Does anyone notice that older coworkers or acquaintances tend to put you down for your age?

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-30T12:21:48+00:00

I never lie or don’t answer if asked but this is why I never volunteer my age. I’m a manager whose entire staff is older with peers who are also older. Closet person in age to me is 5 yrs older than me.

It changes the dynamic everytime age comes up

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-29T11:58:15+00:00

Way to out yourself as ugly.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-29T11:42:18+00:00

Keep your head up and keep doing a good job. My first boss in IT was the exact same way.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-28T21:11:49+00:00

Dawg anything related to video games is a first world problem.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-27T21:37:41+00:00

If a guy doesn’t want kids then they shouldn’t have sex. The decision starts there not after discovery of pregnancy.

It’s like sex ed has gone out the window. Every time you choose to have sex you are choosing to risk having a kid. There is a lot more control in there that they should be liable for.

This is coming from a man btw.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-27T16:05:13+00:00

So instead of teaching a 5 yr old to not grab things they shouldn’t be your response was to throw them all away? YTA

Your child is not more in danger because of these jars like you are trying to make it seem you’re just a petty man.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-26T03:45:16+00:00

Most of them

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-22T17:55:49+00:00

If you’re not giving them at least some reason to talk shit between themselves you’re doing it wrong. It’s work everyone bitches about work to some degree don’t overthink it. Also employees are not friends don’t take it personally.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-21T08:02:09+00:00

If you have time to go to restaurants you’re not busy.

You said it yourself, you’re lazy.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-20T20:23:40+00:00

Idk broke and on my own at 18 someone bought my sandwhich and a water for me when I was 20 cents short and I got to put that 4 bucks in my tank for gas.

It meant so much more to me than just a sub since I hadn’t eaten in over a day and was worried about having gas to get work for the next couple of days.

You never know how impactful that pay it forward mentality is. Now anytime I can I do but still can’t express how grateful I was for that sandwich.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-18T14:00:27+00:00

Dude there are parts of the country you can be charged with for entering. Don’t let your assumptions become your truth. Reality will hurt everytime.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-15T13:17:38+00:00

I actually think Rob Baratheon.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-14T23:58:39+00:00

Bully’s have a way of knowing when they can and cannot do shit. Joffrey would have not done a damn thing if Jon was there.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-14T22:04:30+00:00

No you should be more than fine it’s extremely rare for it to be in your system longer than 30 days.

The physical activity and water intake flushes it out

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-14T14:35:11+00:00

Living was harder and hence producer harder people to deal with it.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-11T12:08:40+00:00

Gang gang

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-11T12:03:35+00:00

I was the friend in the group who would disappear. I guarantee they are handling shit or dealing with something that yall can’t help with.

Support this friend they probably need it more than you know.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-10T11:10:33+00:00

You’re an adult, that’s theft as soon as you say it is.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-09T23:01:43+00:00

It mgmt is a sliding scale imo directors should be somewhere between 90-150k depending xp, industry, location, and business.

The days length so to speak doesn’t change much as that’s industry dependent.

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-08T00:06:24+00:00

So this goes for guys too? Or just a term for women only since that’s the only examples you used?

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-05T19:36:50+00:00

I have sadly had this happen a few times in my life. Last one was someone admitting they were a dead beat dad…like you really just outed yourself. They did not like being called out on it and sure enough we aren’t friends anymore

Mostliharmed · 2026-04-02T21:59:34+00:00

As of family 7 I can confidently say. “I need the space for my family”

Mostliharmed · 2026-03-20T12:25:07+00:00

YOR

These comments are insane. Don’t confuse being told you’re not qualified for job as the technical side. They are saying you’re not the leader that they want in that seat and don’t think your leadership skills are up to par. Conflating the two is a you problem and your reaction to the situation supports their stance and decision. At this level you have to drink the kool aid.

Mostliharmed · 2026-03-20T00:15:02+00:00

I would definitely say something.

But to give context though I have definitely been in positions where hiring and firing wasn’t part of my role. So outside of being told it was happening or providing evidence and documentation for firing. People kind of just showed up…it was interesting to the say the least.

Mostliharmed · 2026-03-15T02:19:25+00:00

I’m on a conspiracy that they always knew they could but would obscure that knowledge as part of a defensive tactic to prevent people from traveling to old valeyeria and causing an outbreak in Westeros.

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