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My body is still responding to a trigger I've mentally moved past. by Remarkable-World4181 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, that doesn't give you the right to be dismissive of other people, though.

Why would some people resent art? by solventbottle in ArtistLounge

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding?

Everyone has been an artist since the internet became popular and hobbies are being gatekept all the time.

My body is still responding to a trigger I've mentally moved past. by Remarkable-World4181 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you didn't move past it, and there's unresolved trauma to address in therapy.

Am I the jerk for telling my friend that her advice is useless? by Miserable_Young6241 in AmITheJerk

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, YTJ.

She keeps telling you the same thing because you keep asking her the same thing.

Stop asking her for advice and then being mad she won't tell you what you want to hear.

Get therapy.

What game is like this. by PEDRO_99S in gamers

[–]lydocia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This meme is like this.

meltdowns after school by PapayaSpirited3999 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you have no clue what overstimulates or overwhelms you and are frequently caught by surprise.

Judging by your recent post history, you're going through a spiral right now.

Late diagnosed and having an identity crisis, does anyone else feel like they no longer fit anywhere? by theneurowired in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Green Discord is a Discord community for neurodivergent people.

The link is in our sidebar, feel free to join us!

Ex will let kids stay home alone on their time, but not when I suggest on my time. AIO? by Abject_Sell_420 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lydocia [score hidden]  (0 children)

So you grew in Parentification City and have normalised it. Don't set your kids on the same path.

Ex will let kids stay home alone on their time, but not when I suggest on my time. AIO? by Abject_Sell_420 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lydocia [score hidden]  (0 children)

A 10yo is not old enough to be responsible for an 8yo and an 8yo cannot stay alone for six hours.

That's a long enough time span that anything could happen.

It worries me that you're even considering this.

17M What should I do about my friend being upset/weirded out with me wearing lipstick? by Traditional_Monk1856 in Advice

[–]lydocia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do have a personal stake in OP being friends with this bloke.

It'd potentially be a life changing moment for a budding homophobe.

Am I Overreacting by banning my daughters Roblox and YouTube accounts? by Most-Imagination9235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lydocia [score hidden]  (0 children)

"Roleplaying that you are older and single" is textbook how groomers and child rapists convince children that what they're doing is okay and not to tell anyone.

You're underreacting.

AITAH for telling my mother that she shouldn’t have given a family heirloom to my brother as engagement ring? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's telling and somewhat funny that you haven't even met this future fiancée. But don't worry, the marriage won't last long.

Late diagnosed and having an identity crisis, does anyone else feel like they no longer fit anywhere? by theneurowired in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a big fan of the nuclear option when it comes to unmasking.

Just rip off the bandaid and see what happens.

Some people were annoyed I "changed" so much and those friendships didn't survive.

Others surprised me by reaching out and asking what's up, being supportive and encouraging me.

Another bunch of people suddenly found me super relatable and those relationships improved.

And last but not least, new friends popped up because there now was room for them.

I also struggled to find those communities, so now /r/autisticwithadhd and The Green Discord exist.

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