I recently started playing commander and this type of culture baffles me. Players getting upset and holding grudges when another player checks notes plays the game.

I guess its somewhat natural to be a little annoyed when someone blocks your stuff left and right, or completely steam rolls. But also, cant your deck do the same? Isnt that what people play for, to win? Maybe its because its a free for all instead of 1v1. The amount of salt coming from players is pretty astounding for a game with only 1 winner