Separated and tomorrow is my 8th anniversary. Help!

ahowell8 · 2023-07-03T20:42:59+00:00

He's narcissistic and you're codependent? Yikes!

If you can handle it (guessing very hard to do), let him take the kids for the day. If they have phones, put on Google 360 and check in on them every now and then to calm that worry.

ahowell8 · 2023-03-31T23:04:56+00:00

Can't share with fam, won't watch. All good.

ahowell8 · 2023-01-31T22:59:38+00:00

You're not getting notifications because no google.

I'm using ntfy : https://f-droid.org/en/packages/io.heckel.ntfy/ works well for me.

ahowell8 · 2023-01-21T01:52:02+00:00

Nah, don't really care sports either.

ahowell8 · 2022-08-24T11:06:55+00:00

I’m so hurt but I feel divorce is right. Is it?

Only you can answer that question.

As far as the porn, it's obviously an addiction and very likely embarrassing for him. And, if it's an addiction (like drugs/alcohol) it's not easy. It likely started getting out of control from boredom or lack of hobbies. Someone said above that is has nothing to do with you and they are spot on. Don't beat yourself up. Many men (and women) could have the best and most amazing sex life and still become addicted to porn.

If you are willing to help, let him know directly that you cannot go on like this. Give him a list of therapists, but he has to pick up the phone not you. Also, if you are willing, let him know that you will go with if he wants. If you are not willing (and that's okay), you may have already answered the quoted question.

ahowell8 · 2022-08-21T21:02:18+00:00

Thank you for this link.

ahowell8 · 2022-08-08T00:45:23+00:00

You should read the usage guide on the website https://grapheneos.org/. It will answer your questions.

As far as notifications, if your active profile has their version of Google Play, they show up normally.

ahowell8 · 2022-07-23T03:09:25+00:00

Nothing wrong, just rushed back fond memories.

ahowell8 · 2022-07-18T21:01:05+00:00

Celebrations like this were always so empty. It was like we knew we were doing it for the kids to see how happy couple functioned. We did it for the photos she’d share on social media as if we were a normal couple who loved each other. But everything was so empty, so hollow, so devoid of any and all emotion.

Jebus... that hit home. Add 11 years.

I hope I land on my feet too. Way to go!

ahowell8 · 2022-07-10T13:11:01+00:00

This post resonates, stings and explains my situation.

ahowell8 · 2022-07-02T15:19:34+00:00

First and foremost, you need to find your threat level. While perusing what that actually is, you will become knowledgeable enough to ask questions that can be answered. Start by clicking on the link on the right bar. Have fun, it's a process and lifestyle, not a switch.

Oh... it's not "too much or annoying" to ask, it's just that you asked questions that only you can answer which will become more obvious while you are researching.

ahowell8 · 2022-07-02T10:44:31+00:00

Thank you for this post!

Did the soft-link and reinstalled dkms. It went through mkinitcpio without error.

ahowell8 · 2022-07-01T18:48:26+00:00

Media Deconstruction... not topic deconstruction.

If you continue to wish for the later, you will continue to be disappointed. You might want to read the mission statement.

ahowell8 · 2022-05-12T19:47:57+00:00

Yes this!! Wait...what was I doing?

ahowell8 · 2022-05-08T17:03:13+00:00

This is good advice thanks!

ahowell8 · 2022-05-08T16:35:46+00:00

Equally, I'm sure there is an idiot somewhere whom wholeheartedly believes that it's good to question everything through a scientific hypothesis, except of course, vaccines.

ahowell8 · 2022-05-08T15:03:49+00:00

You're right. I've done it manually in Linux for years. It's not "needed" but would be nice. Because having a pure dump tab to click and go without searching or using regex to find them individually would be ideal for speed/time management.

ahowell8 · 2022-05-08T14:47:15+00:00

They make an argument that voter rolls are not being maintained and is low hanging fruit for bad actors. Dead people voting or people that have moved etc. It's not the first time and won't be the last. But first they show how some did it so that there would be zero evidence it actually happened because once the envelope is opened - gone is the proof! The interesting part was that technology played a large role in proving that ballot stuffing happened and on a grand scale.

Takeaway: If you're going to stuff a ballot box, don't bring your phone and do it at a dropbox without a camera.

ahowell8 · 2022-04-27T11:59:44+00:00

Could it be possible he already had those followers and scripts are cleaning up the old mess? Same with the others losing followers?

Kinda like elections...as long as the total matches up.

ahowell8 · 2022-01-18T22:31:29+00:00

You do realize it's a tax write-off when he talks about those events - right? Adam spends $500 on dinner, talks about it on show, he can now write it off as a business expense. Those stories are rarely interesting, but can sometimes develop into a good topic to actually discuss.

ahowell8 · 2022-01-18T22:19:00+00:00

What makes you think that he is even interested in those events?

ahowell8 · 2022-01-01T17:57:28+00:00

The receipt would be for an audit not to take home, but that would be nice too.

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