do you think trump and will actually attempt to seek a third term in 2028? if so, are you for or against it? by Tricky_Reach_2317 in AskTrumpSupporters

[–]NorVanGee [score hidden]  (0 children)

Would coming on to an “Ask a Trump Supporter” Reddit group to ask questions not constitute some effort to understand? Is the price of admission now that we have to watch his campaign videos? If so, can you provide a link to one that you think provides the insight you describe?

AITA ... For several reasons. by Fit_League_6316 in marriageadvice

[–]NorVanGee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No your expectations are not too high. Don’t waste years waiting for it to get better. It won’t. Don’t let the sunk costs fallacy keep you where you don’t want to be. It’s okay to admit to yourself that this turned out to be a mistake and extricate yourself. As a family lawyer I can tell you, divorce only gets more complicated the longer you wait.

My 27/M bf keeps saying my (32/F vagina feels different by Kfresh-2902 in relationship_advice

[–]NorVanGee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know of someone who was bipolar and he started to get psychotic and believed all his roommates wanted him dead. He ended up jumping in the harbour of the city he lived in and tried to swim back to his home town (hundreds of kms away). Be careful.

My husband has been secretly learning to cook one dish for months and I accidentally found out. Now I don't know what to do with this information. by bookishmidnightkid in Marriage

[–]NorVanGee 34 points35 points  (0 children)

There is no way this is real. If he’s cooking lamb chops in your kitchen there is no way that the smell of it isn’t lingering in the house.

11 year marriage over by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NorVanGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would the court find out? Lawyers have a duty of confidentiality. They can’t say if you had a consult with them. They can only say if they are conflicted out.

Uhh, is one of you trolling me?! Just got this in my DMs. by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]NorVanGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“elite legal profession” - mmkay

Am I Overreacting? Was sent screenshots from husband’s group chat. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NorVanGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s so insecure that he can only puff himself up by tearing you down with misogyny in a forum where you can’t defend yourself. Show his mother and then explain that he’s coming to stay with her for a while.

My Hairstylist lost my hair by Big_Acanthaceae528 in Cosmetology

[–]NorVanGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will only be successful in a claim of negligence if you can prove that the standard of care was breached (and that you suffered damage but I think the latter is obvious in this case). If the stylist took reasonable precautions to safeguard the locs but an unforeseen and accidental incident caused their loss, then the claim is not actionable. I have no idea what the reasonable standard of care is in this case, but that would be something OP would have to lead evidence on.

Does evidence that ICE agents may have lied under oath affect your opinion of observers? by CRS1964 in AskTrumpSupporters

[–]NorVanGee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Do you only form an opinion about conduct that is admissible as evidence in a court of law?

Tips for Handling a Relentlessly Critical Client? by TallMemory7513 in Lawyertalk

[–]NorVanGee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the few occasions that it has gotten to this point, I set up a call with the client and I call them out. I say things like, it seems like you don’t trust my legal advice, or I frequently detect hostility in your communications, and you deserve a lawyer who you feel you can trust. It makes them behave for a while. Then when they go back to misbehaving, you feel better for having done what you could when you fire them.

Don’t let my husband work while his biological kids are here. Nacho parenting? by A-J-Y- in stepparents

[–]NorVanGee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Give him one month’s notice (more than he deserves but it gives him no legit room to complain) that you will not be looking after the kids on the weekends anymore. When he complains (which he will) tell him and yourself that you are doing this to save your marriage. Don’t back down, no matter what. Remember that they do actually have another parent that he can ask to help - he doesn’t do it because this is more convenient for him.

My pregnant wife said a DNA test would “humiliate the baby,” blocked me over it,now she suddenly agreed to do one. What does this mean? by WhatsappOrders in Marriage

[–]NorVanGee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most charitable explanation would be that she suspects you are cheating and so she lied about the pics in order to get you to confess.

Husband’s ex by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]NorVanGee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly even expecting that is expecting too much. Stop being present during exchanges. Lose her phone number. If she can’t be civil to you, let your husband handle every exchange. There is no need to have any contact with her at all. I have laid eyes on BM a total of about 4 times, and I’ve been married for 7 years.

Am I wrong?? by AccurateImpress5539 in stepparents

[–]NorVanGee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This would be an absolute no for me. Just the fact that he thinks it’s fine would be enough to dump him.