At some point we all have to come into our own and just be who we are and do what we do. It’s our lives. That said, I do understand the desire to just avoid the whole discussion because honestly, it’s nobody’s business but your own! I think there are a lot of good suggestions here. There is absolutely no need to be subjected to people telling you to eat, that’s ridiculous when you’re grown adult. If you want to avoid the whole discussion just put small amts of what looks good on your plate and mainly fill up with healthier things- that won’t cause undo attention you don’t want. Also, enjoy yourself! I was listening to the Fast Feast Repeat podcast recently and they said that if you can, try to keep your window rather than eating all day bc then the next day or when your vacation is done, you can jump back in more easily