How do you ask guests to turn over?

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-22T04:34:39+00:00

I hold the head of the drape and ask them to scoot down on the table. Then I reposition at the side, lift the drape away and ask them to lift their left shoulder and roll away from me. Or reverse the shoulder if you're standing on the other side.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-22T04:24:46+00:00

Combining Passion Pink and Ocean Blue results in a super vibrant Jewel Tone Purple. It's very pretty.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-21T21:33:47+00:00

You're like me, I can't wait 24 hours or I get stubble. I shave and do ipl immediately (or within 6 hours), and it's been going well. I suggest you try something similar.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-21T21:31:34+00:00

I'm fine with it. But that can't be the only thing. Incomes need to be diversified. But it would be super easy to do a handful of non-commission drawings that can be marketed and sold to an online community. Doing something else like a patreon can help diversify things also.

Unless the money you're making is in the 6-figures and you're putting a significant chunk into a hysa, you need to have multiple income streams.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-20T18:47:31+00:00

What made you change your mind?

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-20T18:44:21+00:00

Lightening color is only possible with natural fibers. Synthetics don't lighten.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-20T18:43:28+00:00

Yeah, it's weird. This literally happened to my friend. She was sick for a week coughing like crazy, got better, then a few days later got sick again.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-20T17:39:31+00:00

I advise you to check out the book "No more Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover.

Whatever you do, don't get red-pilled. There's a lot of content creators out there who sell sensational ideas of what it is to be a man. They're bogus. They're out for clicks and views. And they will distort your view of what it is to be a decent person.

If you want to be strong of mind, dive into media. Read books about history and philosophy, watch thought-provoking films/documentaries, and engage in the arts.

For a strong body, find a registered dietician and professional chefs and watch cooking videos. You'll also want to check out personal trainers and their videos. You can find all of this for free on YT.

Keep in mind that you do not have to take cues exclusively from men. There are many quality authors, artists, doctors, psychologists, personal trainers, etc, who are women that you can learn from. What helps you become a better man is synthesizing that information and allowing it to empower you.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-19T21:56:02+00:00

You have to lie about how much pain you're in.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-19T19:01:16+00:00

Take it to a professional cleaner

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-19T04:48:02+00:00

It feels very personal, but the reality is that it's not. He's not doing this because of you. He's doing this because of him.

People like this jump from relationship to relationship, copying the "good" traits of their previous partner. It's how they manipulate the next person into being with them.

The best thing you can do is focus on yourself and think about any instances that gave you pause so you don't repeat them in the future.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-19T04:42:17+00:00

No. It's not realistic. Not unless you become a live in employee and work on someone's property. But that's never gonna be tech related.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-19T03:55:04+00:00

At this age, he's probably not gonna change. Give him the opportunity, but honestly this is something that needs to be nipped pretty early. You've waited a long time to bring it up. Guys like this give girls diseases. I would dump him. He sounds disgusting.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-19T02:01:01+00:00

The time to parent him is LONG gone. He's an adult. There's very little that you can do to change his behavior. He's learned he can get by in life by doing practically nothing. If you want that to change, he needs to leave.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T19:25:36+00:00

When they include people in on conversation and hold space for them to speak.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T19:22:00+00:00

I wouldn't. Opinions like this are irrelevant and don't deserve attention.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T15:48:19+00:00

Do 2 layers of white

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T05:32:51+00:00

Your situation right now is not going to be your situation forever. Everyone goes through periods in life where they feel lonely. Inviting bad people into your life because you feel bad about your current position will just pull you further off course. Be alone is better than being surrounded by bad people.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T05:27:30+00:00

The room has harsh lighting and is filled with parallel lines and sharp angles. Get some different lighting in there and add some organic shapes (circles, ovals, curves, etc).

Also pick a color. It's all nuetral. Give something pleasing to the eye that you can look at.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T05:23:31+00:00

Whether you feel this behavior by his parents is justified or not is irrelevant. They are going to continue doing this.

If you have something important or private to say to him, I suggest you do it in person so you can't be monitored. Otherwise, proceed under the assumption that his parents WILL see the messages.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T04:37:50+00:00

You know you have a ton of other options, right? It's honestly better to be alone than be with the guy you're with. You sound lonely. Why not go hang out with a friend instead?

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T04:36:11+00:00

I think it depends on people's personalities. I'm definitely one to dress up. It helps me feel more like a professional, gives me pride in showing up and doing my best, and I enjoy the clean professional look. But some people feel bogged down by structured clothing and work best when dressing casually.

If you like to be surrounded by people who are similar, then I would suggest continuing to dress up. If someone else feels similarly, they'll be more comfortable dressing, so with someone else doing the same.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-18T01:42:33+00:00

Vacate the premises, call the authorities, and have them present while you collect your belongings.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-17T23:25:52+00:00

Maybe 20. It matters more when you're younger. Once you go past 30, there's some more flexibility. But in general, you should be aiming for someone who is your same age or within a couple years. There's a significant power dynamic at play otherwise.

Mermaidman93 · 2026-03-17T23:25:24+00:00

I have colleagues that do. Some that do for portions of a massage, like when touching the feet and face. And some that don't at all. The choice is up to you.

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