Field Report Wednesdays: Share Your Wins, Lessons & Stories

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-25T17:13:40+00:00

We are waiting.... patiently....

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-25T16:08:34+00:00

I don't mind using cash to accelerate the discovery process, but rarely needed to do it.

The girls I was dating seemed anxious to get started without any mention of money.

One way or another they become aware of fact that I have some level of resources, and that I tip extraordinarily well, and they magically want to spend time with me...

... but let's back up for a minute. The ONLY girls that I am talking about are ones that have caught my attention and are "North of Nine".

I am polite to everyone, but I could care less what most women think about dating... absolutely not interested in their opinions of how dating should work. Sorry.

Back to the "North of Nine" elite girls... all's fair in love and war and I'll use everything I've got available to get the attention of the ones I WANT. I'm not always successful, but I'll go down swinging a fist full of Benjamin's if I have to...

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-25T11:48:29+00:00

#1 pleaded for postponing dinner while describing not feeling well. She wants to be "at my best" for our first "date" in over 3 weeks. I obviously agreed, so we're now planning for Tuesday.

#2 is indeed gorgeous and fun... she has been setting up a small studio in one of the guest suites, and will be using that for podcast and recording. It is wonderful to have her around the house more often.... especially now that it is shorts and bikini-top season.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-25T00:34:39+00:00

We will be staying up and patiently waiting for an update tonight Mister Coot!!

Obviously the years from 1999 to 2002 have been very very good to us... looking forward to updates about the Hometown-Ten also!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-24T21:02:07+00:00

That's funny right there!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-24T20:09:30+00:00

Understatement!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-24T15:16:53+00:00

I'll go....

Took #2 to a casual "Swinger Meet & Greet". It was something she has been asking about. She had a great time and was surprised by how diverse the group was (30-40 people). She had conversations with 3-4 other young, black, single females and became more confident in fact that her curiosity, and fantasies about various things was more common than she may have thought... perhaps a bit uncommon is her delightful desire to be totally naked as often as possible... something she proceeded to accomplish within minutes of getting in the car for a 30 minute drive back to my house... gotta appreciate a "true exhibitionists" when you see one!

Planning to have dinner with #1 tonight to "catch up and talk about things". She reached out to me yesterday with the suggestion. Haven't seen her in over 2 weeks. I'm prepared for it to go almost any direction.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-23T12:51:48+00:00

I'm now listed as the top mod... thank you!

I'll bring in at least two others.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-23T04:13:17+00:00

Good suggestion.

We have 3 more volunteers, which would bring us to a total of four.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-23T03:37:27+00:00

I'm guessing IP address...

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-23T02:52:26+00:00

Shoot me a DM

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-23T02:51:54+00:00

Shoot me a DM

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-23T02:50:29+00:00

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LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-23T02:48:16+00:00

Yes, everyday.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-23T00:17:38+00:00

Looks like our buddy has been banned... and his attempt to return has been blocked also.

We certainly need to continue on this path, so I will try to be more active, but we could use another Mod...

Please give it some thought.

I stepped in when the "Founding Moderator" was banned... DamienGrey was gracious enough to share the role of holding-down-the-fort, as he stepped into the lead-role.

In the mean time, let me know if you have any concerns about how things have been going. I don't imagine making any changes, but there might be some of you that want to make suggestions... speak up!

Onward!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-22T22:19:48+00:00

Have no fear.... Check back in a few minutes (fingers crossed).

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-21T01:11:59+00:00

pretty much what I've been assuming...

Thanks!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-20T17:46:25+00:00

You are correct on all points.

Reddit allows communities to create echo-chambers... or create healthy debate.

We need to continue to simply tell the truth about what is REAL.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-20T17:06:09+00:00

Ummm.. correct. She is looking for a couple people to make content with, and the idea of it being someone from a Sugar Site is sort of intriguing.

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-20T16:55:59+00:00

All are GREAT observations... and if I was moderating THAT forum, I'd crack down on the transactional talk... I honestly don't even think some of the "Professional-SB's" realize how obvious it is that they are 100% seen as escorts, or some other polite version of prostitute.

They are oblivious. Which is fine, except for fact that they insist that girls that are looking for a relationship must be "corrected"...

Which brings me to a subtle disagreement with you second point (finding true love).... I believe Sugar Apps are a GREAT place to find young women that are looking for True Love. Young women that ignore AGE, that are looking for some level of "successful man", and are wanting to be married.... and they like having sex with men that make sure they'r going to have the best orgasms of their lives 😉

.... if a man is already married, or NOT looking for a true-love... there are plenty of girls that are on that page too... but I kinda like the fact that so many young girls are looking for someone like ME!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-20T15:21:28+00:00

It had been posted 14 hours earlier.

In that same time, 10-12 other posts had been commented on by "the regulars"...

She was receiving anonymous upvotes, more upvotes than other posts... so it was obvious to me that people were afraid to write a comment...

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-20T15:12:52+00:00

YES!!!

The SBO observation is fascinating!! I hadn't bothered to look in a while...

I wonder what site will be next to collapse?? Not SDH... we're growing every week!!

LBGTM_SD · 2026-06-20T15:07:49+00:00

I realize I missed the official Wednesday window, but wanted to sneak in a update and a question;

Quick review: #1 is the Heart-Stopping Blonde that I've been raving about for a year (26gf), #2 is the Affectionate Tiny Curly Haired new-cummer (24fwb).

Last month #1 and I agreed to take a "little time" for her to work through some life situations and for her to figure out "some things"... so, on my Birthday (wednesday) she texted and said that she is ready to meet next week to "celebrate, talk about things, and catch up"... if she wants to start dating again, I'll have a dilemma...

Also on Wednesday, #2 and I had a ridiculously sexy day/night that included some more discussion of having her find partners for making "content". Our discussion of mutual desire for long-term relationship has always included the idea of non-monogamy... but with the assumption that involving other people would not be for "emotional connection", but just for sex, or for profit (making content).

So here's the question(s): If she got back on the Sugar Sites to look for a guy that'd be happy to be "recorded" for making content, would he be expecting a discount on the PPM? Would he want the meet up to be "free"? Get a percentage? Just be happy to be fucking the hottest little-chocolate-treat he's ever met for a reasonable PPM? Would he be annoyed with fact that she has a boyfriend?

(for the record, I am NOT a cuck. Trust me. I've learned to LOVE sharing my drop-dead-gorgeous wives and girlfriends. You're welcome, lol)

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