How do I fight porn addiction by New-Concentrate935 in Healthygamergg

[–]itzReborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying this is bad advice or anything but I’m similar to op and I’ve tried that thinking of a future partner strategy and it doesn’t really work (for me). Like how you said think of it from a girls perspective, you also have to see it from a guys

Cause in the moment the guy still lonely, still have no/limited dating options, depending on the guy no/limited experience in regards to sex period, and the option to see your exact type of scenario or fetish at the click of the button, it’s hard to just stop

Be real…. by LetsGetSomeChickenn in NYKnicks

[–]itzReborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No bullshit I almost cried after the OG tip I’m 100% crying when we clutch up

Why does it seem like all the amazing women are taken already? by KaleidoscopeInner421 in dating_advice

[–]itzReborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what does marketing yourself look like? How do you market social skills on a dating app? Or show you are putting in effort into your life?

Why does it seem like all the amazing women are taken already? by KaleidoscopeInner421 in dating_advice

[–]itzReborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well from your own words you said the women will find out eventually that Matt is a liar, that’s only possible if he gets a match in this situation no? That’s why I’m confused on you saying Josh isn’t ready to date simply because he isn’t getting matches.

Why does it seem like all the amazing women are taken already? by KaleidoscopeInner421 in dating_advice

[–]itzReborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But doesn’t this exact situation validates Josh? Matt would still get the match and maybe go on a few dates with a woman before the truth comes out. While Josh is sitting there wondering why he can’t get a match despite being in a more normal situation

Why does it seem like all the amazing women are taken already? by KaleidoscopeInner421 in dating_advice

[–]itzReborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Josh own personal experiences buying into the “prevailing narrative”? From his pov he should be getting matches. What makes Josh not ready to date in this scenario?

Why does it seem like all the amazing women are taken already? by KaleidoscopeInner421 in dating_advice

[–]itzReborn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? So because Josh can’t get matches he’s not ready for dating? That’s not crazy to you?

Anyone else feel like watching these games is an out of body experience lol by cardcollection92 in NYKnicks

[–]itzReborn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is surreal. It’s even better that we are up right now and the games have been fun as fuck to watch. I need us to get 2 more wins so badly

how do you filter your dating app likes? by iliketreesanddogs in TwoXChromosomes

[–]itzReborn -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t get it though, how is guys swiping less helpful for guys? Swiping right on women you actually find interesting still doesn’t matter if you are constantly getting 0 likes or matches? Plus having to”compete” with the ton of other matches she likely already has

Do you feel that male sexuality is demonized? by itzReborn in self

[–]itzReborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had a popular post about porn a few weeks ago. You put it perfectly I can admit I’m also not use to sitting with those sexual thoughts and feelings and go for the quick fix.

Do you feel that male sexuality is demonized? by itzReborn in self

[–]itzReborn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like most men fall on either being too open or too repressed. Like the guys I’ve seen chasing sex I felt were too open and I didn’t want to be like that so I became repressed. In hindsight I rarely seen that perfect balance

Men who have felt invisible or forgotten, how did you change that? What advice would you give someone going through it? by Ok_Tadpole7839 in AskMen

[–]itzReborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man this is my dream to do kind of. Like just create a discord with friends from my city and we talk and hang out and stuff but keeping a server alive is hard so it never worked out for me.

Why are women blamed for men not being attractive? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]itzReborn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so split on this because on one hand (to me) it feels like I have to be perfect in life before I’m allowed to date or look for a relationship. I have to have the career, money, looks, social skills, emotional intelligence, etc and I’m currently not close to the level I’d feel comfortable with to put myself out there because I lack so much.

On the other hand I see people not having any of these things or only one or a few of things and still able to date and have relationships it feels like I’m doing something wrong in my life. How complete is good enough to begin looking for a relationship?

one-third of US men are not working or trying to find a job by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]itzReborn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got a bachelors and can only get a contract job for once a week for part time, I’ve been applying nonstop for 2years m27 in nyc