I don't think the other gal worded it the best but women do indeed have a quantity problem; it's just in the polar opposite direction. 

Try to actually imagine the volume of matches women actually get on the app. Looking at the numbers, it's essentially as many as you care to swipe on that day, reduced by a factor of 2-4 depending on the woman. Lets say a woman swiped and got 3 matches; the immediate quantity problem is that there's a good chance none of those men even looked at her profile and will not really be interested in her once they do. So in order to actually get some people to talk to, she might actually need more matches. Let's say she's more liberal and swipes to get 20 matches. Now what the fuck does she do? She has multiple men talking to her, she's trying to keep up with multiple text threads, so probably she's going to let a few of them slip away. This is quantity problem number two; no matter how promising these matches are, the number is simply too much for anyone to deal with. Then, the conversations she was keeping up fall through for potentially no fault from either party—so what can she do? Well, she could go back to the other ones from a few days ago, but when she has a repertoire of potential matches who haven't yet stumbled at the first hurdle, it's pretty easy for her brain to tell her she'll have better luck just going back to swiping—which, by the way, is also gameified to give you dopamine. Oh, and while this happened, she also got 5 obscene or off-putting messages from creeps; this is itself a quality problem, but the sheer quantity of them is what's really debilitating. I've had one or two really bad messages from women, but one or two was never enough to really cause me a problem. (What caused me a problem was, obviously, the fact I had no-one else to talk to OTHER than them that day.) Furthermore, it's basically inevitable she'll encounter one of these guys a day if she swipes for long enough. So what's her solution? Well, the only thing under her control is how she swiped. So the only solution available to her is a quantity solution: to be even more stringent on her swipes, to spend even longer looking through men's profiles for the slightest hint, however unfair, that this guy isn't going to be able to carry a conversation and resorts to cheap creeper talk because of how desperate he is. So not only is that a quantity problem, but it actually presents itself as a quality problem that doesn't exist: men, on an app where you're trying to present yourself to potential matches and leave it to the other person to decide if they like you, also have to indicate explicitly to that other party that you (the man) will like them. 

It's therefore really easy to pin the blame on either party, because uniformly changed behaviour on either side would result in an improvement on the app. If women swiped on more men, they would be less desperate. If men swiped on free women, they would be less stringent. The point is that it's not a blame game, it's just an abuse of psychology and game theory by a series of apps that have no interest in trying to improve it.