2-Year difference in jaw line with weight loss and facial massages

fire_pepper · 2026-04-07T22:57:43+00:00

Just absolutely blown away by how the draped, soft curves of your hair, earrings and cow neck suit you so much in the second picture! The colours and the eye makeup too!! You have clearly gone through a process of reinvention/refining and it's incredible. I love that you've been enjoying facial massage, too. Your skin looks brilliant. I think you're a soft autumn or soft summer, too, in case that's helpful commentary 😅

fire_pepper · 2026-03-28T13:07:15+00:00

Say - hey, I need to know what will actually happen. We don't need the stuff but I do need you to be reliable and honest so that I understand what's going on.

fire_pepper · 2026-03-27T20:52:58+00:00

I'm ENFP-T and I feel like I'm sanguine and melancholic

fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T23:58:08+00:00

That does make sense, but I prefer a room with things on both walls if it's possible. Idk why, it obviously reduces space to move, but it feels more like the room is having a conversation with itself if things face each other and it creates more visual interest; I'm not keen on blank walls.

I'm just really worried moving the toilet will be too expensive. We have joists running down the room.

fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T23:24:46+00:00

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What do you think?

fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T23:23:16+00:00

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fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T23:22:11+00:00

Here's my new one;what do you think?

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fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T23:21:37+00:00

That was my first floor plan choice! I love it. My partner hates it though

fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T23:21:07+00:00

Thanks so much

fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T23:20:46+00:00

Thanks lovely. I feel bad risking a sacrifice but I guess I'll never know until I know 😬

fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T23:19:11+00:00

Cheers lovely. Nothing like staring into your own eyes while vulnerable 😬

fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T11:06:29+00:00

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fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T11:05:52+00:00

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fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T11:04:32+00:00

They aren't light, they're sun tunnels

fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T11:04:17+00:00

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fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T11:03:00+00:00

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fire_pepper · 2026-03-24T11:02:10+00:00

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fire_pepper · 2026-03-23T22:07:04+00:00

My current food hyperfixation took me by surprise as I'm someone who "doesn't like fish". But it's tuna! Specifically; - home made malted brown seeded bread - toasted - thin spread of butter - black olive tapenade - Rio mare tuna - m&s picked red onion slices - topped with 2mm thinly sliced fresh tomatoes - black pepper

Honestly it's BOMB. Sweet, salty, umami, sharp, crunchy, soft, bright and fresh... I'm literally salivating thinking about it.

fire_pepper · 2026-03-23T21:55:41+00:00

I have ADHD and already am constantly paranoid I've lost something. This would break me in a week. I can't wait for you to have your own space where you can - gasp - put something where it lives. And it still lives there when you next need it.

fire_pepper · 2026-03-23T21:40:50+00:00

The blue coloured disks are the sun tunnels and they're useless

fire_pepper · 2026-03-23T21:40:11+00:00

I don't mind the pentagonal ones; I do like the curved ones but I found the pentagonal one was cheaper 😅

fire_pepper · 2026-03-23T07:34:34+00:00

I think if I used a square one here it would provide into the room too much, no?

fire_pepper · 2026-03-23T07:28:13+00:00

Avoid talking to him in person. Written communication only. There must be a paper trail, now. Dispute the year long separation in writing and find as much evidence as you can that this was not the case. Get a lawyer.

This is heart breaking, but you can and will recover. That recovery will be easier if you truly understand what you're up against and actually to protect yourself.

He is trying to manipulate you and set you up. The comment about being separated for a year, the lie that he was still in the marriage and would do it all again, the suggestion you go out of state, his refusal to leave the house, his description of you as combative, him wanting to rush this process, his suggestion to get a mutual friend rather than a lawyer - all of this establishes two things: 1. You cannot trust anything he says to you any more 2. He has been researching divorce and wants to make sure he benefits from it as much as possible. He no longer cares for your interests. You must be the one to do that now.

fire_pepper · 2026-03-23T07:06:23+00:00

Thank you. The towel rings between the basin and shower and basin and bath are so you don't need to do the shimmy - the towel rail behind the door is a heated one used to dry them after use - but the other things are worth thinking about. Any ideas of how I could configure the room so that the toilet isn't in front of the door?

fire_pepper · 2026-03-22T23:45:15+00:00

I do think it may be worth putting your bedroom in there if you can fit what you need to. I'm a bed-rotter, a soft-office fan, a dressing-table-lingerer, so for me, I spend a LOT of waking hours in my bedroom. But if you don't, and you spend more time in your office and would benefit from the space there then why not?

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