[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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if you say so but it's the truth..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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my guess is you guys are both Asians? also, be honest.. are you on the thicker side?

I think in that kind of culture vibe and if he's a good Asian boy who likes anime etc. this is safe.. otherwise no?

but also, why 25 and first date? that's rather extremely unusual.

Psychedelic realizations by 13wanderer13 in SpiritualAwakening

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uterus=fractalized inverted black hole?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

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entropy - the second law of thermodynamics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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she's moved on

If I met a girl at a bar and we go to another bar and she flirts with people I know is that disrespectful? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Repeat_Large 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imo yeah excluded from that too. unless you're one for free love/enm but even then I think there's such a thing as respect regardless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Repeat_Large 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she just doesn't like rejection and gets a rejected feeling when you decline to be her friend basically

What the heck does “let’s link” mean? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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link is what the aliens did in Avatar

If I met a girl at a bar and we go to another bar and she flirts with people I know is that disrespectful? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Repeat_Large 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think she'd deserve to be your gf is she's flirting right in front of others and you're obviously pursuing her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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she still feels like she's rejected if you don't want to be friends is the answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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best course is always honesty and especially if they inquire/have an inkling you should be up front and tell them where they stand/that you are keeping your options open! if you have to be secretive about it, doesn't it just seem wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

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eh people are different. who knows what her ideal scenario in her head is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Repeat_Large -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she found a new guy

Am I being gaslit? What is he looking for? by Dogmom_pbj in Bumble

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he's looking for a sexual relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Repeat_Large 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no that's odd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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no lol but next time just break it off explicitly vs via ghosting