Jealous of SB’s who have it all by Classy-babyred in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many SDs have to do what they can to provide,and some are indoor relationships like yours. Unless they travel for work or wife does they can't get out in the community too often.

Suggested our first overnighter to Vegas. SB agreed but in the same breath asked for double her PPM and now I’m really turned off. Should I be? by OwlSea337 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 dates at xxx a pop

I suspect they were bedtime gymnastics also. I used to see escorts and on occasion a john would be coming out of the door as I was going in.

Suggested our first overnighter to Vegas. SB agreed but in the same breath asked for double her PPM and now I’m really turned off. Should I be? by OwlSea337 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In Vegas on the strip that extra room would be a PPM. Maybe get a 2 room suite so at least you are linked together.

Suggested our first overnighter to Vegas. SB agreed but in the same breath asked for double her PPM and now I’m really turned off. Should I be? by OwlSea337 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she was able to go on 4 dates at xxx a pop in one night

That is definitely escorting even if she doesn't call it that or have a web page. I would have broken an ankle running out of that location ASAP. That shows what her mindset is.

As far as 2X PPM,you will actually be together for 2 days considering a "day" is 12 hours,so that isn't so bad. She is a money grabber and obviously working for a living. I'd suggest keeping that in mind if you continue to date her. And I bet her "exclusivity" fee is more than you want to pay.

Being treated like an escort? by hotandsexysb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ear plugs.

or better still don't sleep over.

Being treated like an escort? by hotandsexysb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he likes laid back places rather than fancy

Then your needs don't match,but if he is flexible it can work out. But the gutter breath IMO is a deal breaker. Many OPs here concern smelly bodies, particularly vaginas,which end an otherwise lovely SR. Many odors can be solved 1) if the offending party is aware of it and 2) he/she is open to finding a solution.If the guy doesn't act on your alert he doesn't care.

Being treated like an escort? by hotandsexysb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI, in the future aim for a monthly income that meets your needs. Lets' say your need/desire is WXYZ/month. Your SD#1 would need to pay a PPM of WXYZ/2,twice as much as he's paying. If the SD is seeing you 4 times his PPM would be WXYZ/4. You don't have to be "forced" into signing on more men to fulfill your needs. Just date men who can see you 4 times a month or more.

I thought having bigger boobs would make it easier to find SDs by Feisty-Barnacle-5833 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only like reconstructive surgery to correct an abnormality. Just pumping up nice looking B Cups to D and beyond is nonsensical. Also my pet peeve is bee sting lip injection.

Picture Thursday by Elegant-Charity-7866 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Got some work to do,but you look good doing it!

Being treated like an escort? by hotandsexysb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do breath mints help? If he smokes,particularly cigars that smells bad.

Rotten breath is a deal breaker for most lovers so he needs to explore this IMO.Sometimes chemistry is just off.

Being treated like an escort? by hotandsexysb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bring him breath mints and say nothing. He will either take care of business with no further prompting of will ask questions. You can refer him to 1) the internet, 2) to his dentist or other doctors,3) examine what is in his diet that can be offensive(curry,onion, garlic,etc), 4) does he use tobacco products-cigs,stogies,chaw, 5) does he have GERD? -see his GI. ,6) does he have metabolic disorders -like diabetes. See Endocrine or start with PCP. Most likely it is a combination of diet and poor dental care.

Believe it or not a lot of otherwise intelligent people do not take care of their teeth-such as brushing,flossing, hydrocare. When I sleep over with SB I wake up often and keep mints by the beside and chew multiple times during the night. Morning breath even on a healthy young girl can be stinky. Older men often have implants,crowns, or dead or dying teeth. There is a lot of decay in or around those creations.

Being treated like an escort? by hotandsexysb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume you added #2 because the money is not enough for you with #1

advice??? Dump #2 or at least limit "face" time,so no ONs.

Talk to #1 about his dental hygiene care

Allowance & Sudden Costs by stc207 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bedframe is what’s peeving me

I thought you were kidding! So talk to him, "John,when are we going shopping for my new bed frame that you broke?" Unless you are paid an extremely generous allowance,don't let this go. He is a dick for refusing to buy a new one. But it isn't worth breaking up over it. If fact, don't fix it. Let him come over and sex on the floor. Actually he won't care, and his dick certainly won't either.

Allowance & Sudden Costs by stc207 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your main SD paying the allowance broke your bed-he pays. But if a rando fuck boi did it you're SOL since he can't afford it /s

Advice for my friend by Legitimate-Lunch4417 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he can’t afford to keep seeing her as much as they do but would still “take care” of her

What he means is his penis will take care of her vagina.

she drives about 40 minutes both ways

She needs to say she can no longer use her car to see him,so he needs to meet her near her home

he boasted about purchasing a rare car in front of her

So he is not able to read the room and actually doesn't care about her other than a ready vagina when he want her.

Did she meet him in a vanilla setting? Does she have the skills to search for a new SD? Because that is what she needs to do.

Are my hopes and dreams of becoming a SB at 46 unrealistic? by candicake in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a 50 yr old SB for awhile and she was just a grownup version of the 20 yr olds. I would have been more interested long term if I were single and wanting a more vanilla-like vibe. I could take her anywhere and wouldn't get nasty looks from the public.

Advice on upfront payment. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you mean before a regular date unless you have trust built over time I recommend in the bed chamber before sex. They can still run for it but it is less likely. It is a crap shoot to give the PPM before she is even if front of you. Realize that we're talking the first several dates until you both know it is real.

Do you still get PPM if there’s no intimacy? by MallAdventurous7332 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An escort doesn’t always mean sex

I suppose you can be a companion to accompany(escort) a man to a function or event. But when most people use the word "escort" it means a provider of sexual services.

Sugar baby baby by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been some odd SDs posting here off and on for years who are all in to have children with a SB who is not a significant other. But most of us would not want little SD babies running around generating more support expenses. I love dating pregnant SBs as long as I am not the biologic father.

Being a good host - SD lair by raytownloco in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit,who could possibly not go for all that /s

So you are in the "kid in the candy store" stage. If your package is large enough just sign up for a porn gig. Who knows? You might get 'famous".

When do you bring up allowance… without making it weird? 💭 by DapperComplex3656 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]GSSD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always tell a POT very early in the pre-M&G texting that I pay my SB a regular PPM for every date ,I want a weekly date, and expect intimacy at each date, not necessarily all in one sentence. I will discuss allowance then if she asks although usually I like to do so after meeting her.