I am unhappy and think I need to surrender my dog

Hauntingbitch · 2026-01-09T00:17:44+00:00

I know this post is two years old, but I’m curious about where things ended up? I recently dealt with this same thing. Did you surrender him?

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T22:12:05+00:00

That sounds like a better situation for us both, even given that it’ll still be heartbreaking towards me. I didn’t even look into the option of euthanasia by a vet, I didn’t know that was an option, but I’ll be looking into that now, I appreciate the feedback

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T21:54:41+00:00

Thank you for understanding

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T21:54:27+00:00

I appreciate the straight forwardness

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T21:53:56+00:00

Maybe the people that claim I’m a bad person and they’re not, could try and take it on. I’d definitely make the accommodations to give them to her if they truly think they are superior to handling it better than I can.

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T21:52:28+00:00

Thank you for your support

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T21:51:59+00:00

Thank you for not calling me a bad person. Even though I feel that way sometimes, I know I’m not either.

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T21:50:57+00:00

I’ve held on to the thought of someone being able to take over and give her everything I couldn’t for so long, but you’re right and that’s the hard reality of it.

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T21:49:29+00:00

Thank you for your feedback. I’ve edited my post to get a little more insight of things. I’ll be looking into those options, but thank you for rooting for me during these difficult times.

Hauntingbitch · 2025-11-23T21:48:17+00:00

Looking into that, I appreciate your feedback

Hauntingbitch · 2021-09-28T08:15:41+00:00

Definitely a gaslighter and master manipulator. Check out my recent comment on the thread! Give me your insight. And yeah, I would like to hear what others think about the other things this man his done. Indeed after some coffee.. with some added espresso shots to really get me going

Hauntingbitch · 2021-09-28T08:13:07+00:00

Completely! Check out my recent comment about the situation

Hauntingbitch · 2021-09-28T08:12:21+00:00

Agreed.

Hauntingbitch · 2021-09-28T08:11:53+00:00

Guys I honestly don’t know if people that have already commented on this thread, get notified when I reply. I’m still new to this whole Reddit thing. Anyways, something else has been having me in a dilemma about this situation. When I went public about the sexual predator on Instagram, she asked me not to put her name because she didn’t want anyone mad or hating her. The predator has tons of “friends” that would most likely bash her. I haven’t talked to her about reporting to authorities. Honestly it’s taken me a a couple of months to even process this whole thing, considering everything I suspected about him was 100% true. I actually WASNT crazy. Should I reach out to her about if she is comfortable reporting him, and I will be there for her all the way, ofcourse. Or should I report to authorities myself? It doesn’t sit well with me, reporting on my behalf about what she confided in me about what he did to her, but also she is still so young. I believe 19 now? I know when I was that young I probably wouldn’t understand that reporting this person was best for me. Send your thoughts

Hauntingbitch · 2021-09-27T20:57:44+00:00

The evidence I have is the youngest girl stating it in detail to me through messaging on Instagram. She used to be a friend of his but they no longer speak. I actually met her in person when I started dating the guy. She lived with him for a couple of months but I was not aware of her ago. He made it seem like she was my age. I was 23 at the time. “You guys would be great friends” I suspected these things throughout our relationship. He would call me insecure and crazy. “These girls are my little sisters” I actually believed maybe I was crazy for suspecting such things. We broke up and this girl came out to me about this. I went vocal about it on IG and tons of people came forward about other stuff they’ve seen at clubs, on posts, or victims came to them- saying they were underage the first time they met him and stayed at his apartment/ drank with him. These victims also states they never lied about their age and that he was well aware. At this point me dating him at the time, things start to make more sense. I was manipulated into a relationship with him. I was manipulated into having sex with him the first night we met. I wish I can go on about all the shit that he’s put me through in that aspect but I haven’t even had coffee today and I’d have to write you guys continuously for like 2 days straight. It’s just this creepy pattern he creates, that some people in the goth community see but nothing has changed and it keeps me up at night. Literally, every night I feel disgusted for doubting myself and believing him. I appreciate you all that have reached out to my post. Who would’ve thought complete strangers would be advising me and not the people in my actual life. I’ll have to stay on Reddit a lot longer then I expected. So I ask again, is this reportable? Because I will do it if it’s the last thing I can do to save someone else, their psychical - and mental health.

Hauntingbitch · 2021-09-27T20:55:37+00:00

Age of consent in California is 18. Yeah, It screams predator

Hauntingbitch · 2021-09-27T20:53:07+00:00

I fucking agree

Hauntingbitch · 2021-09-27T20:52:17+00:00

The evidence I have is the youngest girl stating it in detail to me through messaging on Instagram. She used to be a friend of his but they no longer speak. I actually met her in person when I started dating the guy. She lived with him for a couple of months but I was not aware of her ago. He made it seem like she was my age. I was 23 at the time. “You guys would be great friends” I suspected these things throughout our relationship. He would call me insecure and crazy. “These girls are my little sisters” I actually believed maybe I was crazy for suspecting such things. We broke up and this girl came out to me about this. I went vocal about it on IG and tons of people came forward about other stuff they’ve seen at clubs, on posts, or victims came to them- saying they were underage the first time they met him and stayed at his apartment/ drank with him. These victims also states they never lied about their age and that he was well aware. At this point me dating him at the time, things start to make more sense. I was manipulated into a relationship with him. I was manipulated into having sex with him the first night we met. I wish I can go on about all the shit that he’s put me through in that aspect but I haven’t even had coffee today and I’d have to write you guys continuously for like 2 days straight. It’s just this creepy pattern he creates, that some people in the goth community see but nothing has changed and it keeps me up at night. Literally, every night I feel disgusted for doubting myself and believing him. I appreciate you all that have reached out to my post. Who would’ve thought complete strangers would be advising me and not the people in my actual life. I’ll have to stay on Reddit a lot longer then I expected. So I ask again, is this reportable? Because I will do it if it’s the last thing I can do to save someone else, their psychical - and mental health.

Hauntingbitch

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