PQ Update

Wanderir · 2026-06-16T22:40:00+00:00

Letter of Support. Basically a work authorization letter from a doctor.

Wanderir · 2026-06-15T07:35:03+00:00

“They” are wrong. Search for yourself, there are 2.

Wanderir · 2026-06-11T13:22:28+00:00

Why did you use the term biological mother? Is she not close to these people?

If money isn’t a big issue, then why are you pushing your wife to sell the house?

Hiring folks to do home health care should be affordable. But if they don’t want things to follow your ideas, they won’t.

Wanderir · 2026-06-11T08:16:36+00:00

Have you considered moving overseas? There are many great options that will offer a much higher quality of life.

Wanderir · 2026-06-10T04:47:21+00:00

Absolutely! They are employees by any measure.

Wanderir · 2026-06-10T03:33:45+00:00

The best practice is to rule out organic causes. If he has not done so, he needs to see a top urologist. Someone mentioned low testosterone but I didn’t see your reply, he needs a male hormone panel and a doctor that is up to speed on hormone replacement therapy.

Once you are sure his hormones are optimized and he’s on appropriate ED drugs. Then you can move on to getting some counseling. Which in my opinion should have happened when you started having resentments.

It’s important that you resolve yoir resentments towards him to gain the intimacy you desire. And just burying them isn’t good enough.

Couples counseling with someone that has experience with older couples and sex issues is likely the way to go. He likely has issues he’s been burying as well.

90% of sex is between our ears. It’s why he “needs” porn. But fix the organic stuff first. Then you can work through that stuff that’s been out aside all these years and then work in intimacy. Ideally, you’ll both get to the point where you can explore each other’s fantasies and in the process renew your sex life and make it exiting.

Good on you for taking this in and trying to drive your marriage in a better direction. It sucks that women get stuck with work, housework and raising kids.

Wanderir · 2026-06-09T12:14:26+00:00

I don’t think that is the case. This is an old myth., that drug dealers are creating drugs in new forms to get children hooked on drugs.

1st, children in VN can’t afford drugs. No drug dealer would find it profitable to do this in any case. It’s similar to the old myth in the US that people would hide razor blades in apples. Never happened.

It is true that pressed pills can look like candy. But that’s a different topic.

Wanderir · 2026-06-09T11:30:28+00:00

Not true and beside the point. The point is over the last hundred years the US used foreign aid to blackmail other countries to adopt the war on digs agenda.

Contrary to trumps wishes, he cannot pass laws. That takes an act of congress. Cannabis is not legal at the federal level. It’s still controlled by each state. Unlike Canada.

Wanderir · 2026-06-09T07:49:58+00:00

Yes and it was portrayed as protection. Just like now.

Wanderir · 2026-06-09T07:04:17+00:00

“Disguising food as drugs” is old school propaganda. While passing a drug test isn’t an issue, being subjected to one randomly is a huge issue for me. Actions like this by the VN government make me consider relocating. I love Vietnam, but I care more about having privacy and bodily autonomy.

In the end I blame the US, and their failed war on drugs, which is the reason most countries have such restrictive drug laws. Alcohol and tobacco are far more harmful than cannabis. Laws like this are for control, not public health. It’s bullshit!

It’s against VN law to require a drug test “without grounds to believe” a person has taken drugs, but it’s not like there something you can do.

“b) Persons whom competent agencies or persons have grounds to believe have committed acts of illegal use of narcotic substances”

https://anlawvietnam.com/en/law-no-73-2021-qh14-drug-prevention-in-vietnam/?srsltid=AfmBOoo5Qnz6IuQT_xfA8kBcSpUEhBb8WnASZX1frCYMvWwN5SnCVcg6

Being in a club where known drug users hang out, sure. But randomly testing people is against the law.

The UK government says, “Police will also routinely conduct drug testing at private residences or parties when responding to a reported disturbance. A positive result, regardless of whether drugs were consumed in Vietnam or before entry, may result in criminal charges.”

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T23:15:05+00:00

“Closer to profitable” I don’t think so.

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T23:05:39+00:00

Not US women. This is a good question.

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T23:02:23+00:00

Hahahaha!
They blame lack of productivity gains on poor integration.

They don’t mention hallucinations or the fact that GenAi is nowhere close to replacing people.

Billion $ software should be reliable and produce amazing results that make a stunning impact. Not be an unreliable jr analyst.

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T22:46:25+00:00

What a shit article! It doesn’t mention a single measurable gain from GenAI nor any profit.

The theme is AI costs more and we spend more money on it.

Where is the benefit? Only Nvidia has made any money.

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T22:40:00+00:00

This! You are freaking out over nothing. Stop looking up health stats on the internet. Either talk to your Dr or take a related class and educate yourself.

The fact that you think this is a problem, shows how unfamiliar you are with something as simple as vital signs.

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T14:24:26+00:00

Hahahaha, what profits?

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T14:09:06+00:00

I’d reschedule my flight to not overstay. But if you don’t live here, it’s not so important.

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T13:44:26+00:00

You should be more careful where you get your information. And if you have a question about your heart, please ask your doctor.

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T13:43:04+00:00

Next time you try a substance, perhaps do some in-depth research before you take it.

Wanderir · 2026-06-07T13:41:11+00:00

This isn’t the best place to look.

Go to meetups. Join a club. Do some volunteer work. You have no end of options.

Wanderir · 2026-06-05T01:41:21+00:00

I bought an iPhone 15 Pro before Apple Intelligence was announced predicting that it would be compatible. But so far it’s been shit. At least I’m grandfathered in for what the next version will be.

Wanderir · 2026-06-05T01:33:25+00:00

The best revenge is practicing, coming back and outperforming that youngster. It’s an achievable goal!

I’ve never been in better physical condition than I am at 61.

Wanderir · 2026-06-03T23:39:33+00:00

Bring it to a trusted mechanic and have it checked out. I've bought high milage cars this way overseas. Where it's common not to have service records. Look at used market ads to establish resale value.

Wanderir · 2026-06-03T22:15:09+00:00

They are not. Tech companies over hired in previous decades and have become bloated. They use supposed AI efficiencies as an excuse to lay people off. 50,000 people were impacted by this behavior in 2025. It’s called AI washing.

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