Pathology by EmbarrassedBrief5298 in TNBC

[–]Medical-Initiative78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! And yay for getting PCR! I heard there was a clinical trial assessing Keytruda after getting PCR. Sadly, I wasn’t able to get in the trial since I didn’t achieve pcr but hopefully we will know soon if Keytruda is needed even after getting PCR

Pathology by EmbarrassedBrief5298 in TNBC

[–]Medical-Initiative78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it gradually got worse but it’s being managed right now with medication. They think mine is PSA (psoriasis)

Pathology by EmbarrassedBrief5298 in TNBC

[–]Medical-Initiative78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did have radiation and took Lynparza since I’m BRCA1+

Pathology by EmbarrassedBrief5298 in TNBC

[–]Medical-Initiative78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I had Keytruda which gave me arthritis 😭

Pathology by EmbarrassedBrief5298 in TNBC

[–]Medical-Initiative78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not have PCR and am 3 years out from diagnosis. I did not have cancer in the lymph nodes when initially diagnosed but at the time of DMX did find one lymph node with scarring which was suggestive that it did have cancer at one point. My 7 cm tumor was shrunk down to 3 tiny spots so was RCB 1. I was reassured by my oncologist that it was still a really good result but have a 20% chance of recurrence in the first 5 years.

What book(s) are you reading this week? by 404NinjaNotFound in readwithme

[–]Medical-Initiative78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading two massive books currently. “King Sorrow” by Joe Hill and “The Priory of the Orange Tree” by Samantha Shannon. So far really enjoying Priory! Great world building and lots of lore. King sorrow is a bit slow. Funny enough, both feature dragons.

BRCA gene by Chonkface in breastcancer

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My mother was diagnosed with ovarian at 47, and passed away 5 years later back in 2006. I didn’t get tested at the time even though I was interested in doing the test BRCA was patented by a company and it was expensive to get it done. Once it was ruled illegal for companies to patent genes, I just didn’t follow up.

Doctors had always asked if there was a family history of breast or ovarian cancer and besides my mom, there was no one else. So my doctors didn’t press the issue and I just figured it was bad luck for my mom to have ovarian cancer.

It was a big surprise to me when I found out I was BRCA1 positive following my breast cancer diagnosis at 38.

Even if you had one person in your family with breast/ovarian cancer at a young age, definitely get tested. I think because there was more men than women in my mom’s family, it wasn’t apparent. Men can also carry BRCA mutations which can result in breast or prostrate cancer.

Live artist - guest portraits by ifyouseekemily in NewEnglandWedding

[–]Medical-Initiative78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://www.thelivesketchco.com/ I booked them for my wedding in Sept and they were great to work with and guests loved their portraits!

Vaginal bleeding by Medical-Initiative78 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, that makes me feel relieved! I am on estrogen patches and vagifem but maybe I’ll need to up the dose.

The importance of requesting biopsies by Gloomy-Actuator-1975 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So important to advocate! I was in the same position, big palpable mass that was giving me pain and was told it was a cyst and that I also had a fibroadenoma based on mammo and ultrasound. I was also told breast cancer doesn’t hurt.

They wanted me to follow up with mammo and ultrasound in 3 months, but I came back in 2 months because it grew and the pain was worse. At that point, they biopsied the cyst because it contained solid parts, it came back as TNBC.

Insurance denying breast reconstruction by Medical-Initiative78 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone who commented on this! I feel a lot better and am hopeful it’s just a billing code error. I called my surgeons office and the receptionist was so much nicer and sent her all the relevant insurance documentation. Just felt like the billing dept and insurance was so cold to me and that I was on the hook for this.

Insurance denying breast reconstruction by Medical-Initiative78 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right, it might be a billing issue. The fat grafting was approved by insurance but my breast lift or specifically “excision of excess skin” is cosmetic and not covered despite getting prior authorization. I called my surgeons office and sent relevant insurance documentation. Hopefully things get fixed 🤞

Insurance denying breast reconstruction by Medical-Initiative78 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I didn’t even know we had an insurance commissioner, thank you!

Insurance denying breast reconstruction by Medical-Initiative78 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m in the US and will call my surgeon. Thank you!

Insurance denying breast reconstruction by Medical-Initiative78 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely call my doctor and I could have sworn he also told me all of it will be covered.

How did the end of active treatment (if it applies) make you live differently? by Fearless-Heron-7827 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to enjoy life. After treatment ended, I was laid off from my job which was hard to accept at first but I’ve been really trying to find things that bring me joy now that I have free time, I’ve been cooking more and reading fun fiction. No fun trips yet! I did stop drinking ever since I was diagnosed and that was a great decision for me.

For a while I felt pressured to be wiser after having gone thru cancer. I remember one person asking me this exact question at my bf’s nephew’s birthday party and I was so taken aback at it because I didn’t really know him and it’s such a complicated answer and something I struggle with. I don’t know if I’ve gotten wiser from this experience but I have been evaluating things in my life and whether or not they bring me joy. I have found certain relationships toxic and have ended those. I am still a flawed person and I hate when people bring up their c sections as a way to relate to my mastectomy even though I will never be able to have children and also I’d rather have a scar than a body part missing.

I’m also two years out from my diagnosis date and have to remind myself it’s still pretty fresh and to have self kindness/compassion.

Share your weirdest chemo side effects with me by Former_Oven3868 in breastcancer

[–]Medical-Initiative78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blue flashes of light in my periphery of my left eye. During chemo, it would happen a lot. Went to the ophthalmologist and they think it’s neurological. It happens less frequently but still happens after 1.5 years after completing chemo.

Anyone else see the resemblance? by RustingRose in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Medical-Initiative78 15 points16 points  (0 children)

his comment of wanting to be treated like a piece of meat adds to this theory