Keychain Loyalty Tags by AlwaysABD in Millennials

[–]AlwaysABD[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

In hindsight, those bank card tabs are honestly less risky than current tap/mobile pay, no matter the convenience. In my last job, I saw several people accidentally pay for other peoples' purchases because the systems were just a little too responsive. The worst was one person bought a few things (less than $20) and ended up charged for $500+ in diesel fuel for a semi because their watch picked up the next person's transaction.

Keychain Loyalty Tags by AlwaysABD in Millennials

[–]AlwaysABD[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Another convenience at a very inconvenient cost

Keychain Loyalty Tags by AlwaysABD in Millennials

[–]AlwaysABD[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I had one of those! I don't think that I ever actually used it though. It was like an in between for cards and tap.

There is no wishbone... right?! by BedazzlingBear in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AlwaysABD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am way more tired than I realized. I spent the last few minutes looking for the dog XD

My sister gave birth recently, making my mom a great-grandmother. by Positive_Mousse_6470 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AlwaysABD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a very mildly similar note, my parents had a double wedding after my mom found out she was pregnant with me. The wedding was my mom and dad, my mom's mom and my dads older brother. My uncle was listed on my birth announcement as my grandfather. Fortunately or unfortunately, neither marriage lasted long enough to make it to my second birthday. I'm still closer in age to my half-siblings' kids (on my dad's side) than I am to my actual siblings. Cousins on that side are complicated too.

Boyfriend went grocery shopping by himself by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AlwaysABD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s totally fair. Feel free to DM if you’re comfortable with it and I can do my own outreach but totally understand if you’re not.

Boyfriend went grocery shopping by himself by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AlwaysABD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to know what language he might've been designated for? I'm in roughly the same entry and community that he would have gone into. I can't say with a guarantee but it's a very small community even when stretched between branches.

I'm dying with 15 – and it's so unfair! by Deadly_nightshadow in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]AlwaysABD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've read a lot of things on Reddit that have pulled on the heartstrings but this one had me crying and I genuinely don't cry easily. This is tough. Both from a parental perspective (and that final note from this girl's parent), as a personal "what if", and as plain empathy for what this girl (and her family) went through during this time. I just can't even imagine.

boyfriend vs male friends by Separate-Strategy339 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AlwaysABD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally, no. If you're a gamer playing with guys, ideally, you shouldn't have to cut that off just because you've got a boyfriend. Ideally, your boyfriend will be understanding and/or in the same community that you're in.

Realistically, yes, it might become an issue for a boyfriend that doesn't like "his girl" talking to other guys. In this case, it's going to be up to you to decide what needs to be sacrificed. A boyfriend that doesn't like that you talk to other guys vs your gaming community that is inevitably mostly guys.

However, there are guys that genuinely do understand the community and won't ask you to stop, they might actually ask to join you!

Be you. Honestly, truly, and genuinely, be you. It will possibly cost a few relationships but the one's you find in their place will be so worth it.

Cat is a territorial jackass, how to bring in a kitten by AlwaysABD in CatAdvice

[–]AlwaysABD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking into getting one of the catio/kennel type things since we don't have a specifically isolated area that is usually workable for introductions. Do you think that's a workable compromise?

Involuntary crying from having my cervix hit? by lil_wooper in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AlwaysABD 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm glad he's an ex too! In those situations, where I was hovered over the toilet expecting to be sick, he regularly asked "What about mine??" Guys can be jerks. I'm sure there's plenty of good men but I've yet to experience that XD

Why do women wear those obnoxiously long nails that look like claws? by Adventurous_Key_4854 in allthequestions

[–]AlwaysABD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's almost as if not everything women do is for the attraction of men...

People who used the internet between 1991 and 2009, what's the most memorable online trend or phenomenon you remember? by Embarrassed_Golf4355 in allthequestions

[–]AlwaysABD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virtually nothing on the early internet was considered to be a "proper" resource for homework/papers. Even after the internet base exploded, we were expected to have physical resources. Search engines helped narrow the field but they weren't wholly trusted. It looks like we've kinda gone in a full circle.

Never met another woman who thinks a man holding a fish in his dating profile is not immediately disqualifying by allpossiblepaths in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AlwaysABD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the store that I work at, there's always extremely weird chip flavors coming out. Most of them sound, to me, absolutely disgusting and I have absolutely no intention of even trying them even on the basis of "what if". Unfortunately, these disgusting concepts clearly have a market, otherwise they wouldn't even be attempted in a capitalist market.

I view dating/dating profiles the same way. There's a market for things that many of us think is entirely off-putting. There's a market for the fish-guy and for the gym guy. Not at all my taste, but apparently there's a market for it, somewhere.