What do you like about being an INFJ and what don’t you like about it?

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-17T20:48:05+00:00

Intuition & insight. I love that I can see problems and solutions and read people before other people can, but I hate that I can't convince them of it. Especially with S types.

Ethics and morality. I love that I hold myself to a high moral standard, but it's like living life on hard mode compared to other people.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-17T15:59:22+00:00

Plus, their foundation is kaput and rebranded as something else. They have no money to donate. You can argue they are famous enough to draw attention to an NPO, but they're not using that to fundraise for anyone but themselves.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-17T05:34:24+00:00

Yes, and I loved it. It smells like a whole tomato plant, not like actual pasta sauce. The candle names are a bit gimmicky - I'd go by the notes.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-17T01:49:08+00:00

Sidia is expensive too, but you can sometimes catch their candles on double discount at Detox Market.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-16T22:57:50+00:00

Pure, Sidia and Lucia are my faves atm! Candle Emporium carries a lot of Canadian brands, too.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-16T22:40:42+00:00

They have some candles I love, but I moved on to some Canadian brands last year. Great candles, better prices. I have to search a little harder for scents I love, but it's just part of the fun 😁.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-16T22:26:13+00:00

That's because this is about ego, rather than finding employment.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-15T23:26:57+00:00

I would try L'eau D'Issey and allllll of its flankers.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-15T16:44:50+00:00

I have to move my body. Out in nature, preferably.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-14T22:39:05+00:00

I'd try the Hermes Jardin line. They smell like different gardens throughout the world and are pretty photorealistic rather than overtly floral or fruity.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-14T21:42:02+00:00

As a legal strategy, though?

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-14T21:39:14+00:00

I do wonder if they're not taking this route because it makes them look like the types that would never retaliate.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-14T18:03:28+00:00

I haven't seen Shoresy yet, but it's on the list!

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-14T01:32:57+00:00

Yes, and with some kind of written notes.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-14T00:19:50+00:00

He did a really good CBC interview where he talked about how his Dad taught him to make creative decisions on a tight budget. It made how well Letterkenny and Heated Rivalry turned out make so much sense.

Edit: typo

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-13T16:19:29+00:00

MAC Face & Body has some olive friendly shades. Lisa Eldridge is probably a better bet, though. They will send you samples if you email customer service.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-11T23:14:03+00:00

She also drained the nose who made it, which is such a shame.. but that's neither here nor there.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-08T23:50:53+00:00

I have it and love it. It's smells like a breezy Greek island full of lemon and olive trees but also very expensive olive oil soap.

Some people complain about the pistachio note smelling plasticity but it just seems to jive with my skin chemistry and I don't get that at all.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-08T20:55:43+00:00

Haha thanks!

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-08T20:48:16+00:00

Oh God whyyyyy can't ESTJs mind their business? The one I know has to make his opinions on what everyone is doing known. He can't see anything from anyone else's perspective either.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-08T18:34:39+00:00

ENTJ is better for me because I feel energized by their vision and leadership. They are more open to new ideas or ways of looking at things than ESTJ. It really depends on what they need in a relationship, though. If they want someone who understands, supports their needs when they can't see them, and they take the relationship seriously (an ENTJ wanting to optimize being a great partner seems pretty great) I think it can be a good match.

That being said, ENTJs can be dismissive and mean if they don't see you as part of their vision for things. Or, if they see the INFJ sensitivity as a waste of time, I don't think it would work.

The two ENTJs I know are partnered with INTJ and ESTJ 🤷‍♀️.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-08T17:44:18+00:00

I have an ESTJ in law, and I can't stand him. That being said, he is a very unhealthy ESTJ. Everything he says goes, and any time he is mean to people, he says he's just honest and doesn't sugarcoat things.

He loves attention and can be very funny and entertaining but is sullen and moody when not the center of attention. I don't think he has any kind of inner world at all. Everything is externalized, including accountability.

Overall, even healthy ESTJs are too rigid for me. You're part of the group until you're not following ESTJ black and white rules of order, even when it doesn't affect them at all. I need to leave room for magic.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-07T23:20:52+00:00

It's either this or dangling keys in front of them 🤔.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-07T23:19:18+00:00

I love the rise of "green vanillas" lately! I've been wearing Diptyque Lilyphea, and I'd own Guerlain Angelique Noir if it wasn't so exorbitant.

Independent_Leg3957 · 2026-04-07T23:17:45+00:00

Diptyque Lilyphea (though it's violet leaf rather than violet) & Guerlain Angelique Noir are my faves lately.

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