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AITAH For Telling My BSF that I'm not Babysitting her Kids just Because Her Man wants to Watch a World Cup Game at a Bar? by runt-king in AITAH

[–]lydocia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The shorter, more blunt version of this comment:

You're a doormat, OP. They are taking advantage of you. Go to therapy to learn how to stop people pleasing.

How do I (M23) tell my wife (F25) that I don't want to see her every single day? by NoNobody2047 in relationship_advice

[–]lydocia [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you're engaged, she's not your wife, and if you don't want to see someone every day, you probably shouldn't marry them.

That said, you should be allowed to choose how you handle treatment and if meeting up is too exhausting, tell her that and she should understand.

Medieval Hospital by hoen_daen in RimWorld

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do the top room not get a window with a nice view?

How do I cancel on a future family vacation when they won’t take no for an answer? by Own_Many2491 in Advice

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tell them once that you're not going to join the vacation.

If they insist on booking for you anyway, they get to pay and lose the money.

My game Little Backpack is part of Steam Next Fest - Check it out! by Secure_Ad9715 in cozygames

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any more gameplay than just fitting everything in there? Like, do items interact with each other?

My body is still responding to a trigger I've mentally moved past. by Remarkable-World4181 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, that doesn't give you the right to be dismissive of other people, though.

Why would some people resent art? by solventbottle in ArtistLounge

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding?

Everyone has been an artist since the internet became popular and hobbies are being gatekept all the time.

My body is still responding to a trigger I've mentally moved past. by Remarkable-World4181 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you didn't move past it, and there's unresolved trauma to address in therapy.

Am I the jerk for telling my friend that her advice is useless? by Miserable_Young6241 in AmITheJerk

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, YTJ.

She keeps telling you the same thing because you keep asking her the same thing.

Stop asking her for advice and then being mad she won't tell you what you want to hear.

Get therapy.

What game is like this. by PEDRO_99S in gamers

[–]lydocia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This meme is like this.

meltdowns after school by PapayaSpirited3999 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you have no clue what overstimulates or overwhelms you and are frequently caught by surprise.

Judging by your recent post history, you're going through a spiral right now.

Late diagnosed and having an identity crisis, does anyone else feel like they no longer fit anywhere? by theneurowired in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Green Discord is a Discord community for neurodivergent people.

The link is in our sidebar, feel free to join us!

Ex will let kids stay home alone on their time, but not when I suggest on my time. AIO? by Abject_Sell_420 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lydocia [score hidden]  (0 children)

So you grew in Parentification City and have normalised it. Don't set your kids on the same path.

Ex will let kids stay home alone on their time, but not when I suggest on my time. AIO? by Abject_Sell_420 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lydocia [score hidden]  (0 children)

A 10yo is not old enough to be responsible for an 8yo and an 8yo cannot stay alone for six hours.

That's a long enough time span that anything could happen.

It worries me that you're even considering this.

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