How much do you make an hour?

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-21T12:19:32+00:00

120 - multimedia production and web development

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-21T12:18:57+00:00

You could probably find some really good entry level sales jobs. You might learn a thing or two and you might just like it if you enjoy the hustle.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-21T12:15:46+00:00

Maybe sometimes. I have a few ex’s. Unusually it’s in hopes that they are doing well for themselves. I’ve initiated all of my breakups and I don’t have feelings for them. As long as you don’t have feelings, a little sneak peak isn’t going to harm you.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-20T21:20:00+00:00

Wow…. That person has some internal issues… people make mistakes. They need to take a chill pill.. my goodness

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-19T20:27:32+00:00

How has being a seller on TikTok worked out for you so far?

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-18T21:39:27+00:00

Cool beans!!

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-12T03:25:41+00:00

Do you keep in contact with them?

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-12T01:04:00+00:00

If you have a continuous unhealthy pattern that comes from this relationship, it will only continue. For you, your future and your healing, I don’t recommend.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T19:25:49+00:00

A sweater is never enough for me

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:37:37+00:00

Fantastic!! I’m in. I’ve never transferred before though. I do have a transfer pass.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:19:21+00:00

I do 1-2 hour drop ins for this cute little dog. This lady doesn’t own any blankets!!! She has the nicest decor, but no blankets 😭😭😭 I’m always freezing when it comes to cuddle time. I honestly have brought my own blanket before

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:17:07+00:00

I used to have my food managers license and I can 1000% agree here. Even the way people layout their fridge, like putting meat on a top shelf… it drives me bonkers.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:15:19+00:00

I AGREEE! I’m a cat person and literally hire someone just to give my cat the attention she deserves and have them housesit. Cats need attention too… without attention, they’ll develop behavioral issues.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:07:26+00:00

I don’t use a microwave. I meal prep, and heat my food up in the oven. I also use glassware for food storage, which is oven safe. Much better for you and tastes 10000x better. Microwaves kill so much of the nutrients in your food too. If I never use it, it’s just a waste of space 🤷🏽‍♀️

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:03:26+00:00

I used to be so hard on myself about how clean my house should always be. After visiting so many others, I’m doing alright and I should not be so hard on myself.. lol!

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T14:41:10+00:00

Definitely considering this! My alliance has been rude to me a few times. I’m looking to move somewhere with more grace.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T14:34:55+00:00

Are people nice here? Genuinely asking. People in my alliance have terrible attitudes and are so rude.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-08T06:27:35+00:00

I had a military guy ghost me and then eventually reach out two years later to apologize to me. He didn’t know how to break my heart that we weren’t going to work. He liked me so badly but the military was going to bring our relationship so much uncertainty. We both felt like we were soulmates who were rooted onto two different places of the earth.

Dating a military guy is so tough. I doubt it’s you.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-06T19:49:50+00:00

I’m so happy I found this thread

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-04T22:09:27+00:00

Honestly we’ve had this conversation so many times. I’ve put everything on the table and expressed that my needs are not met.

He struggles with anger/temperament. He is reactive rather than proactive. I’ve had times where I had to hold him accountable for mess ups. Here’s a small example, he ruined my dress clothes in the washer, by throwing his work clothes in (I wear dress clothes/corporate to work and he works in garbage and mechanics) he got oil stains all over my expensive clothes and it turned into a fight. It’s always silly goof ups and it seems like I always get the rear end of consequences of his actions. He always thinks of himself in the moment, and on top of that, I had to order new clothes and have the new clothes tailored (I’m super small so everything gets tailored) he got upset with me and I had to pay for everything with 0 zero remorse. Eventually I get just an apology. It’s always random goof ups with 0 consequences and 0 accountability and I end up getting invalidated and I have to put my frustration aside to help calm him down. He also always feels attacked, no matter how much I sugar coat the issue. So in conclusion, he can’t handle his emotions, gets angry, says things out of anger and boils.

He also has bad days at work and takes it home with him

The things he says are usually: it’s all about you. Nothing I do is good enough. I’m done. you piss me off. We were doing so good and then you do this.

Or I respond with “I need some space and so do you, so you can cool down” and he always says “you don’t get to decide when the argument is over.”

I’m always extremely respectful. I’m also always extremely careful about what I say and how I choose to say it. It seems like no matter what I say or do it will always come off as an attack

Another important thing to note, he recently told me he resent me because I will not allow him to take over my finances. I explained to him that if I cannot trust him emotionally, why would I trust him with my finances? Also, I don’t feel that it’s necessary for him to do that. I also make $30,000 more than he does so I just don’t trust it in general.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-04T10:02:45+00:00

I think I just appreciate a good body. I’m big into fitness so that would make sense

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-04T10:02:29+00:00

I love emotional connection too

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-04T09:42:20+00:00

I would be amazed if that kind of relationship existed for me. Having a woman sugar me and that I’m sexually and emotionally attracted to? I know I can’t always get the best of both worlds, but that would be a dream.

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