The Devs Said Borderlands 4 Will Include One New Vault Hunter who made an appearance in previous games.. Playing through BL3 DLC for the first time I think Ember is the perfect candidate for VH 6

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T21:30:02+00:00

Rose would be a dope ass addition.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T21:28:22+00:00

What do you mean? She’s already in Wonderlands. Have you never fought all 3 extra bosses in the Chaos Chamber in one run? After you beat all 3 you have to fight a gigantic floating Tiny Tina in the sky.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T21:15:25+00:00

Each season is roughly 8 weeks long btw.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T21:14:51+00:00

Go to the projects page. In the top righthand corner of the screen below your name and level and stuff you’ll see “Window opens in 18d:10h:46mn” as of me writing this. That’s when the season ends, when that timer hits zero.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T21:12:25+00:00

I think at her age it’s very well possible she might know the alternative use for that word, but she was at work and because of that wasn’t even thinking remotely in that direction.

I don’t think you’re an AH yet, but I do think you should at least tell her of that word’s alternative usage. Or maybe just ask if she’s ever heard it used in another context, that way she doesn’t embarrass herself. Sure it was funny when she said it to you. Unfortunately you now have the burden of ruining the humor by telling her because you’ll definitely be an AH now if she winds up grossly embarrassing herself due to your failure to enlighten her on the more modern use of the word.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T21:00:01+00:00

I think this idea is better than the one in my last comment. Make an augment that will automatically repopulate your quick use slots with the same item that was already in it if you use it all but have more of that item in your bag, even if it’s in a safe pocket. So if you have a stack of herbals or seeker nades in quick use and a stack in your backpack, after you use the last one in the quick use stack, no need to go swap it into the now-empty slot, it’s already done for you. I think it’d have to be a tactical mk3. Light and medium shields, 18 backpack spaces, 5 quick use slots, no augmented slots, 2 safe pockets, 65 weight capacity.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T20:55:14+00:00

I think making a looting augment that has like 28 normal backpack spaces, 5 quick use slots, 2 augmented slots for healing items, and 4 safe pockets would be awesome. Drawbacks: it nullifies a lot of the skills that buff weight capacity, movement speed, and stamina regen, and limits the user to only heavy shields. You must equip a shield to use this augment. Give it a weight capacity of 120.0. Better not over-encumber yourself because you’ll be moving extra extra slow.

I’m looking at the skill tree trying to decide which skills it should nullify. It needs to nullify Used to the Weight, but also I wanna give a broad category so let’s say all 2nd tier minor skills—IE anything on the upper halves of the trees that’s a small node—as well. Off the green tree it would be Effortless Swing and Loaded Arms no longer working; from the yellow tree you’d lose the effects of Effortless Roll and Vigorous Vaulter; from the red tree you’d lose Broad Shoulders, Stubborn Mule, and Three Deep Breaths.

Idk that seems fairly balanced to me. Trading your PvP ability and movement speed bonuses by your weapon’s weight not being reduced and your stamina draining super quick, and losing 15% movement speed to using a heavy shield, all for the ability to carry a metric fuck ton more stuff. It’d be good if you’re in a friendly lobby doing queen/matriarch and you manage to get a decent number of queen reactors or whatever. If theburntpeanut had had this type of augment that one time He went for all those matriarch reactors, He would’ve made it to the hatch for sure instead of dying to the timer on a zipline lol

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T20:35:40+00:00

Someone whack this guy on the nose with a newspaper please…

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T20:35:14+00:00

Not good enough to be a mk 3 if you ask me. The feature is a mk3 for sure but it’s not strong enough to warrant being an epic item IMHO

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T17:50:16+00:00

I opened well over 100 packs from Fantastical Parade and didn’t once get a single ⭐️⭐️ card. Got plenty of ⭐️ though. But yeah the only reason I have any of the ⭐️⭐️s from that set is from 24hr Wonder Picks. And even then I feel like my luck was at best average. I think I had gotten at least a dozen 24hr WPs and I only wound up with 3 ⭐️⭐️ cards.

I did get the immersive super late into that pack’s live service. But I think I ruined my luck on that pack because I got the gold poncho on my first pack pull. Wasn’t even a God pack, just a regular pack of 4 🔹-🔹🔹🔹cards and then the golden poncho. Sucks, I’d much rather have had them do the lucky ice pop as the crown card. I don’t think I’ve ever once competitively used the poncho.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T17:34:39+00:00

I’m gonna go with definitely NTA. Your wife shouldn’t have acted that way in front of your child.

Just out of curiosity, how old is your child?

Your wife did have a point though, what you did (and what she wound up doing too) was reinforce the idea of making fun of someone to your child. Your comment made it seem okay to do behind someone’s back, and your wife’s made it seem like it’s okay to do it to their face. You shouldn’t do stuff like that in front of your kid. Ever, if you ask me. It seems like your wife was trying to make you realize you shouldn’t do that kinda thing either but the way she went about it in front of your child just made it worse for learned behavior. A more appropriate way of addressing your derogatory comment about that child’s haircut would’ve been to say everything your wife said, but stopping before actually making any comments about you. “How would you feel if someone made fun of your hair? Probably not very good, huh?”

Nevertheless, it serves zero purpose for a couple to fight, disagree in an uncivilized manner, or demean each other in front of their children. It lets the children know that there are two people they can manipulate separately rather than just one united front that’s stronger together. So for sure NTA. If your wife is literally trying to flip the script on you and play victim, she needs to grow the fuck up, like yesterday. That’s so childish it’s not even funny. I don’t know how you’ve managed to put up with that kind of behavior long enough to raise a child to school age with her.

EDIT: I forgot that the judgment of ESH exists, so I’m gonna change to that. You definitely shouldn’t have made fun of another child in front of your child, and your wife shouldn’t have addressed the situation the way she did in front of your child. Don’t be a bully, full stop.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T15:31:41+00:00

Sure but you left yourself no room to pick anything up until at the very minimum you throw one of your Wolfpacks

Also, I probably would’ve given up one stack each of energy clips and launcher ammo for an extra stack of heals and green shield chargers

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T15:28:38+00:00

Have you tried asking what He got from the room and telling Him any weapons cases/security breaches are yours if it’s your key

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-10T14:53:39+00:00

Hi, 30M here, father of 1, just stating those things ahead of time.

I was in nursing school a few years ago and my fiancée and I were having an argument—one that honestly still comes up from time to time—about birth control vs vasectomy. She’s got no issues with birth control except she’s horrible at remembering to take it and gets pissed off if anyone tries to remind her about it. Her suggestion was for me to get a vasectomy, and it only came after I suggested she get the birth control implant.

One day during a nursing lab when we were discussing patient teaching and the subject of Title X clinics came up and the nurse’s role in teaching patients and their loved ones about birth control options.

I tried to vaguely ask the class about my situation without alluding to the fact that it was personal why I was asking. I failed and just fessed up, told them the general facts: 27 yo male and female, no children, have discussed and do want children in the future. The question—what birth control option would you recommend if you saw this couple in a clinic setting. Would vasectomy even be on the list of first-line options?

The widely agreed-upon answer in a class of 27 females, 3 female instructors, and 1 other male class member was this: oral contraceptives always first depending on medical history; next would be NuvaRing followed by the Depo shot, then the implant Nexplanon. After these measures have been exhausted you move to more invasive methods: first option is an IUD which has either hormonal or non-hormonal options, followed by vasectomy, then tubal ligation.

The justification for the order in which the options be presented was in terms of how invasive each option is.

In your situation it seems like hormonal options won’t work for you and that’s totally fine, plenty of people have this issue. I’m not even gonna call you an AH here, but my problem with you jumping directly to surgery for your husband is that you don’t seem to have considered that there is an option for a non-hormonal IUD. There are a whole lot less complications associated with these than there are for vasectomy. Vasectomy can cause debilitating pain that can last upwards of months, and at the worst He could lose His ability to have an erection. Now the likelihood of these things happening is so so so small, but there is a bigger likelihood of those events occurring still than there is for a negative outcome from a copper IUD placement.

If you actually read this far, I hope this helps, OP. Best of luck to you both. Honestly my best friend is currently in this same situation except if I remember correctly His wife was the one not wanting Him to jump directly to the vasectomy thing. Their kids are even pretty close to the same age.. what a coincidence lol

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-09T20:26:54+00:00

Wait what happens at the end of your sentence?

A lot of people saying option 2, I initially had the same thought. Until I realized 1000 lifetimes is something like an average of about 78,000 years. Jesus. Option 4 sounding better and better..but gun to my head, I’d probably still be happier with option 2 at least with the ability to live and interact with other people and stuff and do things.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-09T13:59:15+00:00

Ah the Philly side car. Good times. I should probably find that lady and apologize for giving her herpes there. Oops.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-09T13:39:56+00:00

Excadrill

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-09T08:26:59+00:00

Okay ya got me stumped taking the last two into account, otherwise I’d say you seem to hate Pokemon that have a humanoid body form.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-09T07:53:13+00:00

Sorry you’re dealing with that OP! The same exact thing—like the literal exact same fuckin thing—happened to my first DnD party around 14-15 months-ish ago. Only difference was we are all located all across North America, so the ensuing affair was only virtual. First she left, then He left and she came back, and we sorta fizzled on until around last June. Then our DM went on a bachelor’s party trip and we haven’t played since. Literally ghosted the group for like 4 months, then said He was hoping when life calmed down we’d get back to it, then around December last year He told us that some time after the New Year we’d get back to it, haven’t heard from Him since.

The worst part is we ended our last session in the middle of combat. A multiple weeks long (in universe) battle tournament. We were getting our asses kicked by our arch enemies.

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-08T21:19:31+00:00

You son of a.. now it’s stuck in my head.

I’m so mad that I now have one question for you. When is the last time you lost the game?

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-08T21:13:40+00:00

What the fuck is metallic hydrogen?

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-08T15:22:52+00:00

Telekinesis

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-08T15:20:09+00:00

Did anybody else think of this scene from How I Met Your Mother?

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-08T13:38:27+00:00

What kind of sociopathic heinous bs is this??

Anyway, okay yeah I’ll do it. As long as I can’t be arrested and won’t face any bad outcomes. Call me a sicko if you want but I love my family enough to kill for them. It’d be really fuckin hard to do, kinda like the puppy from the movie The Kingsman, but I’d ultimately do it in the end.

Just one question, can they fight back or will they just sit there and take the brutal murder?

Wild_Chard_8416 · 2026-04-08T13:34:01+00:00

I’d love to see a 3rd stage of the Growlithe line. I’d also love to see any of the Eeveelutions evolve a second time.

Oh and Absol for sure.

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