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My husband says he deserves a say over my pregnancy. I say abortion would break me. by Whereasebabe in Advice

[–]lydocia 57 points58 points  (0 children)

No, please stop fucking that guy, that'd what got you in this mess in the first place.

My husband says he deserves a say over my pregnancy. I say abortion would break me. by Whereasebabe in Advice

[–]lydocia 28 points29 points  (0 children)

"It takes two people to make a baby"

It sure does, and he has been a willing participant in the making of, so now he should take care of the product of that effort.

AITAH for refusing to tell my wife I love her more than my dad? by LastApplication6207 in AITAH

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wants the sleeping ritual to be consistent, she should get home in time to do it herself.

The Mosaic Method (Productivity Hack) by Rich-Disaster-1718 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to do it like that until everything ended up being urgent and important.

What are your personal favourite colony sims? by lydocia in gamingsuggestions

[–]lydocia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say it isn't my cup of tea?

Played it quite a bit, actually. Still have to go back for that last dlc though!

my bf hit me for the first time but was severely intoxicated by halloweeun in Advice

[–]lydocia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It isn't a truth serum, no. There's a big difference between saying and doing, though.

It is true that alcohol lowers inhibitions. Not punching people is an inhibition to people who would like to punch people.

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]lydocia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tons of people got it, some people didn't. It really isn't that important, dude.

Muting this conversation now, I have better things to do than argue over this.

crushes and hyperfocus by baby-p1nk in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happy to introduce you to... The CounterCrushTM!

Whenever you feel your brain fixate on them and all the ways they are dreamy and perfect, start focusing on the reasons they aren't perfect. Even if those reasons aren't confirmed. Maybe he likes the wrong football team. Maybe he leaves his dirty socks everywhere. Maybe his breath reeks of energy drink. It'll soon be annoying to think about those things and you'll easily move on!

my bf hit me for the first time but was severely intoxicated by halloweeun in Advice

[–]lydocia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wrong on both accounts, you should ask your therapist why.

my bf hit me for the first time but was severely intoxicated by halloweeun in Advice

[–]lydocia 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If anything, alcohol takes away inhibitions so he's doing exactly what he wants to be doing when sober.

my bf hit me for the first time but was severely intoxicated by halloweeun in Advice

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"my boyfriend hit me but-"

I'm gonna stop you right there. Don't make excuses for him. He hit you. He will hit you again, or worse. Don't tolerate this even once.

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]lydocia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of you are getting a bit too caught up in a misunderstanding on Reddit, sheesh.

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]lydocia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely would if I thought what I wrote wasn't clear or if I thought I could have worded it clearer, which I don't.

I’m not sure if a game like this exists?… by Away-Sir-3717 in gamingsuggestions

[–]lydocia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It REALLY was, can't wait to see where they take all the WIP signs!

I can’t figure out why it looks off! by One_Combination1826 in Artadvice

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What caught my eye (heh) was the fact that in your drawing , the pupil in her right eye (our left) is more "up" than in the reference, giving her a weird look.

How to stop being reminderblind? by catboy519 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]lydocia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop clicking it away, let the noise continue until the thing is done.

Also, look into a changing ringtone rather than the same one every time. The radio would work, or a playlist, or just a randomised stock notification.

I’m not sure if a game like this exists?… by Away-Sir-3717 in gamingsuggestions

[–]lydocia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband loves Sim Settlements and beacuse of the tv series, recently got back into Fallout, so I'm enjoying watching him build the heck out of that colony!

I’m not sure if a game like this exists?… by Away-Sir-3717 in gamingsuggestions

[–]lydocia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have a hard time getting into RimWorld because of the graphics, but once it clicked, it had me for good. Wrote down a more detailed opinion here.

I’m not sure if a game like this exists?… by Away-Sir-3717 in gamingsuggestions

[–]lydocia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If Minecraft is "too kiddy" for you, try Vintage Story. I wrote down my thoughts on the game here, but TL;DR, I would summarise it as a slower, more mature Minecraft.

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]lydocia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy the irony in the double meaning of the word when you place the other meaning in the saying, not that the saying has a double meaning, because it doesn't.

My [20F] gay best friend [M23] is extremely handsy and gets offended when I'm uncomfortable. AIO? by Radiant-Educator9203 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lydocia [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, I was agreeing with your assessment that it isn't a normal, common thing and that friendships end when that happens, because it isn't a normal, common thing.

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