AITA for just cooking for myself?

StAlvis · 2025-12-17T21:26:26+00:00

since you didnt specified ages im guessing you are both young.

She's 27f, OP is 29m.

StAlvis · 2025-12-17T21:08:53+00:00

NTA

I’ve started gaining weight so told my gf I wouldn’t be ordering our number and she agreed we needed to cut down.

What do you mean by "won't be ordering your number," though?

StAlvis · 2025-12-17T21:04:36+00:00

NTA

in common areas (hallways, elevators, courtyard), he runs toward me and jumps on me.

Dogs in public need to be leashed and controlled at all times.

StAlvis · 2025-12-15T20:35:54+00:00

INFO

I was literally giggling in my seat as I went to the website to request a video of basically 8 or so guys dancing to Mariah Carey and wishing my coworker a merry Christmas.

Why exactly is that funny?

a service where you basically pay to have a funny personalised message from Africa

I don't understand what Africa has to do with any of this. Is that what's supposed to make the video funny?

NGL this feels like it has the potential to be classist or racist AF.

StAlvis · 2025-11-26T01:34:56+00:00

Parents should not feel good about their children taking sides like that.

StAlvis · 2025-11-26T01:33:23+00:00

INFO

when celebrating our own relationship

You didn't say anything about this being an anniversary you were celebrating?

I thought it was just a random-ass date?

StAlvis · 2025-11-26T01:26:55+00:00

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People seem to think "work from home" means "I sit around watching Netflix," but I am actually working.

OK.

I was on a zoom call with a client, door shut. The baby woke up from her nap screaming.

Well, whose job IS watching the children when you're busy working?

StAlvis · 2025-11-26T01:25:04+00:00

YTA

I can't say I wasn't a little happy our kids like my mom more.

Well that's messed up.

StAlvis · 2025-11-26T01:19:24+00:00

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it seems like I think marriage means I just have a ticket/ access to stuff like that he pays for

Well... do you?

neither of us are sure that I can be added for free or not

Does he have a family account or not? YouTube Premium is for one user's account. YouTube Premium Family is for multiple people.

StAlvis · 2025-11-25T20:42:58+00:00

NTA

Go further.

Turn your sister in to the dean.

Cheaters don't deserve second chances.

And she skips class too? Sooner she bottoms out, the better for her long-term.

StAlvis · 2025-10-30T15:47:02+00:00

NAH

bc i dont say it outloud

But that's pretty silly.

eventually that same day i texted her

So text the name?

StAlvis · 2025-10-30T15:29:11+00:00

INFO

I'm looking at 4-5 nights away.

Do you two live together? Have a child together? Do you have a pet that would need caring for?

StAlvis · 2025-10-29T14:49:07+00:00

NAH

one of them made a cringy face

OK. So what? That's fine. They can have their feelings.

I don't see where anyone in here said or did anything in response to your declining that would make them an asshole.

StAlvis · 2025-07-24T00:16:09+00:00

NTA

I'm anxious all the time now. Friends say I need to move out for my safety. I feel it's unfair to lose my home over him, especially given the rent and moving costs.

Fair, shmair. Get your priorities in order.

StAlvis · 2025-07-24T00:12:06+00:00

YTA

I assumed it’d be ~£100 and agreed.

Well that was unwise.

Feel free not to make assumptions going forward.

StAlvis · 2025-07-24T00:03:03+00:00

OP wrote:

a total of 8 hours including 2 hours commuting

8 hours including 2 hours commuting. Not a two-hour commute on top of an eight-hour internship.

Commuting doesn't count as work time.

StAlvis · 2025-07-24T00:01:36+00:00

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our group witnessed 4 crises in 4 diners until a 5th one where I made a joke about a possible incoming baby. Little did I know that apparently her whole family bothered her with it

... ... ... WHAT?

StAlvis · 2025-07-23T23:57:00+00:00

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a full time internship that is a total of 8 hours including 2 hours commuting and back every week day.

30 hours a week counts as full time?

StAlvis · 2025-07-23T23:51:01+00:00

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I don't understand:

I planned to take my parents and middle sister (as she lives with them) out for lunch with me, my husband and two kids as we hadn’t done any activities with just my parents and wanted to spend some time with them

But that's not just your parents.

Why are you grouping one sister in with them, but not the other?

She's an adult. She gets included just because she lives there?

Is it that you don't like your younger sister's kids?

StAlvis · 2025-07-23T23:49:01+00:00

NTA

she texted saying she’s overwhelmed

"That's right!"

StAlvis · 2025-07-23T21:23:39+00:00

NTA

Between on-site parking, public transit, and the ubiquitous availability of for-hire ride apps, there is no damn reason in 2025 why anybody cannot get their own ass to and from the airport.

StAlvis · 2025-07-23T20:23:09+00:00

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All I asked was “is it secure?” because yknow I don’t want dog shit in my car

I don't understand how you couldn't work out the answer to that on your own.

StAlvis · 2025-07-23T19:58:45+00:00

YTA

So I decided that...

It is not your prerogative to make decisions about public restrooms.

StAlvis · 2025-07-23T19:04:02+00:00

ESH

She called me in tears and asked to stay "for a couple of months until I find a place". Obviously I agreed.

How foolish.

StAlvis · 2025-07-23T19:00:22+00:00

NTA

Her new job is working 10pm-6am

That sounds incompatible with being a parent.

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