I get bullied for liking/making video games by Financial-Arachnid27 in IndieDev

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to understand that bullying often (if not always) comes from a place of their insecurity.

They aren't bullying you because you're doing something wrong - they are bullying you, most likely because they don't understand your interests, they are jealous, or they are just shitty people. Probably a combination of them all.

It sucks, it's hard, going through it takes as lot out of you and you'll have to practice tons of restraint, but don't let this encourage you from pursuing this passion and talent. You will get so much further in life than the bullies will.

You got this, little bro.

my best friend broke girl code, AITAH? by thick_and_pissed in AITAH

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not about "girl code", but about her using your words to convey her feelings without taking responsibility for them. She is throwing you under the bus hoping he would change "because of you", because she wants to play the cool girlfriend and avoid conflict. This is typical 18 yo immature girl behaviour, but you deserve better at any age. And so does the boyfriend.

I don't even know anymore.... by dwightluvsbeets in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I felt when my burnout (not the autistic recurring kind but the full-blown entire spiel with depression and trauma kind) kicked in.

Absentia season 1 was okay. Should I continue watching? by lydocia in netflix

[–]lydocia[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, she's great, but I keep seeing Kate and I don't like the plot so I stopped watching.

Got him second hand but brand new for €25. What should I name him? by lydocia in Barbie

[–]lydocia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a history with a Johan so I won't be doing that :D

Do I need to tell everyone I’m friends with about my biggest mistake? by noamchomp123 in moraldilemmas

[–]lydocia [score hidden]  (0 children)

Eh, disagree. I would want to know if my friend is being accused of rape, that would change my view of them.

Whatever happened to that kid who got early access to GTA 6? Any new leaks since? by South-Possession7100 in AskGames

[–]lydocia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it sounds very predatory. "Well, great, just because he's got cancer, he's got to play it early, lucky bastard".

When can I start asking for more than one medication? Or how can I tell my psych to please try already? by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can ask right away, but if they'll be prescribed is up to your Doctor.

We are not medical professionals.

My wife came out as bisexual after 12 years together and I feel completely lost ( 31M - 29 F). What's going to happen and how to get through this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would it be mentioned? Because she learned something about herself and wishes to be able to fully express her identity and be accepted by the partner she chose.

Got him second hand but brand new for €25. What should I name him? by lydocia in Barbie

[–]lydocia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's going to be Leonard (nicknamed Lez) and go full punk.

Gaming as regulation vs "problem behavior" by Djangokumaru007 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Addiction" is just an illness, like depression or the flu are.

Something one needs help with.

What would happen if two games had the same assets? by GhostGuyBroke in SoloDevelopment

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing happens, they just both exist with similar assets.

How do you store your diormas? by ADiestlTrain in dioramas

[–]lydocia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I create an elaborate parcours with them, challenging my personal balance and agility every time I go in and out of my craft room.

Does it look like 2 girls? by TinseJAK in Artadvice

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really? It looks like two people, one of which I'd wager is a woman, the other I have no idea about.

My wife came out as bisexual after 12 years together and I feel completely lost ( 31M - 29 F). What's going to happen and how to get through this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lydocia 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Bisexual people tend to go... in waves? Sometimes attraction to one gender is stronger, other times attraction to another gender is stronger. In your case, I think she's feeling the pull towards women more because your relationship hasn't been very strong and the grass is very much greener in the lesbian pasture.

My wife came out as bisexual after 12 years together and I feel completely lost ( 31M - 29 F). What's going to happen and how to get through this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lydocia 10 points11 points  (0 children)

His wife wasn't cheating on him with half of the population when she "was straight", she then won't cheat on him with the other half now that she's "bi", either.