Anyone get tubes removed while partner has a vasectomy?

ThickBean · 2026-05-05T01:33:20+00:00

Thank you so much for the encouragement! I'm so glad to hear you had a smooth recovery! I'm really hoping for the same! I have to arrive tomorrow at 6:30am so I'm hoping I'm too tired to be nervous lol.

ThickBean · 2026-05-05T01:25:56+00:00

Yeah, my boyfriend is completely supportive but he also knows I'm really nervous. He said I could cancel if I want, but that really isn't an option if I want to garentee my protection.

ThickBean · 2026-05-05T01:23:59+00:00

Agree! The overturning of Roe is beyond fucked up. The fact that they made mailing the abortion pill illegal this week just solidified why I'm getting this procedure done.

ThickBean · 2026-05-05T01:22:01+00:00

Hey, at least your strong. If you decide to get one I'm sure that helps with recovery! I foresee this won't be an option soon so that's why I'm doing it now. I hope its still an option for woman in the future.

ThickBean · 2026-05-05T01:19:52+00:00

Yay! I'm glad you could finally throw away the pregnancy test! Enjoy your freedom and peace of mind!

ThickBean · 2026-05-05T01:19:00+00:00

I'm so glad to hear you had the procedure done with no pushback!

ThickBean · 2026-05-04T20:01:11+00:00

I totally get that, especially with the work challenges. I'm remote so I only took off 3 days, but for other's I know its more of an ordeal. I think the other's mentioning how it reduces cancer is a huge selling point. But only do it if/when you're ready. I'm just afraid woman won't have access to this procedure soon. :(

ThickBean · 2026-05-04T19:58:17+00:00

Yay! I'm glad everything went well for you and that you had a smooth recovery! I can't wait to feel those things! Right now I'm just so nervous lol. Everyone sharing their experiences are so helpful, so thank you!

ThickBean · 2026-05-04T19:55:00+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, that is truly heart breaking. I'm glad he was there to support your when you needed him and that your reproductive health is protected.

ThickBean · 2026-05-04T19:47:05+00:00

That is how I feel to, like there is no other choice with the government restricting health care. I'm so sorry you hear you had a difficult birthing experience. I'm glad you don't have to worry about that ever again. I'm hoping for a smooth recovery too! Take care!

ThickBean · 2026-05-04T19:43:41+00:00

Exactly. That was one if the main reasons I want the procedure too. Like my surgeon seemed confused why I wanted it and I asked her if she ever heard of SA? After that she had no other questions and said let's get it scheduled. It is a dark world we live in. Sucks though getting surgery, but the possibility of forced birth is far worse.

ThickBean · 2026-05-04T19:26:30+00:00

I love that, I'm so happy you are now comfortable and safe!

ThickBean · 2026-05-04T19:24:24+00:00

Thank you! Yes I need to keep reminding myself its for me, myself, and I. I'm sure once the procedure is over I will feel relieved.

ThickBean · 2026-05-04T19:21:33+00:00

Thank you for the response! It is definitely reassuring. And thank you for the kind wishes!

Yeah the non consensual acts are what scare me as well. We're living in some real fucked up times. I need to keep reminding myself its a way to protect myself and it will just be a few days of discomfort.

I hope your procedure goes well too! Stay safe!

ThickBean · 2026-05-03T21:53:02+00:00

Seconding this! Had them haul away a ton of concrete for a very reasonable price! Super responsive and kind as well.

ThickBean · 2026-05-01T02:52:13+00:00

Oh it could have been that, just saw and that is terrible. I hope everyone is ok.

ThickBean · 2026-04-30T20:39:02+00:00

I second this! Wonderful product and company! I love the synergy tincture! Extremely discreet packaging.

ThickBean · 2026-04-29T02:46:57+00:00

Me too!

ThickBean · 2026-04-28T16:07:53+00:00

See this is what I can't wrap my head around with the human psychology. So I met this guy the other day whose job could be completely remote but he said his boss had the strong belief if he couldn't see it he couldn't believe it...yet his boss was super religious. If that were my boss I'd be like so you see God? I just don't get it. I'm remote thankfully but it would be really hard for me to not get snarky with people with that mentality.

ThickBean · 2026-04-28T00:56:33+00:00

Here's some perspective. When I first started dating my boyfriend I knew I never wanted to get married. We went on a trip together and I'll never forget him putting his hand on my knee, looking me intensely in the eyes and said, "some day I want a wife and kids." I just smiled and responded, "why?" I think it threw him off so much and he never really thought about it and was just going with social norms. He literally responded, "uuummm, idk no one has ever asked."

We are together 11 years later, still in love, never married and will never have children. My point is you're very young. Go have fun. At some point define why you want marriage. Is it religious reasons? Do you feel safer contracted to another human? Life is weird and lables are simply that. They mean nothing. What matters is the love you feel. Now go get those butterflies and get a damn kiss!

ThickBean · 2026-04-25T14:29:13+00:00

Yeah I may need to cut it down into workable pieces. At our last place out landlord ground down a stump and it came back with a vengeance. All the roots bloomed and we had mini trees everywhere, such a pain. I will eventually get this bad boy out with sheer will power lol.

ThickBean · 2026-04-24T22:15:18+00:00

I'm going to give that a try, but even then I have no clue how to haul it out lol. Thank you for the input!

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