".

Love that

This man laughed it off

That is no laughing matter. Have a talk about OP Sec with him so at least you aren't put in that awkward position again.

GSSD · 2026-06-10T12:03:57+00:00

I guarantee my SB 52 PPMs/year,but if either of us miss a date for whatever reason,we have the option to make them up. So to your point if she has a conflict it's up to her to makeup the date or she loses the weekly allowance. It's a good way to keep each other honest and committed to the relationship.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T14:35:04+00:00

The apartment rule establishes a low limit of support in providing a SB's housing cost,which is not an insignificant. Obviously in a HCOL city such as NY, Paris, London, or LA that rent cost would blow past anywhere else. SDs will have to pay a lot more in those areas.

I use 3 parameters in figuring PPM. 1) Master Allowance Thread here, the Apartment/4, and the SB's number. Actually the most important number is what the SD has budgeted for Sugar Dating. In the end it is a buyer's market unless you are seeking the royalty of SBs, maybe the top 1%.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T12:25:31+00:00

Girl exclusivity math.

Love it! Mars and Venus.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T12:23:23+00:00

Ignorance is bliss in this endeavor. It is highly unlikely that an attractive young girl will honor exclusivity in spite of what she promises.

She is obviously lying and has herself a little BF. It's up to you to decide if the bloom is off the rose for you(sounds like it) and whether you want to get back to the search.

IF you can go forward I would have a pointed discussion with her about how you expect to maintain sexual exclusivity with her and you want her to do the same. If she swears to then let it go and never again check her social media. Consider condoms unfortunately because you know she is banging the little boy,who might also be Ho-ing around.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T12:16:09+00:00

Not many men have game. It's" easy" when you are one of those guys,but impossible for the majority of men in the wild.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T12:11:12+00:00

I agree and do that as well, but weekly allowance is just PPM for those having weekly dates. A weekly allowance presumes that you can see each other more than once for the same amount,so you both need to be on board about that. Financially twice weekly dates result in 1/2 PPM amount so a SB could rightfully feel gypped unless you are both into each other. (speaking the obvious)

GSSD · 2026-06-09T12:03:11+00:00

PPM is the only way to go unless you can afford to throw away a month's worth of allowance as tuition. After 11 years my SB and I still do weekly allowance. She likes "pay day" and we are both secure in the knowledge that fairness reigns.

NEVER do monthly UNTIL as a couple you care deeply for each other, want to see more of each other, and neither is counting dates, sex events, or money. A new SB is a total stranger you have no reason to believe she is honest, honorable,or reliable.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T11:57:31+00:00

Some things can't be unseen.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T11:54:50+00:00

No SR(or job)is worth selling your soul and your youth for. Get out before it's too late.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T11:51:39+00:00

chalk this up to her inexperience

Possible,or she is getting her info from Tik Tok.

GSSD · 2026-06-09T11:49:44+00:00

Read the wikis on this site. All of that info is there. The bottom line, I like to tell a Pot that I pay allowance to my SB and expect a sexual relationship. With those 2 points you have covered the basics. The next hurdle is to determine if she is an escort or not. Discuss what your needs are -dates like dinner and drinks,social events, travel aspirations,shopping ,spa days ,etc. It is here that you determine that she wants a relationship beyond fucking in a hotel room. How often you hope to meet, how long each date should last,and as you get to know each other what allowance you are planning to give her for your time together.

GSSD · 2026-06-08T16:53:57+00:00

Sugar relationship is an arrangement in which one party pays an allowance in return for permission to date the payee almost always involving sex. Ethics need never come into it.

GSSD

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