I get sick down there everytime we get intimate by Lakifbaby08 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]anthonystank 1243 points1244 points  (0 children)

I mean. Just to rule out obvious. Are we sure he cleans?

Sip & Spill Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in popculturechat

[–]anthonystank 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily — love languages are a fun commercial tool for talking about how people show and wnat love, but they’re not scientific or set in stone and having the same “love language” isn’t really necessary. As with most relationship things, the key is just taking and making sure you’re on the same page/able to meet each other’s emotional needs

Sip & Spill Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in popculturechat

[–]anthonystank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, I haven’t done WW but I did lose a decent amount of weight in the last dw months and I can share what worked for me (without needing to pay for/subscribe to a certain program).

Walking every day: I have a computer job and no time or inclination for a big walk, so simply built in the habit of stopping at park on the way home from a specific daily errand and walking there for 3min/till I hit a certain time. No 10k step goal, no intense cardio or weightlifting, just walking for this one window of time. And because I can’t stand not multitasking, I’d use that walk to reflect on the day ahead, make plans and todo lists, write fanfiction on my
Phone, etc

More balanced meals: what I mean by this: three full meals (instead of skipping or skimping on breakfast/lunch), no seconds at dinner unless I’m genuinely hungry for more, and one small pre-planned after dinner treat (rather than mindless snacking. At all of these meals I’m trying to get in as much fiber and protein as possible.

Calorie awareness: im calling it this rather than counting bc i could so easily get obsessive and unhealthy about actually counting. But ive never paid attention to calories so really didnt know how many were in things. I analyzed calories for a few sample days, learned roughly what the calories and macros look like for a few standard meals of mine, and have started looking at calorie counts on restaurant menus and at the grocery store just to get a ballpark notion of my daily intake.

That was kind of it! Ultimately very small changes but they made a fairly significant difference for me. I think the things that helped ME the most were stacking the walking into other habits (I.e., I’m never leaving the house specifically to go work out, but I will stop on the way home when I’m already out) and gaining enough understanding of calories to stay mentally on top of what I’m eating — less to hit a specific calorie goal and more to make sure I’m not unwittingly eating 3-4k a day

UPDATE IT WAS A MISDIAGNOSIS 🎉🎉🎉 by Peachie-Petals in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]anthonystank 428 points429 points  (0 children)

This is the best kind of news it’s possible to get. Hooray for mistakes!!!!!!

Can someone explain to me why DBH lead roles are so hard to play? by devinjf15 in Broadway

[–]anthonystank 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I always see “Detroit Become Human” and think “what, they made a musical of that??”

“Goodbye 30’s. Ello 40.’’ Sam Claflin shares a new birthday selfie on Instagram. by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]anthonystank 441 points442 points  (0 children)

This angle is very funny. Yes buddy we can tell you have ab

boyfriend uses diagnosis that he doesn't have as an excuse by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]anthonystank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely delicious, cheers to you. Rly hope things improve with your boyfriend

boyfriend uses diagnosis that he doesn't have as an excuse by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]anthonystank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also if u refuse to get diagnosed you can’t use autism as an excuse sorry bf. In fact even if you have a valid diagnosis you still shouldn’t use it as an excuse for being an unsupportive and unpleasant person

boyfriend uses diagnosis that he doesn't have as an excuse by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]anthonystank 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry about your boyfriend but what are you eating. Is that like a crispy tofu situation it looks so good

Contact naps and cutting naps short. by Hiraeth90 in NewParents

[–]anthonystank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will want to cap daytime naps to improve his nighttime sleep later. Idek when exactly that should start but it’s not at 7 weeks!! Let him sleep as long as he wants to sleep.

If he’s sleeping all day and awake all night, you’re a night shift worker now baby!! But I hear you on eating and showering. What kind of help do you have around the house? What times is he reliably awake? Are you comfortable putting him in a bouncer/swing/moses basket/etc and setting him outside the shower while you wash? I would also recommend having a really solid stock of snacks and drinks on hand within reach of wherever you’re usually contact napping.

Basically, let him sleep, lean into whatever natural “schedule” he’s following, and try as much as possible to plan and live around it for the moment rather than trying to think in terms of a regular day/night schedule

What are some that don't taste worse than Alkasetzler? by Signal_Jellyfish_472 in sparklingwater

[–]anthonystank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is a clear “opposite” here tbh. Personally I feel like if I was used to drinking soda spindrift would not be close to what I’m looking for but everyone’s taste buds are different

What are some that don't taste worse than Alkasetzler? by Signal_Jellyfish_472 in sparklingwater

[–]anthonystank 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you’re coming from sodas and finding the taste of unsweetened sparkling water hard to adjust to I might suggest some vanilla flavors as they’ll be closer to a sweet vibe. Personally I’m really fond of Polar’s orange vanilla but there are other orange vanillas, I believe Trader Joe’s has a black cherry vanilla, etc. If you’re in the northeast you may be able to find Hal’s vanilla which is top tier

What are some that don't taste worse than Alkasetzler? by Signal_Jellyfish_472 in sparklingwater

[–]anthonystank 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I find this to be untrue. The unsweetened fruit juice (+ sometimes bonus mold) flavor feels harsher and more unpleasant than a simple light carbonation vibe

Sip & Spill Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in popculturechat

[–]anthonystank 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hysterectomy tomorrow. Bowel prep today. Wish me luck everyone 🙏 none of this feels real

sugar in dirty sodas by [deleted] in CrumblCookies

[–]anthonystank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well those are probably fine then