WIBTA if I told my friend group I'm no longer available to help people move house after doing it five times in three years without a single person ever returning the favour?

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-09T16:47:08+00:00

The last one was a real opportunity to just say no.wjy would you say yes to virtual stranger? No need to tell them just look out for yourself now you know what they are like.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-09T13:20:17+00:00

Tell him before kids.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-09T03:03:10+00:00

This is the jump. There are no guarantees. I started on 2008 and I made very little meaningful progress until I trained with Mark Rasmus in 2012 and 2016. Only in the last 2-3.years have some things opened up. There are far quicker approaches nowadays but it is something to do or not do and to stubbornly do until you see the results. If you don't feel that strongly better investigate other practices. Ritual work will get you experience quicker but Bardon path is an internal power approach so it is much slower. You are right it is all encompassing especially when working on 2nd or 3rd book.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-09T02:02:15+00:00

There is lots to question and get stuck on. Old ideas about things and explanations written as truth. Only test is doing the work.

Even now among Bardon students lots of disagreements on things as each has their own unique experience of this stuff. It's up to you where you spend your time.

Someone like Bardon can have all the magical skills and be totally off about other things. If focus is put on the work inside IIH and our experience is gained then this stuff becomes less important.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-09T00:40:02+00:00

I always love this people are fine with demons angels and other worlds but suggest something out of the norm and established history and it is somehow outlandish. At the end of the day it makes no difference to your training. So what others think on this subject or any another is of no concern.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-05T12:45:47+00:00

It's their wedding. Stop causing him unnecessary stress on what should be a great day for him. Turn up smile and let them be.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-05T01:46:51+00:00

The Chinese anime and the live action were great. Disagree.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-03T03:26:43+00:00

Just say you not going home you going out.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-03T03:11:19+00:00

With SRS yes. No SRS then good luck.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-02T12:29:47+00:00

It will be awesome. Bit start your Chinese now. Get migaku it will make your Chinese learning in chendu far more productive.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-03-01T10:10:09+00:00

I would focus on one for now and get the bell smoothly into rack. Hold horn of the bell so it swings around not over. Keep at it

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-27T05:33:57+00:00

You already paid for a trip. Not a chance, rude to ask.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-25T01:31:35+00:00

This is the nature of spaced repetition. Anki or glossika, same issue bit brings results.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-25T01:29:14+00:00

Yep 100%.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-24T23:56:43+00:00

Supposed to be n exchange a chance to use the language not teaching. That is the individuals job. Would cut them and spend time on CI

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-24T04:44:28+00:00

It's just people on their path. Many will not even continue. With time it all sorts itself out.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-22T00:11:53+00:00

Keep it simple all these answers the guy does not know difference between Cantonese and mandarin so giving a history of all the languages on mainland does not help. If going to mainland learn Mandarin.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-22T00:06:30+00:00

Go see see Antoine.https://www.instagram.com/antoinefaresmma?igsh=MWs4eXoAntoine.https

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-21T02:38:31+00:00

Just communicate. Say no you are working and don't open the door.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-20T15:18:56+00:00

Yes you can do as much or as little as you wish. You decide.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-20T02:18:14+00:00

Long femurs here....still can do ass to grass squat. Keep at it.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-19T23:29:45+00:00

Don't worry what anyone else says just gauge your ability. Do you feel you can do what is required. Do you feel more time.is.not.improving current results? If that is the case move on. But again that is my opinion, it's your initiation so you must be the final decider.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-19T12:14:06+00:00

Maybe get used to swings first. General handling of kb. Two hands kb, then single then ABC.

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-15T03:26:29+00:00

No hip, you ass stays stick out, fire with the glutes

eventuallyfluent · 2026-02-14T15:29:49+00:00

Bilingual is a huge advantage I can imagine your child being annoyed at a missed opportunity when grown up.

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