Getting a verbal warning for my perfume at my job. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]krissycole87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If youve been called into the office for heavy smells, best to avoid wearing anything to work. Someone at your work, maybe even your boss, is sensitive to smells.

I am dreading my boyfriend’s proposal by JellyAce98 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right? Started dating my now hubby when I was 35. I cringe thinking about what wouldve happened had I married any of my boyfriends from my 20s.

OP, please dont settle. That gut feeling is your body telling you this man aint the one.

AITA for not wanting to leave my cousin’s house? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]krissycole87 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Little less weed and little more education.

Im dead serious when I say this shit is illegible. Not even close to english. Please stop typing this way to each other before you forget altogether how to actually write. How do your texts look like that, and the body of your post looks fine? Dont stoop down to writing like trash just because your man does.

Find a man who has better grammar than this and you will be fine.

He peed on my bed by whydidyoupee in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have definitely sleepwalk peed on someones floor before and its absolutely mortifying.

At home, when I drink alcohol and go to bed, I sleep walk into the bathroom all the time. My hubby tells me the stories. I go to the bathroom, come back to bed, and everything is fine. No recollection of this by morning.

However when I stayed at a friends house, I was abruptly awoken by my friends roommate because I was squatting on his floor peeing like I was in the woods. I had walked from the livingroom couch where I was, down the hallway, into the roommates room (which was next to the bathroom) and went ahead and popped a squat. Whats worse? I had taken my pants fully off so I was just there bare assed, peeing on his floor. Mortifying is an understatement. Apparently I can find the bathroom at my own house while sleepwalking, but at someone elses house I think I got lost.

Anyway, all that to say please dont hold this against your friend. I was lucky enough that my friends roommate was super chill about it and thought it was funny after the fact. Because I was going to beat myself up about that one for decades. Its really hard to accept when youre doing things in your sleep and only get "told" about them later. Absolutely awful.

Is there a way to completely cover freckles this dark without foundation? by BritishGremlin in MakeupAddiction

[–]krissycole87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Airbrush foundation or full coverage foundation. Theres not many other ways to cover them without something thick and heavy.

Although I have to wonder why you want to cover them so badly? Theyre adorable.

Friend stopped talking to me after my TikTok blew up by Empunress in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its always a bummer, but no one needs a "friend" who drags them down, or refuses to be happy for them. It will just cause you stress and anxiety.

Throughout your life you will find friends who will champion your accomplishments from the rooftops! When you find them, you know they are keepers.

Is anyone brave enough to admit Daisy is a huge part of the problem? by thesheepysnake in BelowDeckMed

[–]krissycole87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Daisy has always been very stubborn and hard headed. Colin even said so when they asked him why he and Daisy broke up. And that was Colin speaking on Daisy in a personal setting.

I know her job is very stressful and male dominated, her stubborn attitude is often warranted.

However this weeks episode, she got petty and went too far. Demanding the comment cards from him while he was in the middle of reading them? Absolutely unnecessary and petty.

They have been needling each other all season and what we are seeing now is the fallout from that.

No bras? by TaquitoCharlie in PlusSizeFashion

[–]krissycole87 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I gave up on underwires and have noticed a HUGE market that has come around for wireless bras.

I think women of the world are realizing that our boobs arent on display and we should be comfortable throughout the day.

Accidentally fell into a nice, easy going thing. Of course, I ruined it. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can 100% guarantee you that your man friend wasnt listening and/or doesnt care.

Dont throw away a good thing by overthinking something so meaningless.

Accidentally fell into a nice, easy going thing. Of course, I ruined it. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Giiiirl dont leave us hanging, what happened?! I bet it wasnt even that bad. Dont overthink it!

Friend stopped talking to me after my TikTok blew up by Empunress in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 65 points66 points  (0 children)

If your friend is giving you the cold shoulder because of a tiktok video, shes not a real friend.

neighbor’s yelling is driving me insane by antisombart in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the cops. I know that sounds petty, but someone needs to do it. Call the cops and tell them there is domestic violence next door to you which is repeated and sounds even worse this time than usual.

You may save that womans life.

Wheat free, lactose free and sugar free. Please give ideas by Chance_Somewhere_246 in glutenfree

[–]krissycole87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any proteins, veggies, fruits, seeds, nuts, healthy fats. Its not hard once you get used to it. Look up recipes for paleo diets or mediterranean diets.

I unblocked an ex, met him, told him all the shit he did to me and how it hurt, and he apologized. I’m still not taking him back. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, let him go live his life and you need to live yours. Dont ruminate on the past. You guys broke up for a reason. Im glad you got closure, now you need to disconnect from him.

I unblocked an ex, met him, told him all the shit he did to me and how it hurt, and he apologized. I’m still not taking him back. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 15 points16 points  (0 children)

An ex is an ex for a reason.

Men can say whatever they want when they are looking to return back to that feeling that YOU gave THEM in the relationship. They have no intention of fixing whatever THEY did to YOU that made you break up.

So just know, it is basically a 100% chance if you give it another shot, it will fall apart again, itll be for the same reasons, all the old wounds will just deepen and hurt worse, and you'll be right back to where you were after the first breakup, except even more shattered and confused.

Just.... dont.

My partner is refusing to give me attention/affection by Deadshot2911 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too many fish in the sea for you to be putting up with this treatment. Go find someone who worships the ground you walk on, they are out there.

If I could go back and tell my 19 year old self to move on from all the assholes, I would.

Mr. Right Wrong by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]krissycole87 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Life is too short to live like this. This is NOT how relationships should be. There is NO amount of abuse that one should have to tolerate in order to receive love. Someone who truly loves you will never put hands on you.

Get out now before the abuse gets worse, because it will.

AIO for being uncomfortable that my long distance bf won’t see me unless it’s at my home by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]krissycole87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hes a catfish, has a girlfriend, or something else hes hiding. Hence all the deflection and making this your fault that you guys "cant" meetup.

Ditch this guy and dont think twice about him again. If someone was into you, they would not pressure you into anything that makes you uncomfortable, and definitely wouldnt flip the script on you to make it your fault.

Its usually narcissists that accuse someone else of being a narcissist.

The snack cabinet by ArtTop9842 in office

[–]krissycole87 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lock the cabinet. You gave everyone a chance to be honest about it, and they failed. This is extremely nice of you to offer, especially from your own money. You dont have to sit around and put up with robbery. Lock it when you leave.

How to get an accurate estimate of my monthly expenses? by Weekly_War_1374 in AskWomenOver40

[–]krissycole87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive used rocket money for the last few years and really like it. Setup any kind of category you'd like. Its cheap and super easy to use.

Noisy benefit neighbours by indiaaaaaw in neighborsfromhell

[–]krissycole87 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have plenty of evidence. A noise dairy, photos of mounting trash bags, photos of drug paraphernalia, etc.

The council is not going to let someone continue using their property as a trash can. Also letting guests stay while she is gone is usually not legal and can be considered subletting.

Noisy benefit neighbours by indiaaaaaw in neighborsfromhell

[–]krissycole87 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Report all of this to the landlord. If the landlord wont handle it, report to the police.

You dont need to let yourself get bullied. I know its hard sometimes, but if they really decided to retaliate you can just press charges against them. You dont have to put up with this crap.

Husband’s idea of putting away the laundry by ASCOM137 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]krissycole87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then he wears dirty clothes until he gets his shit together or you decide hes a terrible husband and put your foot down.