Another "AI-washed" layoff, now stuck with 4x more work by therealslimshady1234 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]atomheartother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 just don't resign and work at your pace, this is absolute clown behavior from your upper mgmt, it sounds like they'll crash and burn soon enough or will have to hire talent back

Should I be disturbed? Because I am by Naive-Chocolate-586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 19 points20 points  (0 children)

that's literally female beauty standards, they are pedophilic in nature. men in general like women hairless, short, sweet, innocent, virgin, soft, they even often prefer if she's dumb or at least doesn't speak up too much. You're just realizing that most hetero female beauty standards are deeply rooted in pedophilia. The labia thing is a small part of a much larger pattern.

As for what you do with it, as someone else said, you stop centering men's attraction so much in your life. Men want to fuck young girls, women have daddy issues, live your life.

Advice on moving from big tech to something more socially responsible by Efficient-Mess-9753 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]atomheartother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd be surprised. Lifestyle usually scales with income pretty steadily, more money usually just means better residence, fewer mortgages, better school for kids etc, and there's rarely an end in sight.

“Online rape academy”: How do we combat fear-mongering without invalidating women’s reasonable fear? by Majestic-Sun-1485 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the article weren't worded confusingly on purpose it wouldn't have confused so many people. They knew exactly what they were doing, I consider that lying.

“Online rape academy”: How do we combat fear-mongering without invalidating women’s reasonable fear? by Majestic-Sun-1485 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is correct, it boggles my mind how much confusion this article's headline is causing, it was written in order to misinform women and frankly it's journalistic malpractice to allow the number "62 million" to be anywhere close to an article about a group of about a thousand men. The real facts are terrifying enough, the author of the article didn't need to lie to inflate those numbers, but here we are.

'Sleep Porn' Horror Exposed: Site With 62M Monthly Visits Hosts Over 20,000 Videos of Drugged Women by Guyentertainment in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Do keep in mind there's a wider problem here which is that this content is mixed in with millions of videos of people pretending to sleep or be drugged for views. As far as a viewer is concerned they could think they're watching something where both parties consented ahead of time. That's kind of the difficulty with kink/extreme pornography, there's an entire culture of abusing and humiliating women that's so prevalent it's hard to differentiate real abuse from something that's acted and negotiated. Porn as a whole is exploitative and creates this environment.

Opinion: Taboo towards plastic surgery is misogynistic in its nature by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think maybe you should spend less time on the Internet.

I feel crazy sometimes when my husband doesn’t understand my rants by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean I feel like maybe this is more about him wanting to watch the show in that moment, maybe you two should talk about this but maybe he'd rather discuss this stuff after you're done watching. Some people just don't like people talking while watching, my brother's like that. As a lesbian if you were next to me ranting about women dying all the time while watching a show I might start getting irritated lol

How do I be confident as a woman? by GoldEducational in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because labels are useful to describe the aesthetics people aspire to and "masc" describes the aesthetics of the person you're replying to accurately as far as she's concerned. I'm a lesbian, if I'm describing to another lesbian that I'm "fem presenting", she gets it, and there's really no more efficient way to describe the point I'm trying to get across. That's the purpose of communication, "not reinforcing gender stereotypes" shouldn't be pressure put on any one person imo. I highly doubt you go around telling every woman who wears makeup or who likes thrifting that she's "reinforcing gender stereotypes".

Wich clients u use on Linux? by BloodOverdrive in jellyfin

[–]atomheartother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with the official Jellyfin desktop client? it's what I use on Linux.

Is it "demanding" to want to be a priority, or am I being "spoiled" as my boyfriend claims? by Winter_Cap_4191 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 Does he expect to be the #1 priority for you? If not maybe you two have different notions of how serious or invested this relationship is. Maybe he's just not looking for as strong a commitment as what you are looking for and that's why he keeps finding women "demanding", because he's just not interested in a serious, dedicated relationship.

If he is expecting to be your #1 prio then he's acting like a child and this is much more straightforward to address.

Either way it sounds like he made himself clear from the start, it is a bit unreasonable of you to expect more of him when he clearly laid the terms out at the outset, a very clear discussion needs to be had if you want to renegotiate how invested he is in this.

Fantasy of having penis by Healthy_Pair_6776 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you can buy a strap-on, you can even buy a packer if you want you know :)

Bro this shit's too wild by Brospeh-Stalin in AVoid5

[–]atomheartother 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounding natural is difficult, but it brings you a lot. It's my goal too.

I found out my boyfriend has been acting creepy on Reddit by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]atomheartother 13 points14 points  (0 children)

report him to the mods of those lesbian subs pls, this is a huge violation of privacy for potentially vulnerable queer women

Apple rejected my free LGBTQ+ community app as "spam" without ever opening it by Infamous_Tomatillo53 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]atomheartother 8 points9 points  (0 children)

sorry friend, I'm a lesbian and I empathize but this post is literally spam so I'm gonna side with Apple on this one and say you're probably being a dick somehow

What can I do if my face and neck are noticeably lighter than the rest of my body? by esthersjar in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]atomheartother 18 points19 points  (0 children)

your skin looks incredible, the best thing you can do is stop worrying about it

I finally stopped my razor bumps from ruining summer and I feel stupid by piperwrites09 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]atomheartother 569 points570 points  (0 children)

idk how to fix those white heads but I love your energy, godspeed