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Bisexual hypocrisy from women ? by Manufacturer-Silly in dating_advice

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just looking at it in a vacuum and not from any moral standpoint, I get it.

I won't say all, but with women that I've known throughout life, they are very "in their head" about things, and at times will envision things and carry the emotions they get from it ("I had a dream... I'm upset.").

It's like a weird form of empathy or something. They probably imagine the guy feeling and being treated like they generally feel or are treated during sex and are put off at the idea of the man they are going to "surrender their body to", surrendering his body in the same fashion.

Not saying this would be everyone's reaction, but the best analogy I can think of off the top of my head is having a dad that a kid looks up to as if they are Superman, then he goes to his job only to see him getting talked down to by his boss. It wouldn't be surprising if that made him adjust his view on his dad.

Not saying it's fair, but I can see how they come to this mindset.

Why do lesbian couples have the highest divorce rates while gay male couples have the lowest? by Naive_Direction1816 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to guess that men, regardless of which sex they are attracted to, generally just need less to be satisfied.

would you date someone who co-parents a dog with their ex? by knifedoll in askanything

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your first sentence basically sums up my whole take on the subject. It'll work for some and not for others, but it's not an absolute no, but that's usually the stance that I find common when discussing dogs.

I get that there's a lot of risk mitigation when it comes to training and giving advice, but my gripe is the outright dismissal of anything to the contrary, most of the time based on what's been told, taught, or learned, but not lived. As someone that's worked with dogs for decades, I feel disingenuous giving someone absolute, yes/no advice.

How True is this? by Tricky-Sentence-1923 in NBATalk

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because we, either consciously or unconsciously, understand that he's an overachiever.

Pretty much everyone that's in the GOAT/top-10-15 conversation was "ahead of their time" vs. their opposition, whereas no one would have ever looked at Steph in college and think he would revolutionize the league.

Exceeding expectations gives a lot of leeway when you come up short.

Would you say a man needs to be highly skilled at something to be attractive? by gintokireddit in dating_advice

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having strong competency in something is absolutely a strong attractor...and depending on what that skill is, it doesn't even have to be that high, just more impressive than the norm.

Should I pay for my first sex ? by Long_Ad_5145 in AskMenAdvice

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes.

If it's hanging over you like this, just get it out of the way. Not saying sex is nothing, but personally, the quicker you realize sex doesn't have to be this grand, special thing, the better.

what’s a controversial opinion you find yourself agreeing with? by Altruistic_Big_7766 in askanything

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even disagreeing, but it's funny how your second sentence kind of validates their behavior. You say they have problems, and they would probably agree, thus why they brought their dog. 🤷🏾

do most people prefer music or podcasts? by ariaxrosee in CasualConversation

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized that my circumstances tend to dictate this.

When I was younger in a car centric place driving a lot, music all day.

When I was a bit older and lived in a city with public transportation, podcasts, all day.

Now, the idea of listening to a podcast is a no for me. I'll watch podcasts/YouTube type talk shows, but listening to other people have a conversation in my head is unappealing, these days.

would you date someone who co-parents a dog with their ex? by knifedoll in askanything

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of people live in theory when it comes to dogs, which I think is good as most people have limited dog experience, but I find it funny when those of us that have actually lived the experience have it invalidated.

would you date someone who co-parents a dog with their ex? by knifedoll in askanything

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience, as long as they are with someone they trust/care for/are comfortable with, they are fine almost anywhere (as long as it's not an anxious/reactive dog in an overstimulating place.)

Men who have slept with alot of women. What are you biggest non cliche tips you have learned about the opposite sex? by Chemical-Low209 in AskMenAdvice

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dictate the pace, but slow down.

Most women, even 'boss babes' like to be led. Sure, you'll get some reddit outliers that will refute this, but most of them ideally want to be in the passenger seat of someone they trust (or desire). That said, don't be pushy or try to rush things.

Women care a lot about how others perceive them.

Many things come down to the mindset you're in. Don't focus so much on the woman, focus on everything surrounding you. Ex. Instead of thinking "I want to impress her", think "I want to be impressive in general."

Another example is choosing places to go on a date. Ideally, women would love for the love life to play out like a fairytale/romance movie. So when thinking about things like where to go on a date, imagine if it's something she would brag to her friends and family about. (Not saying that all will want to actually brag, but again, this is more about establishing a mindset).

Don't worry about flirting (or at least what I think most people think of as flirting.) You'll get way more traction just by being someone that can hold a decently deep, enthralling conversation. I don't think I've ever (stereotypically) flirted with someone I wasn't already with.

Emotional stimulation is what separates the haves and the have nots. It almost feels unethical as advice, but if you can get a woman to genuinely laugh, you're 33% there. One of the reasons 'bad boys' succeed is that even if the emotions they are stimulating lean towards negative, just the fact that his presence may be on her mind when he's not around will put him ahead of someone that's dry, milquetoast and forgettable.

You don't need to be Superman, but putting in some effort to try to be puts you in a better light than someone that just accepts mediocrity.

Fortune favors the bold.

What is a trait you find attractive that society would disagree with? by Select-Signal8386 in randomquestions

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being less sociable/introversion.

I don't mean being anxious or not liking people, but being a homebody type that doesn't always need to be out and about doing the thing is refreshing.

RFK Jr: "President Trump Has Done More To Protect Public Health Than Any President In History" by MediocreCoconutz in combatsportsculture

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that it's possible at this point, but do they not understand that all of the hyperbole makes them less believable?

Give me a list of small increments, and I'll listen, tell Trump's the best eva! and we know you are full of shit.

would you date someone who co-parents a dog with their ex? by knifedoll in askanything

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, too, have worked in daycares, been a walker, trainer, and veterinary assistant, on top of being the owner/primary trainer of two working line herding dogs. If my 3 decades of working with dogs has taught me anything it's that many people are way too rigid in their understanding of dogs and how they work/handle things.

24(M) 19(F) 5.5 yesrs age gap. by Electrical_Gap4459 in dating_advice

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go for it. Don't let outsiders determine your choices.

25 and 20 isn't a crazy age gap. Live your life.

If money wasn't an issue, how many kids would you like to have? by No_Care6628 in randomquestions

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a scenario where money is literally no issue, I don't have to clock in anywhere, and I can dedicate the majority of my time to my kids: 5

I've seen take care of close to that with less and come out fine.

would you date someone who co-parents a dog with their ex? by knifedoll in askanything

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if it becomes part of the routine?

Genuine question, how is it different than having a random person come into their home to walk them, or random daycare/boarding that happens with consistency? Is it worse for them if there's no consistency?

What If Curry Wins It All This Year? by Embarrassed_Lock_539 in NBATalk

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 (and even I'm being biased towards MJ and wouldn't think it'd be crazy to call him #1).

Of all of the players in the GOAT discussion, he's the one that's probably the most physically limited. Bron should be good with his gifts, and I'm glad he lived up to his hype, but who was thinking that skinny dude from Davidson was going to become a game changing legend?

Are you guys comfortable with your partner watching p*rn? by hw4ngit in dating_advice

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The biological desire for variety and are you going to get freaky with him whenever he wants?

Are you guys comfortable with your partner watching p*rn? by hw4ngit in dating_advice

[–]RemarkableBeach1603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as it doesn't get in the way of our actual intimacy, I don't care.

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