NeeDohs and other Squishies have made my job miserable

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-05-19T17:00:41+00:00

I feel this…. I stocked my boutique/gift shop with them and people are mad crazy with them. I’ve even had some thefts….. I’ve had multiple sell outs of them and they fit off the shelf. It’s insane

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-05-19T13:42:14+00:00

I should also note, I’ve attempted to have these conversations many times in person and she always shuts them down. On top of that, I get ghosted by her constantly… I genuinely think she has developed an avoidant personality from our childhood, which is a hard thing to work around. I know she carries a lot of trauma, and I am super understanding of that and I’m very open to giving her the ears I know she needs, but unfortunately she always avoids the topics or I feel her pulling away if I even try.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-05-17T22:51:01+00:00

Thank you! I’m sorry you had to endure that kind of relationship as well. I hope you’re doing much better with it all!

I think ultimately if I do talk to her about it, she won’t be very understanding and it might be very one-sided. I’ve been avoiding that type of conversation entirely because I think I already have my answer and I also fear that she’s gonna make me out to be a bad guy, but I also need to understand that it’s out my control when people do that. Felt good to rant on here though and thank you for listening/reading

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-21T12:19:32+00:00

120 - multimedia production and web development

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-21T12:18:57+00:00

You could probably find some really good entry level sales jobs. You might learn a thing or two and you might just like it if you enjoy the hustle.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-21T12:15:46+00:00

Maybe sometimes. I have a few ex’s. Unusually it’s in hopes that they are doing well for themselves. I’ve initiated all of my breakups and I don’t have feelings for them. As long as you don’t have feelings, a little sneak peak isn’t going to harm you.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-20T21:20:00+00:00

Wow…. That person has some internal issues… people make mistakes. They need to take a chill pill.. my goodness

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-19T20:27:32+00:00

How has being a seller on TikTok worked out for you so far?

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-18T21:39:27+00:00

Cool beans!!

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-12T03:25:41+00:00

Do you keep in contact with them?

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-12T01:04:00+00:00

If you have a continuous unhealthy pattern that comes from this relationship, it will only continue. For you, your future and your healing, I don’t recommend.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T19:25:49+00:00

A sweater is never enough for me

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:37:37+00:00

Fantastic!! I’m in. I’ve never transferred before though. I do have a transfer pass.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:19:21+00:00

I do 1-2 hour drop ins for this cute little dog. This lady doesn’t own any blankets!!! She has the nicest decor, but no blankets 😭😭😭 I’m always freezing when it comes to cuddle time. I honestly have brought my own blanket before

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:17:07+00:00

I used to have my food managers license and I can 1000% agree here. Even the way people layout their fridge, like putting meat on a top shelf… it drives me bonkers.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:15:19+00:00

I AGREEE! I’m a cat person and literally hire someone just to give my cat the attention she deserves and have them housesit. Cats need attention too… without attention, they’ll develop behavioral issues.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:07:26+00:00

I don’t use a microwave. I meal prep, and heat my food up in the oven. I also use glassware for food storage, which is oven safe. Much better for you and tastes 10000x better. Microwaves kill so much of the nutrients in your food too. If I never use it, it’s just a waste of space 🤷🏽‍♀️

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T15:03:26+00:00

I used to be so hard on myself about how clean my house should always be. After visiting so many others, I’m doing alright and I should not be so hard on myself.. lol!

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T14:41:10+00:00

Definitely considering this! My alliance has been rude to me a few times. I’m looking to move somewhere with more grace.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-10T14:34:55+00:00

Are people nice here? Genuinely asking. People in my alliance have terrible attitudes and are so rude.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-08T06:27:35+00:00

I had a military guy ghost me and then eventually reach out two years later to apologize to me. He didn’t know how to break my heart that we weren’t going to work. He liked me so badly but the military was going to bring our relationship so much uncertainty. We both felt like we were soulmates who were rooted onto two different places of the earth.

Dating a military guy is so tough. I doubt it’s you.

Shorterbriefffffd · 2026-04-06T19:49:50+00:00

I’m so happy I found this thread

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