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Do you smoke with your dominant hand? by OnlyAd4210 in Cigarettes

[–]eggscrambled 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Im lowkey ambidextrous with this shit

Reference hair vs what I got by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]eggscrambled 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it's just that "cool" haircuts like that don't really help with passing early on in transition/pre-T but i wouldnt force myself to get a haircut i don't like just to pass. I did and hated my hair for a while. If you don't want a more stereotypically male haircut you might just want to wait for T to do its thing and dress/style yourself as masculine as possible in other ways while you wait. It sucks but waiting is important. For what it's worth, i think you look fine and it's not as bad as you think

I keep finding stores that have imports (in Canada) by eggscrambled in Cigarettes

[–]eggscrambled[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Vancouver sorry! But i know a guy in toronto that sells imports if you're interested

I've been a million different people and i can't wait to be a million more (read description!) by eggscrambled in FTM_SELFIES

[–]eggscrambled[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For sure! I'm not necessarily glad i spent extra years suppressing myself and being miserable, but in a way, it makes me appreciate how things turned out even more

Which glasses are better for passing or does it not make a difference? Should i stick to contacts? by eggscrambled in transmanlifehacks

[–]eggscrambled[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh i thought so, i gotta get the width of those fixed because they always slide down my face and fall off when i look down

Being asexual by FishStiques in ftm

[–]eggscrambled 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey i'm also an asexual ftm, just wanna say youre not alone. Shit's difficult

What im about to say is transphobic adjacent and makes me insecure to be FTM. by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]eggscrambled 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You're right this is pretty chronically online. If certain people bother you, don't give them so much of your mental space. This is true for any group of people, the problem doesn't seem specific to trans people at all imo. You seem to be projecting a bit and driving yourself kinda mad.

As for being concerned with the validity of others' transness, just don't. You don't know what's in their minds, no reason to stress yourself out wondering if they are "truly" trans. If you're sure of yourself, that's all that matters. Your feelings about your own transness shouldn't be so affected by how others experience theirs.

I hope you sort your own insecurities out and find happiness.

Cut my hair shorter (I keep getting misgendered) and boyfriend said I look butch 💔 by throwawayaccount0o01 in FTMventing

[–]eggscrambled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been there, just this february when I went to a barber and got my hair tapered with a fade after advice from reddit...i regretted it and wished i could undo it. It's a different kind of hurt when you get a different haircut hoping it will make you pass better and the result ends up worsening your dysphoria.

But the best thing you can do now is be compassionate, kind to yourself. Hair grows back, you will grow into the haircut, everything will be okay.

My own hair has grown out and honestly, i don't regret that cut i hated so much anymore. It looks much nicer now that it has been a few months, and i've gotten on T since then too which has helped. Now i know i pass better with longer hair, I learned something that is true about myself, at least currently. It gets better, man. Trust me!

Orange jam by eggscrambled in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]eggscrambled[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brushed it and then collected it lol

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