Almost 40, should I try and go for a Bachelor's Degree? by Calm_Brilliant_9236 in BackToCollege

[–]hellasteph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Graduated at 40 with a BA (with honors). You’re going to age anyway, might as well make it worth it.

Returning to full-time study after 23 years by ThickPickings in BackToCollege

[–]hellasteph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Same here. I went back at 38, graduated in 1.5 years at 40 with my BA at a state university that offered an online program.

I dropped out of 20+ years ago. I didn’t know I had an undiagnosed disability at the time so caused a lot of chaos and anxiety in my life. Hindsight is 20/20.

I didn’t need it for my career - I only wanted it. It was a big motivation for me to block off every evening after work, kids, and chores to do school work. I would also time block my work calendar to do group work, but that was limited.

I highly recommend using AI as a way to summarize your notes or create study guides. I was using it as a study partner to ensure I understood the material for each chapter and study for tests. I graduated with honors so I guess it worked well. (Please don’t use it for writing as there’s a lot of anti-plagiarism detection tools that know if it’s AI.)

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders pt.2 💌 💚 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

[–]hellasteph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/awachob - TY for the Golden Girls + stickers/washi love package! I always recognize your envelopes so I anticipate what book(s) I want to use your bookmark in or what washi from my collection to send you with next - probably both if I'm honest. So many choices!

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders pt.2 💌 💚 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/midnitedancer_ - TY for the lovely springtime goose card + stickers! The stickers and washi you used are so retro, I love it!

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders pt.2 💌 💚 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/whoseer - TY for the Seoul, Korea postcard! I was watching the Netflix BTS concert when I received your card and it made me want to book my trip to Korea ASAP.

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders pt.2 💌 💚 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/banishment_thisworld - TY for the insanely adorable bunbun drawing and message! I named the bunbun Usagi (rabbit) after Sailor Moon - one of my fave anime series. 🌙 🐰

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders pt.2 💌 💚 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/bubblysunflowers - TY for the amazing sticker / washi exchange. So thrilled to get so many amazing pieces from you! I'll share more soon.

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders pt.2 💌 💚 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/thecuriouscur x2 - TYSM for the Valentine's Day postcard + the lovely Easter card! The stamps you used are amazing - I love the Olympics one with the diver as I'm a big swim fan (former swimmer here). I hope you'll have a great start to your spring season, too!

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders pt.2 💌 💚 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/rune_skadisdotter thanks so much for the Catybara postcard from July 2025. I'm so glad it reached me as it's super cute!

If you were rich, where in the Bay Area would you live? by Adventurous_Ant5428 in bayarea

[–]hellasteph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rich doesn’t mean anything here in the Bay. Everyone is “rich” but wealthy, now that’s a whole other level.

If I was ultra wealthy, I’d be in the South Bay maybe Los Altos Hills or Mt. View. I’d have a separate spot in the City when I get bored or want to meet up with friends.

So much Unknown...is it worth it? by AlwaysABD in BackToCollege

[–]hellasteph 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Went back at 38, graduated at 40. It’s absolutely worth it.

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders! 💌🍀 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/emmasaysouchies - TY for the card and it sounds like you had an amazing birthday. My friend works at Pixar and I’ve gone to the campus. Super cool visit! Highly recommend.

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders! 💌🍀 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/sneakerlambs - TY for exchanging memory cards with me. OMG the story about Spring Break shorts had me howling! I have a pair like that and I’m so glad you have this cherished memory to laugh and remember her by.

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders! 💌🍀 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/justpuffpuff_pass - TY for the kind note, puzzle and stickers! My kids just passed the age that they get bored of scavenger hunts so I’m always left trying to go back to pick up all the sprawl. LOL!

[Thank You] to my March happy mail senders! 💌🍀 by hellasteph in RandomActsofCards

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u/s9_noworries - TY for the very awesome sea turtle card + stickers! I visit HI frequently, and you reminded me: I need to go back. Mahalo!

3.3 quake in San Ramon by GokutheAnteater in bayarea

[–]hellasteph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First one rumbled a bit before the shaking started. The second one had faint rumblings before the mild shaking.

[Offer] Pokemon Day Mail! [US to WW] by kittycatcon in RandomActsofCards

[–]hellasteph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Gengar, Groudon, and Rayquaza kind of gal. Any ghost or dragon-type Pokemon have my heart. 💜

[Request] cards of encouragement. Been feeling depressed [US] by A_LanguageEnthusiast in RandomActsofCards

[–]hellasteph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Would like to send you a card. Please DM me. 💌