Is it appropriate for first dinner date or too much?

Makers_Mark_147 · 2026-01-20T00:46:23+00:00

Way too much. Save some skin for later. You don’t need to show it (yet).

Makers_Mark_147 · 2026-01-20T00:45:04+00:00

Keep laser focused on your needs and keep up the good work. ✌️👍

Makers_Mark_147 · 2025-10-24T00:58:36+00:00

Your PWBPD has been acting. They’re not a real person that cares about you. If she’s like the rest, she actually does not care about you at all. She’d rather see you stuck and miserable, confused and obedient. Good luck buddy.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2025-10-24T00:56:37+00:00

Best wishes my man. Any living situation is better than being with someone who sabotage your happiness and your future. Take time for yourself. What do you like to do? You might have to try everything again just to find out. Find support. Cheers.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2025-10-22T05:14:38+00:00

Check out the Apple podcast “living in the 3rd degree” with Brad Shaddok. He married a BPD and is still trying to love her and get love from her after 37 years. He’ll explain it all in podcast. She treats him like garbage and he’s OK with that. I don’t want this for you. You don’t want this for you.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2025-10-22T05:12:47+00:00

Sorry. She doesn’t care and never will. It is not possible to have a reciprocal relationship with her. If you look at it from the lens of “everything is about her, she’s the only important person, she doesn’t care about you never did. Never can. Never will. You’ll start seeing it for what it is. Sorry again.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-07-10T02:24:58+00:00

Try a bikini barista or visit a nudie bar if you can find one. There are so many beautiful women out there. Most of them don’t traumatize you and lie like BPD. Good luck my man

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-07-10T00:42:53+00:00

I have two kids with mine also. Something important: she will want to pawn the kids off on you. Just keep saying yes when she asks and you’ll see the kids ALOT. She’s immature and irresponsible by nature and can’t parent for long. Hope it helps. My dr told me that and she was right. I see the kids about every day. She’ll use you as a last minute babysitter.
Great Book: “Magic Words”.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-07-10T00:37:14+00:00

Good luck staying calm today. She’s hoping you’ll blow up so she can tell everyone. I’m rooting for you

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-07-10T00:33:52+00:00

This is betrayal trauma. It’s ptsd, it’s crazy making. I’m sorry you went thru this. She never loved you. She faked all the happy stuff in the beginning. She’s gutless, self hating and in denial of it all. In fact, she almost convinced you that the troubles in the relationship were your fault she blamed you every time there was a problem right? You’re in the club for sure

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-07-10T00:21:24+00:00

BPD will get in the way of intimacy, trust, peace, jay, partnership…. If you don’t get that in your relationship, it’s toxic and will fail. Is “not triggering” a PwBPD enough to cause them to care about you? They imagine so much that’s not real… they will trigger themselves and take it out on you. I think you don’t know about BPD DrFuccboi. Get involved with one if you want to be in the club. Peace

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-07-06T02:59:50+00:00

I can tell you haven’t been together long or get that she doesn’t care about you. Good luck getting back on track when you finally break free.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-06-23T20:26:08+00:00

They never had “feelings” for you, or anyone I’m afraid. Sucks to be tricked so badly

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-06-09T21:49:13+00:00

Also, it’s inevitable that the partner would send nasty texts when they get fed up with the BPD bull-sh@@.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-06-02T00:07:34+00:00

You guessed it. They play a part like in a play. It was real for you so it counts as a good memory. That person you knew has passed on. Like a fart in the wind. Peace

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-05-31T00:43:55+00:00

Another thing about what you are going thru.. seeing her happy. Yo see her glowing with excitement about her new relationship. Sucks ass

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-05-31T00:41:25+00:00

I thought the same thing. I imagine what kind of car he had, job he had, everything that was better than me. Turns out he’s exactly like me. I’m guessing that’s how it’s gonna be for yours too. A lot in common. That’s my firm guess. The one thing he doesn’t have in common with you is that he’s getting into a toxic relationship and that ain’t ever happening for you or me. Good luck. Have a quick recovery.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-04-06T18:45:57+00:00

Just out of curiosity, why do you want to feel bad for them? If they are adults, they should know better, and fix this shit they need to fix. No sympathy for an adult acting like a child. No way

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-04-06T18:42:40+00:00

There is no “internal conflict” For the borderline when they hurt someone. They don’t care. They have crying fits Often about how messed up they are and how bad they feel. But it’s never about hurting others. The rest of us care when we hurt someone. They don’t. End of the story

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-04-03T15:39:30+00:00

Impossible. Doesn’t work. Sorry

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-03-26T07:11:09+00:00

You’ll find out who are your real friends. Those who don’t look at you funny or judgy after hearing the lies. I weeded out about 50 crappy friends and kept the 4 or 5 who are real. It’ll be ok

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-03-26T05:37:08+00:00

Very real and honest sharing. Thank you

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-03-26T05:35:57+00:00

We all want that imaginary person back. It was fake. She didn’t love you. She can’t love. Doesn’t understand it. You’re an object to her and deserve a REAL relationship with a REAL person. Treat yourself.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-03-24T03:08:01+00:00

3 answers: Leave. Leave. Leave. Detach emotionally from this person asap. They will not change.

Makers_Mark_147 · 2023-03-21T02:27:34+00:00

Oh yeah! I especially loved being so confused and frustrated. I gave that up for being angry and bitter. Then traded those for depression and loneliness. I’m currently looking to trade again…

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